Preying on the lonely hearted.
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Posted:Dec 26, 2012 11:59 pm
Last Updated:Mar 2, 2015 5:47 pm
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So I decided not to renew my gold membership and it ran out on Christmas eve. I am now a lowly, standard member. Bereft of the little golden ball under my avatar silhouette. I don't mind so much, really. I decided a long time ago that I could get what I wanted/needed out of this site just fine without being a gold member. I was even sort of impressed by the fact that I got 6 months free gold membership by meeting the necessary requirements of sending emails, posting on blogs and logging in once a month. (that last one was a toughie). I was sure Senior Sizzle would try and weasel out of it somehow but they didn't and I was suitably impressed. Still lonely, horny and frustrated, but impressed all the same. Now that I am a standard again though my positive feeling about this site has changed and I am starting to wonder about the ethics of some people.
When I first signed up for Senior Sizzle years ago (was in 2000, I think) I pretty much cancelled my membership right away. I was so angry at being duped into thinking that I could contact people simply by becoming a member of this site. Get laid tonight my ass! I was so disgusted and just plain infuriated by finding out that membership was free but you had to pay a monthly fee if you wanted to access profiles or send messages. That I turned around and cancelled/deleted my profile. Take that, jerks! I was hurt as well in a pathetic way. Hurt and frustrated at being balked in my pursuit of happiness.
Fast forward 10 years, 3 relationships and 1 great and everlasting love that wasn't to be later and I found myself in front of the computer, surfing the internet and still searching for that elusive something that brought me to this site in the first place. I actually ended up on another site and it was my experience there has me wondering about this site now as well and what will be the gist of this blog post.
Now, I'll admit that I have a penchant for conspiracy theories sometimes. I have a nasty, suspicious mind as well and I can even be quite cynical sometimes. Glass half full? What glass? Who's paying for this liquid? What happened to the other half anyway? I bet some rich bastard took it as his silver-spooned due before it was presented to me to ponder on.
Ahem, so anyway, what I'm about to relate may very well be completely coincidental. I do wonder though.
On this other site I mentioned, I can't recall the name of it now, I had a most interesting experience. The people that own this site probably own it as well anyway because it's a similar set up. Anyway, I became a member, put the standard picture of my magnificent willy up and then perused profiles there as much as I was allowed without paying. I even sent out flirts and received flirts back. After a short time I started getting emails from those I had flirted with. One in particular comes to mind. The email simply stated that I had flirted so it was now up to me to "make things happen" and "get the ball rolling". I was enthralled. I immediately purchased a 1 month membership so that I might message this delicate flower and set up a rendez-vous. As it happens it was a good thing that I did only pay for a month because as soon as I had sent my heartfelt entreaty off to my soon to be beloved, she disappeared! Poof! Not even any indication that such a person had ever existed. She seemed so real in the purple teddy she had on in her picture! I was lost and forlorn for a good five minutes and then I decided to check on the other ladies I had been flirting back and forth with. Much to my surprise and grief they had all poofed too. Gone. I wasn't angry, I just felt a sort of resignation. I understood now how that particular site worked. How the game was played. My theory went something like this: set up profiles to interact with non-paying members in order to trick them into purchasing a paid membership. Be subtle about it and don't come right out and say that you will interact with them further if they purchase a membership. Be purposely vague. Make no promises while seeming to promise the world. They are so desperate and lonely that they'll be easy targets.
Perhaps I have an overactive imagination? Maybe the lady in the purple teddy had to leave for a completely different and unrelated reason? Perhaps, but do read on anyway. I find it most interesting and I hope you will too.
Now, while this microcosmic drama was playing out on that site with a non-memorable name and my theory of how things might work was forming, I also became a member on this site as well. I had pictures of my magnificent willy on my computer and it would have been a shame for them to go to waste. I was slightly more cautious in that I decided I wouldn't flirt with anyone. I would just ogle the pictures as much as I was able to. I was surprised to get flirts from others at first. But then my veteran experience of scams from the other site came to the fore and I realized that someone from Ghana probably didn't really find my magnificent willy all that appealing and were after something else. I simply ignored them or sent them a hug.
Please do keep in mind here that I realize these obvious fakes are simply that. They are a separate issue to what I am referring to in this post. They are bald faced fakes and not devious and cunning like what I suspect may take place here and what this post is about.
Anyway, I eventually took out a gold membership here. Mainly because I got tired of screwing up my eyes to look at the tiny thumbnails in the preview pane, but I was also lonely too. Two and a half years and many soul-searching discoveries later I find myself here as a standard member again.
If you've read this far, congratulations, I will now be getting to the point of this blog post.
