The Joy of Giving
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Posted:Jul 3, 2018 9:29 am
Last Updated:Jul 5, 2018 4:07 am
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I think all of us have gotten a good feeling when we take the time to give the perfect gift to someone for some occasion or maybe no special occasion at all. But you probably put extra thoughts in to picking the perfect gift and took the time needed to find it. You’ve given that person a joyous moment that they will not soon forget and their excitement has made you feel extra appreciated and a feeling of pride for what you have done for them.
I recommend we apply that to the Joy of Giving Unforgettable Sex.
I mean making Love to your partner in such a way as to provide him or her with the most remarkable and memorable feeling they ever experienced. Get away from that few minutes of bouncing around the sheets, having a quick release, cleaning up with someone’s dirty towel and getting back to the normal grind. Make it extra special. Become the Goddess of Love.
Just like finding the perfect gift, put some thought in to planning the perfect sex.
What does your partner what? What can you do to give them the ultimate pleasure?
Here’s how I plan the perfect sexual experience;
First, dress in a sensual way. Not slutty, but in a stylishly sexy way. Think about what they will see first. Do your hair and fingernails with a little more care.
Second, prepare the atmosphere for a relaxing evening. Make sure the room is neat and clean with a touch of anticipation. Low lighting, soft background music and have the bed partially turned down. Scented candles can help but don’t get ones with an overpowering aroma.
Third, greet them with gentle hug. Don’t open the door and grab their crouch and ram your tongue down their throat. Maybe have on just a dab of subtle mysterious perfume.
Have their favorite drink available if you know what it is. If you don’t know, go with a dry white wine like a Sauvignon Blanc only slightly chilled.
Forth, and most important, slow things down. A little conversation unrelated to sex to start things off. The old “How was your day?” always works. Delay or completely avoid sex talk. Nothing can kill the moment faster for me then hearing the word “FUCK” in any context. Such a vile, degrading word for a time when passionate pleasure is the plan for the evening.
The rest of the evening is up to him or her. Follow their lead but keep it in the slow lane. You want to create a memory not a blurry image of lustfulness,
A closing note, the next day give them a call and tell them you had the most wonderful evening even though you’re the one that gave the perfect gift.
Jan
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The ABCs of Sex
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Posted:Jul 2, 2018 9:21 am
Last Updated:Jul 3, 2018 5:27 am
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Since our youngest days, things that are simple have been described as “Easy as ABC”. We have all used that expression as emphasis when explaining things to others.
But now, I want to give you my definition of The ABCs of Sex. It came to me this morning while having my coffee.
A - Alcohol, meaning a good drink or two to relax you. My preference is Cognac late at night. It heightens my erotic senses slowly both mentally and physically.
B - Bakery, like a nice piece of chocolate cake, eaten slowly while sipping the Cognac. Good , rich chocolate is a natural aphrodisiac when taken slowly in small quantity.
C- Cock. There is no purpose in having the A and B without the C. (Now you could have the three Cs; Cognac, Chocolate, Cock but that doesn’t fit in to the ABCs of Sex which is catchier)
Just image this; a nice dry cognac and the sweetness of chocolate blending pleasantly over your tongue with a beautiful erect cock as a straw.
Sip, savor and suck slowly until all passionate ingredients are mixed well.
Jan
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Is Sperm a Narcotic?
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Posted:Jun 30, 2018 7:43 am
Last Updated:Jul 2, 2018 8:17 pm
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Simple answer, ABSOLUTELY YES!
Any Dictionary (maybe Dick-tionary for this discussion) will tell you that a Narcotic is “any of class of substances that blunt the senses that in large quantities produce euphoria, stupor or coma”.
Sperm certainly can do all that and it doesn’t really need to be in large quantities.
Think a moment about the marvels of Sperm.
It can be taken in several ways;
Orally - Medically described as “TAKEN BY MOUTH” and also the quickest way to digest or absorb.
Topically - Applied to the outer skin for a soothing effect like a lotion.
Injection - For those of you without a good imagination, by a cock inserted somewhere in another body. Often referred to as FUCKED.
and then:
It is Legal in all 50 States. In fact, there are very few limitations on distribution.
