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Why am I here?  

Joejo613 57M
35 posts
7/20/2021 2:56 am

Last Read:
9/22/2021 3:56 am

Why am I here?

I've been in long term relationships for most of my adult life. I've only been single for about 6 months. During the covid lock it was hard as hell. Having a partner than being alone is big shock.

I tried to make a go at marriage and it didn't work. Relationships are hard to maintain. It 's a lot of effort, investment of time, money and emotion. So, I had to face a few realities. I need to get to know who I am because I was always an us. I also have to face the reality that I have a hard time maintaining relationships.

I tried POF but I wasn't ready for another relationship. I realized this with the first two women I met. Also, some of the people there are rude and arrogant. Im not the type to take shit from anyone. I say it like it is. I am so done with drama, bossiness, possessiveness. I like living alone in the sense that it's a freedom from responsibility to someone else. However, I do companionship

I don't want anything to do with the dating scene. Too much fucking posing...fuck that. I prefer being in a situation where people know what they want and they don't have to play head games. And, my x familiarized me with this society. So here I am. And, I hope to meet some local people and make real friends.

𝓣𝓱𝓮 𝓸𝓷𝓵𝔂 𝓽𝓱𝓲𝓷𝓰 𝓫𝓮𝓽𝓽𝓮𝓻 𝓽𝓱𝓪𝓷 𝓼𝓮𝔁 𝓲𝓼 𝓹𝓮𝓷 𝓽𝓸 𝓹𝓪𝓹𝓮𝓻 𝓪𝓷𝓭 𝓪𝓷 𝓮𝔁𝓹𝓵𝓸𝓼𝓲𝓸𝓷 𝓸𝓯 𝓹𝓻𝓸𝓼𝓮. - 𝓙𝓸𝓼𝓮𝓹𝓱

Stellaj22 50T

9/17/2021 7:31 pm

pof is a pos site been there also. marrage sucks .i could fill this whole thing but i will get ill thinking about wasting so much of my life on smeone that had no respect for me

Joejo613 replies on 9/17/2021 8:19 pm:
Stella, You and I could probably have a drink together and exchange ssories and feast on each others pain. I'm still not over mine but I'm getting better. I'll never be the same man Though. I'm more empathetic than I was before. Thank you for sharing your thoughts.

Joejo613 57M
46 posts
7/30/2021 11:19 am

Thank you Author. It's a Joy to see you, as always.

𝓣𝓱𝓮 𝓸𝓷𝓵𝔂 𝓽𝓱𝓲𝓷𝓰 𝓫𝓮𝓽𝓽𝓮𝓻 𝓽𝓱𝓪𝓷 𝓼𝓮𝔁 𝓲𝓼 𝓹𝓮𝓷 𝓽𝓸 𝓹𝓪𝓹𝓮𝓻 𝓪𝓷𝓭 𝓪𝓷 𝓮𝔁𝓹𝓵𝓸𝓼𝓲𝓸𝓷 𝓸𝓯 𝓹𝓻𝓸𝓼𝓮. - 𝓙𝓸𝓼𝓮𝓹𝓱

author51 59F  
130010 posts
7/30/2021 6:22 am

This site can also have a lot of drama and all the others sites entail. Take it with a grain of salt. Relationships are indeed hard to maintain for a lot of us.. Good luck finding what it is you are looking for here.. xoxo

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