Today, out of the blue, two days after my gold membership runs out, I receive no less than 3 messages from "local" ladies! All sent within the period of one hour. Two of whom have profiles that I'd checked out before and decided were not my cup of tea. Though nothing about them made me suspicious that they may be fake profiles. I was surprised by this sudden barrage to say the least. More messages in 1 day, in 1 hour, than I received spontaneously throughout my two and a half years as a gold member! The only time I have ever gotten a message that was not from someone as a response to something I said on their blog, or as a rare response to my own message to them, was a one liner asking how tall I was because the metric system on my profile didn't make sense to them. And for the larger part of that two and half years I had a face pic(s) up! Not simply my magnificent willy! And I'm cute! And my profile was good! It was witty and fun and alluring! Why did I not get half the attention I am seemingly getting now? Woe!
For the past 6 months or so my attitude changed toward the site and I took my pictures off and made my profile state, plain as day, that I was not looking for anyone. I simply wanted to enjoy the pics, vids and blogs. And yet now, after all this time, I am suddenly getting messages from 3 attractive looking ladies in my area? In the space of one hour? What the h e double hockey sticks?!
And also, these three message couldn't possibly be more vague in content if they tried. One said "I hope your day is going as well as mine is." The next stated that she was looking for bulls and and an authentic (!!) cuck husband and if I didn't know what that meant to not bother responding. The final one gave the terse assessment that the person was unsure what exactly they were looking for but maybe I could convince them of something. Like that even makes sense?
kind_of_sluty, hockeyhag, jackman0707, I have responded to your messages in kind and I am calling you out now in my blog. Why the sudden interest in a profile with no picture that states I am not looking for anything? What made you message me today?
Could it be that you are employed by this website? Could it be that you are being payed to finagle a gold or silver membership out of a poor, lonely sap like me? And hockeyhag you are much too attractive in your second thumbnail from the preview pane to be bothered wasting your time messaging someone with no picture and nothing on their profile anyway.
I'm not sure if anyone will even bother to read all this post. I know it's quite possibly a TLDR thing. Heck it might not even make it onto my blog. I'm just sure that I am sick to my stomach to think of the implications of this if my aforementioned theory is correct. I do feel slightly better having typed it all out though. In my righteous fury and indignation in what could simply be coincidence. Hah!
That is all.
For now.
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So I gave up watching web cams for Lent.
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Posted:Apr 8, 2012 10:50 pm
Last Updated:Jan 15, 2013 12:21 am
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At the risk of committing sacrilege most grievously, I would like to announce that I gave up watching web cams for Lent. It was a lot harder (and more difficult too) than I thought it would be.
And you know, I can't believe how excited I was by the prospect of being able to watch them again. It was even harder! But much less difficult 
I hope everyone had a wonderful Easter. Peace be with you.
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I thought up a simile today!
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Posted:Apr 4, 2012 3:04 pm
Last Updated:Mar 17, 2013 8:18 pm
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Yay!
I thought up a simile today as I was randomly perving around.
Here it is!
That went over like a page on Senior Sizzle instant messenger.
Definition: An idea or suggestion that is met either with disdain, distaste or completely disregarded as being beneath contempt or acknowledgment.
See also: Lead balloon.
Hehe 
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The day I asked my hairdresser out...
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Posted:Apr 4, 2012 2:56 pm
Last Updated:Oct 28, 2012 8:57 pm
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And she said "no, thank you." 
Actually it's not that big a deal and it's kind of a funny story, I think.
You see before recently moving to Edmonton I had been going to the same hair salon for 12 years or so. I sort have a crush on my hairdresser there. I think I've blogged about her before. Anyway, her name is Krystina and she is from Poland. She is cute, bubbly and I find her very sexy. Especially her accent.
Over the years I got to know a lot about Krystina. I'm fairly reticent sometimes when it comes to talking about myself so someone had to chat while the scissors were a snipping and my monosyllabic answers could only go so far. She is in her 50s and moved to Canada with her now ex husband in the 70s. Her parents used to own a flower shop back in Poland so she loves spring and flowers in general. I found that out when I took her some one time. She likes traveling to tropical locations to lie on the beach and tries to do so at least once a year. She also has a who is close to my own age. He got married a couple of years ago and Krystina was not very happy about it. She used to lament about how her hardly visits her any more as she doesn't get along very well with her in law.
One such time when she was lowering my ears and filling me in on the latest news on her changing relationship with her I suddenly found myself asking if she would like to have lunch with me. She seemed so down and not her ordinary effervescent self at all. I thought a nice lunch might cheer her up.
Sure I like her and I want her. She is the subject of many nice fantasies of mine. But that's not why I asked her for lunch. At least, it's not the only reason.
