Converations
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Posted:Feb 26, 2016 6:52 pm
Last Updated:Feb 26, 2016 8:13 pm
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I recently had a conversation with a man and things did not go well. He was asking me a lot of questions almost rapid fire and I was getting a little frustrated with him. The questions were the typical, what are you looking for, what do you like.
My question is why do we feel the need to dissect sex? Yes this is a sex site and we are here looking to hook up, but do we need to pull it apart before we decide if that person is the right one for us?
Admittedly some of these questions are need to find out compatibility, but whatever happened to learning about a person, in person? In a world of electronics, we have forgotten what its like to learn about someone in the real world.
The other thing about the conversation I am referencing, is that he is not someone I am ever going to meet in all likelihood. He lives way to far away and there was not any real attraction on my part. I cannot speak for him in that case and would not presume to.
I feel I had made this clear to him, but he just kept up the questions on what was my favorite position, what would I do with him if he was there with me? These are not questions I felt like answering, I believe I even asked what was the point because we were not going to meet.
I am not against asking and answering questions to get to know someone, but I guess I am a bit old fashion in that I want to know some basics to see if there is compatibility. After that I feel that until I meet someone in person, I will not know for sure what will happen when we get together.
We could meet and decide that we are not attracted to each other, have some great conversation but sex is just not going to be part of it. But then again, we could have some great sex, you never know.
So in conversations, I would like to know what you are looking for and what you are interested in, but I will never ask what you think might happen if we meet. Because until we actually meet in person (if we do) neither of us really know what is going to happen.
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Choices
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Posted:Jan 24, 2016 3:34 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2016 9:26 am
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I feel on this site women have many more options than men do. However when we make a choice it would be nice if others would respect that. You do not have to like it, but please do not attempt to tell me I am wrong. My choices are just that MY choices not yours.
There have been 2 incidents within the last month on this site that have irritated me beyond belief with people who 'question' my choices.
The first was in the chat/IM. When I told the man talking to me that I was not interested in him because he is married (a line I will not cross) he got pushy and tried telling me that he is the man for me and I should basically shut up and listen.
THAT was NOT going to happen!!!
I am a grown ass woman and very independent. No man tells me what I should do unless I give you that control and I certainly did not in that chat.
He got blocked!
The second incident was a rather rude email to start with and I told the guy if that he how he treats women in general in real life, it is not any wonder he does not have a woman in his life.
He has since proceeded to send rude emails to me and I have told him repeatedly that he is not an option in my world and politely asked him to stop talking to me. He has not and today has found himself blocked as well.
I respect everyone else's choices, please respect mine. Again you do not have to like them, but you do not know me well enough to judge them. Have some common decency.
These are my Choices.....
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