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Need to re-evaluate a few things
Posted:Jun 25, 2022 8:57 pm
Last Updated:Sep 21, 2022 9:39 pm

I need to step away for a bit which means I don't want to chat with anyone while I re-evaluate a few things. With my b-day coming up on the 4th, there's things that need to change.
Know the value of whats around you
Posted:Jun 3, 2022 9:12 pm
Last Updated:Oct 1, 2022 5:21 pm

Anything you lose by being honest
You never really had to begin with
How To End A Friends With Benefits Relationship (But Stay Friends)
Posted:Mar 31, 2022 10:39 pm
Last Updated:Apr 16, 2022 7:15 am

Now I'll be honest I'm not very experienced in this whole dynamic. When comes an actual "relationship" I can honestly say that I don't think I've been in one. Labels get tossed around, but I don't think anything was ever written in stone so I guess the majority of my experiences been the friends with benefits type, but with added incentives you could say. What I mean by added incentives is basically the "rules" that come with friends with benefits were mostly if not all broken. One rule that always had me looking at it funny was the rule that you don't communicate or talk them every day and conversations with them. Basically this rule is saying that you and your friend can't conversate about your day or anything, but isn't that what friends do? The fact that you just added the benefits means you and your friend are now bound communicate when you want up and that me is just ridiculous. That is a "rule" that is so misplaced that needs just go away. Anyways, now people different views on this but friends with benefits is a relationship of sorts. It could last six weeks or six months or six and half years. I think something gets lost depending on how long it goes and that is the whole "friends" part of it. Let's face it, 's suppose be no feelings invovled and that's a crock from the very beginning because you obviously on some level feelings for this person because your sleeping with them. Do you sleep with someone you find disgusting? That's a feeling right? So I disagree when it comes not having feelings because truth is you do on some level.

They say that the one thing that is key maintaining a successful friends with benefits relationship is communication. I will be the first admit that when it comes communicating I can either be right on point or I could be totally missing in action. My communication issues stem from past experiences that didn't end well and also because I'm use to being very private and keep to myself so I don't openly share with others. I admit that isn't very healthy and it has done harm with friendships in the past and 's times where I've detached and made people feel like they are a bother. 's never been my intention ever make anyone feel like that, 's just that I grew up like that so 's just how I am, but thankfully since I've seeing a therapist I've been able get better in that area and am on my way of becoming a better communicator overall, so that's something that I'm very pleased about in my recent growth.

Let's be honest about something that we all probably experienced at least once and that is when a friends with benefits relationship ends what happens now the friendship. This is sort of a "breakup" or "break" either one I really don't like because this isn't flipping a light switch on and off. I don't believe that you could feel one way about someone today and tomorrow feel nothing at all for them. I don't believe that one day this person is worth your time and the next day they aren't worth a minute. To me thats extremely rude and it's disrespectful and top it all off, you're going to remain friends, but treat each other in the in that shit manner, makes no sense to me.

So let me go over some steps I've come across where you want to be still be friends and 's the possibility that you can get the benefits back.

1. Respect each other's boundaries.

2. Keep making an effort with them.

3. Check how they feel.

4. Check in with how you feel.

5. Communicate honestly.

6. Keep things friendly.

Now as I write this I can tell that anyone reading is going say this doesn't make sense, but it does and like I said I am aware that communication is a big problem area with me and one that I'm committed in getting much better at, but I've always said if the sex wasn't an issue why stop that benefits part? Again, if the wasn't an issue and was good why not continue that?

I can admit that I'm not at all happy currently with the way things are for me. It just totally sucks, but it sucks more because I'm the reason why it sucks. I miss what I had and I want it back because I know that it would be even better now. I'm myself again and I nothing hide from anyone, but I'm just missing that one thing and again depending on how long was and was a very long time 's was a part of you and 's missing and you feel . I'm just hoping that I'm able get a chance again soon.

But for everyone else out in this type of situation all I can say is take this time better yourself in areas that could use improving and use this time learn a new hobby, just add another layer yourself as a person because they will notice change in you and they will be attracted .
An Oral Appetizer
Posted:Mar 21, 2022 5:52 am
Last Updated:Mar 30, 2022 10:59 pm

I remember that back after I graduated high school I constantly would hear when I was out among other people (majority of those people being women) was a mans inability to orally please a woman let alone make them orgasm. During this time I felt like I had somewhat of an inside track with my sister being into women and so yes I did one day sit my sister and her girlfriend down and ask them to share with me some of the things that most men don't know how to do in this area. I didn't want to be placed in the group of men that didn't have a clue how to satisfy a woman orally. I wanted to stand out and be different. Unlike many men I don't take a woman giving me feedback as a bad thing, but rather take it as her being open and honest with me with how she likes it done or what I could do more of or less of that will satisfy her. After all I think what most men fail to realize that it's more likely a woman will want you again if you are able to satisfy her rather then being selfish and getting yourself off and leaving her there to wonder if she gets hers since you got yours.

I personally love to perform oral sex on a woman, but I always make sure before hand that it is something that she wants me to do (I have been with women who weren't comfortable and I respected that and didn't go down on them at all) because she gets off on it. I'm also picky about who I perform oral sex on as well. I can't remember a woman who enjoyed it stopping me from doing it, but I could be wrong, but if it ever did happen it didn't happen very much.

Now what I'm about to get into I don't want anyone to take the wrong way. I'm not trying to be cocky or arrogant or big headed at all. I'm just simply sharing my take on what I think are the focal points when performing oral sex on a woman. I'm not saying that I personally practice this or perform it in this manner. After all every woman is different and I'm more of a read and react type of person instead of a person who sticks to thought out routine.

Foreplay is a crucial part of sex and most men will bypass it and immediately go down on a woman. You need to set the mood first. Kissing her neck and breasts would certainly make her more agreeable to the act.

I think once she's very hot and wanting to feel you inside her, it's actually time to down on her. I'm a big believer that the end of your tongue is able to do some amazing things when eating a girl out. I would start out lick the folds of her vagina (the vagina is quite a sensitive organ so it's best to be gentle).

When you begin to hear her writhing and moaning with enjoyment, it's time to be more adventurous. I start flicking her clit and rotating the front of my tongue in a circular motion on her clit. The tip of your tongue will give her an astonishing variety of textures. An ideal mixture of roughness and smoothness will probably bring her to the verge of climax.

I find that how she is responding to my touch whether or not I can begin rushing the pace. Once I feel that she is ready to orgasm I will start rotating the front of my tongue faster and with more force on her clit until she cums (sometimes I might even slide a finger or two inside her while licking her clit).

One way I think a woman can give a man a sign that he's doing things right is by grabbing his head and grinding herself up against his tongue and I personally love when a woman does this because I feel like it's a way for her to tell me that she is totally feeling what I'm doing.

In closing there have been a few times where I had gotten in over my head and kept at it when I should've stopped which led to her being sore and like I said in the beginning I appreciate the feedback that woman is willing to tell me whether its positive or negative because my goal is to satisfy her and for her to want me to do it again and again and again and (well you see where I'm going with this) again. And one more thing, it's NEVER a bad thing when she's vocal between her moaning because to me hearing her be vocal just makes me want to continue even more.

Thanks for reading and feel free to leave a comment below.
Returning to Sin City
Posted:Mar 19, 2022 5:48 am
Last Updated:Mar 30, 2022 10:27 pm

Four years ago I went on a three day vacation to Las Vegas. It was the first time since I turned 21 that I had been to Vegas and so much had changed. I had a great time there and after saving up for the past few years I'm going back this time on a four day vacation. I'm looking forward to it and might end up making this a yearly vacation gig for me.

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