Easily transportable. No need for special packaging such as refrigeration. Special “handling” is however recommended.
Storage not a problem. Usually come in its own easy to use dispenser.
Readily available. A batch can be “Whipped Up” in a matter of minutes without special tools or equipment.
Supply is unlimited. Half the world produces Sperm. Also, its a Renewable Resource.
Price is reasonable. Often, Sperm can be acquired at no cost from a qualified distributor.
The proper definition of a Narcotic continuous with this. “When used constantly can cause addiction (A-Dick-tion) and can be used to receive pain, cause sedation and induce sleep.”
A good dose of Sperm usually causes all three to occur.
In closing, my thanks to all the Sperm Distributors out there. The world is truly a better place Thanks to you.
In Appreciation,
Jan
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The Truth about Transsexuals
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Posted:Jun 26, 2018 9:58 am
Last Updated:Jul 24, 2018 12:12 pm
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First of all, lets set things straight. A Transexual is different from a Crossdresser (CD). CD’s are a different community. Transexuals probably started out as a CD, but Transexuals have gone further. I have many friends in the CD community and respect them for their lifestyle and the pleasure they achieve from crossdressing.
Whereas most CDs are limited in choices for so many reasons, Transexuals have been able to journey down the path to total feminization.
Now, about Transexuals;
We are not all sex addicts. Yes, sexuality plays a large part in our decision to Transition but after a Transexual gets to the level of womanhood they comfortably want, they mostly have a normal sex drive. The exception, in my experience, there has been a slight increases in sexual desire probably a side effect of hormone therapy. This is normal.
Let’s not ignore the fact that being able to make love as a woman is the goal of most of us Transexuals.
Please don’t confuse Porn images of Transexuals as real like.
We take very good care of our bodies. It’s like getting a new car. You wash it, shine it and show it off. It took a lot of work to get here and we are proud of what we have achieved.
We tend to groom/dress better than most women. Looking as good as we can is important to us. I have never met a sloppy Transexual. Taking the time to groom ourselves properly is a pleasure much more than necessary. Finding that out of place eyebrow hair or making sure my nails are done well is just part and parcel of our new life.
We have jobs. Far and away, the vast majority of us Transexuals, work for a living. A few may be Kept Women or have a but most of us are hard working women. Not in Porn or but average jobs.
We don’t have spontaneous sex. Speaking for myself and some others I’ve asked. we take up to 2 hours to get ready for a date. We just can’t drop everything and run out the door for a quickie. We need more time than natural women to prepare ourselves properly.
We have interests besides sex. Just like all other people, we have things we enjoy besides sex. We are no different when it comes to spare time and doing things we enjoy. I recently met a Transexual that is a hospital volunteer on the weekends. Did you ever think about that?
We enjoy life outside the bedroom.
Yes, some of us still have a penis. Total Transition varies widely among Transexuals. For various reasons, some of us do not not have gender reassignment surgery. Most of us are not wealthy like Caitlyn (Bruce) Jenner (estimated wealth $100Million) thus the expense is an issue. For others it could be religion, fear of surgical procedures or sexual preference (being a top).
A lot of us have boyfriends or husbands and even some have wives. Yes, we have companions we share our life with. We are not sex crazed zombies roaming the streets looking for sex.
A sexual encounter outside a relationship is just as normal for a Transexual as a man or woman may have a fling outside a marriage.
There, I said it!
Jan
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Good news?
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Posted:Jun 26, 2018 9:20 am
Last Updated:Apr 19, 2024 4:7 pm
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This was reported in the news today;
The U.N. health agency known as the World Health Organization (WH announced that individuals who claim to be transgender no longer have a mental illness.
Anticipating the upcoming publication of the 11thedition of its International Classification of Diseases (ICD), the WHO states it has removed gender incongruence from its list of mental illnesses in order “to reduce the stigma” that may come with claiming to be a gender that is incongruent with one’s actual biological sex. The WHO states the move will promote “better social acceptance of individuals living with gender incongruence.”
Doesn’t this just make you so Happy! Time to party, the UN doesn’t think we’re not nutjobs anymore.
Most parts of the world have shown greater acceptance of Transgendered for years so the U.N. finally got onboard. About time.
