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Imthatgirl1122 38F
1330 posts
7/11/2020 4:14 am

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I dont understand


I always thought that I'm the cool easy going kinda girl, I know pretty much the unwritten rules of how this FWB, ONS, fuck buddy works. usually when I met someone and we had good sex and wanted make it regular, I always told them upfront that if in the future the situation changed in anyway and meeting is no longer possible then just let me know and I'll be gone. vice versa. no headache, no drama, no hard feeling. just pure fun.

and it always works for me. until now. so at the moment I have 3 fuck buddies. and I found out that the one which is the youngest lied to me. how I found out was pretty easy actually but lets keep that a secret haha. it started when COVID started and he said that he needs to go back to his county and then one month later he said he quit his job here but will come back for couple of days just to sort his stuff. while the fact that he is here all along and still working at the place.

now all of you will think, nah Indi, he just doesn't want to meet anymore. yeah, thats exactly whats on my mind. not a big deal. but when he lied of where he was, he kept texting me almost every day (and I never ever text him first) and made plan to meet. I still play along with it.

I'm definitely too old for this kind of shit. don't tell that I'm naive but I seriously don't understand whats going on? what's the point of this drama? is there any purpose at it? it just don't make sense. why the lies? even I didn't make this kinda drama with my last ex.

well.. sorry for the rant, it just bothered my mind at the moment. yeah I won't along much longer, just waiting for the right time. he likes drama so ill give him some.

updated (13july): yeah, he's gone. I did let him know that I know. and as usual, he didn't reply. so much for being a gentleman. felt so relieve now. thanks everyone that commented on this blog. helped me a lot.

Imthatgirl1122 38F
1655 posts
7/11/2020 4:16 am

hows everyone doing?


profcoquin27bis 55M
3204 posts
7/11/2020 5:07 am

i understand your point of view


Imthatgirl1122 replies on 7/11/2020 7:50 am:
well thank you...

author51 57F  
96442 posts
7/11/2020 5:19 am

You are in good company my friend as it happens to all of us with bull shitters here no matter the age..Sorry he was one Hun and I would say you are well rid of him.I would say two is more than plenty to handle..You best make sure you continue having safe sex and myself during COVID 19 there is no way that I would but to each their own my friend..Just stay healthy and stay SAFE!!!!!! xoxo

One can never have enough JOY in their life...


Imthatgirl1122 replies on 7/11/2020 7:52 am:
Joy, I miss you soooo much. yeah thanks I agree with you. just couldn't get my head around it though. how are you doing?

1seeking1 55F
3127 posts
7/11/2020 6:34 am

Only he can answer why. Life is too precious for BS and drama, stay safe.


Imthatgirl1122 replies on 7/11/2020 7:52 am:
im so agree with you. thanks a lot. stay safe too friend.

ltrskr 72M  
4336 posts
7/11/2020 6:52 am

Block him and Roll-On........
Life is toooo short for petty drama!


Imthatgirl1122 replies on 7/11/2020 12:24 pm:
I agree with you life indeed too short. thanks a lot

alex_2225 36M
1 post
7/11/2020 7:06 am

You are too HOT to let go.


Imthatgirl1122 replies on 7/11/2020 7:53 am:
thanks a lot. if you nearer, ill come to pick you up and buy you a drink or two

jajo696 65F
2222 posts
7/11/2020 7:26 am

oh brother...people are such liars. Glad you found out and he needs to know that you know he is a liar. What a disappointment !

No worries about the rant. Its YOUR blog to do with as you wish. And pay no mind to the naysayers......you gotta do you !!

Good luck with the liar.....lol ~~


Imthatgirl1122 replies on 7/11/2020 12:25 pm:
thank you...you made me feel so much better...I totally gonna let him know before I blocked him. thanks again

funiithesun58 62M
1168 posts
7/11/2020 7:28 am

Block his ass and move on


Imthatgirl1122 replies on 7/11/2020 12:25 pm:
thanks a lot. will do.

Leegs2012 47M
54518 posts
7/11/2020 10:23 am

Move forward. You do not need this kind of stuff...especially now a days. Stay Safe!!


Imthatgirl1122 replies on 7/11/2020 12:26 pm:
I know right...we are in pandemic and he still have time for this. thank you

Mr_Mercedes 59M
204 posts
7/11/2020 11:06 pm

You probably shouldn’t keep messing with what you don’t understand. You’re too sweet.


You are in my most inappropriate thoughts...


DoctorBooty 39M  
6335 posts
7/12/2020 8:00 am

Yeah, he's lying out of habit, thinking if he told you the truth that you'd drop him and he'd never get you back in his bed. Its hard to accept sometimes that a single lady actually wants to keep it as more no-strings sex. I don't know his reason why, maybe he's keeping more fish on the line and cant decide what to do.

But situations like this, I drop the liar. I don't put up with lying.


Imthatgirl1122 38F
1655 posts
7/12/2020 1:55 pm

    Quoting Mr_Mercedes:
    You probably shouldn’t keep messing with what you don’t understand. You’re too sweet.
Yeah i shouldnt but if im presented with it then my mind will question it. Thanks a lot


Imthatgirl1122 38F
1655 posts
7/12/2020 2:02 pm

    Quoting DoctorBooty:
    Yeah, he's lying out of habit, thinking if he told you the truth that you'd drop him and he'd never get you back in his bed. Its hard to accept sometimes that a single lady actually wants to keep it as more no-strings sex. I don't know his reason why, maybe he's keeping more fish on the line and cant decide what to do.

    But situations like this, I drop the liar. I don't put up with lying.
Lying out of habit.. that sounds bad. I really want to try to understand but i dont think it will be useful. No matter the reason, i agree with you i cant tolerate lying. Oh well... thank you!!


CUMHANDLEME 57F  
670 posts
7/16/2020 5:32 pm

Boys will be boys. Only problem is some boys never grow up.

Do you have any Primal Urges ... I do, please CUMHANDLEME and explore some of my naughty and nice Primal ... Urges with me !!!


Imthatgirl1122 replies on 7/18/2020 3:14 pm:
I know that now. pretty disappointed. thank you

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