Jan
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Emotional Swings in 4 Hours
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Posted:Jun 25, 2018 11:02 am
Last Updated:Apr 19, 2024 4:7 pm
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I was in Atlantic City this past weekend with my Boyfriend and something very unexpected happened causing me to experience several emotions in a short period of time.
It started by falling down three stairs in the casino and spraining my left ankle. I wasn’t drunk or wearing 6” heels. I just had forgotten to concentrate on the task at hand, going down steps. Could happen to anyone.
Half a dozen Tropicana Security staff were there within seconds and summoned an on-duty medical technician who quickly said to go to an Emergency Room. I really believe that meant “Get out of the casino before you think about filing an Incident Report”.
No problem since it hurt like hell and we were actually on our way to check out anyway.
Tropicana folks got a Wheel Chair for me and got us to Valet Parking with directions to the closest Emergency Room about five/six blocks away. I guess they have had a few of these instances before since they had preprinted directions
Here’s where I started having mood swings. Even in this fairly bright new facility, the Emergency Waiting area is depressing. Old people, sick people, poor people. What a shock when minutes before I was in a casino full of young, happy people having fun. And, no offense to anyone, all kinds of languages. Images of Ellis Island in the 1920s came to mind.
I think because I had good insurance, we were shown to an Examination Room ahead of most people in the Waiting Room. It certainly wasn’t because I was in more destress than some of them.
Soon a young Doctor came in, felt my ankle, ask a few questions and told me it was “probably” a sprain not a broken ankle but an X-ray was needed to confirm that. A young nurse or technician came in and wheeled me over to the X-ray room, took a couple X-rays and wheeled me back to the Exam Room where Richard and I waited for a good thirty minutes before the first doctor came back.
Yes, a level three sprain. I didn’t know sprains came in different levels but it sounded better than a break so I started feeling better. Then things really got better when the doctor asked if needed any drugs for the pain. Oh yes, give me drugs I said.
He told me I should stay off my feet and when I get back home, lay down and my leg elevated above my head to reduce the swelling.
Now it’s hard to express the joy I was feeling. I’ll be drugged, laying on my back, legs in the air all under doctors orders. I had to smile at my boyfriend thinking about all the possibilities after getting home and following doctors orders. I just hope he has the stamina to help me through my recovery period.
As we were leaving, going back through the still crowed Waiting Room I couldn’t help but think how lucky I was. Good prognosis and recommended home treatment. More later on me home “care”.
Jan
PS, if you ever start feeling down about your life, go to an Emergency Room waiting area and look around. I guarantee you will leave there thinking “My life isn’t so bad”.
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Names/Terms I hate
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Posted:Jun 24, 2018 10:49 am
Last Updated:Jun 26, 2018 2:19 am
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These words have bothered me for a long time. I just don’t like them!
Shemale - Term created by the Porn industry to lump together many types of people. This includes Crossdressers, Transexuals, Transgender, Hermaphrodites, Drag Queens and so on. It really implies that anyone of these types are in the Porn business. In reality, we’re all different and deserves to be addressed individually.
Clitty - It’s a COCK, call it that.
Fuck Buddy - The sex act really shouldn’t be treated with such casualness. Having sex is so beautiful, I hate to see it lowered to the level of fun like Golf Buddies, Drinking Buddies, Poker Buddies or any “fun” activity. Sex involves much more emotion and physical pleasure than anything that you can do with a Buddy. Give it some respect please.
Booty - Really means a big Fat Ass and certainly doesn’t give the mental image of an erogenous part of the body. I’d rather hear “Nice ass” than Booty.
Cock Hound - To me, this is so degrading. Just because someone desires a male companion for passion doesn’t mean they are sex crazed. Doesn’t it sound a person sniffing crotches.
Maybe you have some others in mind. Let me know.
Jan
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Jan's Thoughts
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Posted:Jun 22, 2018 11:22 am
Last Updated:Jun 25, 2018 11:03 am
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There are so many things I think about or need answers to, this blog is a way of getting to know people outside the bedroom.
As a Transexual I have had many events in the last few years that I want to share plus as my life continues I am always seeking advise from others.
My thought's are random and come up throughout the day.
Love to all,
Jan
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