And she turned me down for some reason. It's really not a big deal like I said. I have speculated on it a little though. Maybe she just wasn't hungry 
Seriously though, I didn't want to use this blog post to speculate on why she might have turned me down. I really wanted to throw out the age old (pun kinda intended) question of dating someone who is younger or older than yourself. Let's say 20 years or so difference. What would you do if someone 20 years younger than you asked you out for lunch or drinks?
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Meaningless flirt city
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Posted:Mar 14, 2012 10:55 pm
Last Updated:Mar 17, 2012 10:30 pm
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I made a comment on another blog about flirts from inactive accounts and it made me want to make a post about them on my own blog too. Something I've been meaning to do for a while now. I'm sure to most people this is nothing new.
I think that the vast majority of those flirts (99 percent) are from scammers. I have a theory that they are really just hoping to make contact and get an outside email address from you or solicit other adult services (other pay sites or 1-900 numbers).
Which is just sick, I think. Preying on lonely people. Life on the internet I guess.
Getting an outside email address might not seem like such a big deal. But I'm fairly sure that exchange in online contact information can be a lucrative business. You can make money simply by selling email address to online advertisers. Emails for viagra ring any bells? (or raise anything? (lol) )
You ever see those pop up advertisements that assure you that you can make a ton of money, right at home? They are fairly tight lipped about how exactly this is accomplished in most cases. And fair enough, if they said how to do it right on their web site they wouldn't make any money themselves. I have a feeling though that one way this is accomplished is to sell email addresses. I could be just paranoid and completely wrong though.
Furthermore, yes there is more and I find it very disturbing, if someone gets your email address, particularly your home email address, it can open a whole can of worms of contact information. There are web sites that use various sources to bring together your telephone number and address simply by supplying an email address.
I've been on this site for about 3 years now and I've always gotten these types of flirts. I used to just send them all a hug in return but since they updated the site and screen them better now I haven't been able to, hehe. The ones that responded to my hugs with emails all pretty much said one of two things: requested or provided an email address from an outside provider; or gave a 1-900 number to call and speak to them live (!)
I think Senior Sizzle is now good at spotting these types of accounts that are solely set up for this purpose and they shut them down quite regularly. That's why the accounts are seen as inactive. At least 99% of the time anyway. Unfortunately, I think that it is virtually impossible to stop people from simply setting up these "scammer" accounts over and over without taking away the free membership this site offers.
That's my theory on these anyway. What it is, yes. Ahem.
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Hot Pic
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Posted:Feb 8, 2012 11:57 pm
Last Updated:Jan 8, 2013 11:07 pm
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Found this pic while I was browsing around. Not sure what prompted me to make a blog post about it.
I think what I like most about this pic is the anonimity and the way it is focused right on the wet, slobbery centre.
Of course, it's hard not to appreciate the talent of the lady as well - to be able to deepthroat like that and still have her tongue free to lick his balls.
anyway, nice pic hey?
(in case you are unable to view the image, as seems to happen to me a lot, try clicking on the above link to my blog "trash talk about garbage" and see if the image shows up there.)
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In need of punishment.
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Posted:Jun 27, 2011 12:09 pm
Last Updated:Oct 3, 2011 10:23 pm
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I woke up with a strange feeling this morning and I'm not quite sure how to describe it. I just really felt the need to be punished. I closed my eyes and imagined pain being inflicted on me in various ways. Mainly involving pins or sharp objects stabbing into my back.
I get this feeling every now and then. I think it's a symptom of having a guilty conscience. More and more though I am starting to realize that this is at least partly what BDSM and the relationship between slave and Master/Mistress is all about, I think.
I was first introduced to this world of Bondage and S&M through pornography. Which is bad because as in most everything they produce they got it completely wrong. Anyway, I always thought it was kind of silly. Grown men and women getting off on being treated like that. Now I think I have at least a glimmer of understanding what is really happening.
I feel a vague sense of need within myself now. A need to be punished. To take my licks in order to assuage some of the guilt that I feel. To be beaten and bruised. To bleed. In order to be set free from thoughts of guilt.
Not that I have done anything really bad. Just silly little niggling things that nag at my conscience. They add up though.
Anyone else know what I mean? Or have similar thoughts? How do you deal with a guilty conscience?
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Points to Ponder.
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Posted:Jun 24, 2011 9:03 pm
Last Updated:Jan 14, 2013 10:32 pm
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1.) If a woman refers to herself as a milf does that mean she is a narcissist too?
2.) Why do men have nipples?
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incidental contact
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Posted:May 6, 2011 8:09 pm
Last Updated:May 8, 2011 3:50 pm
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It happened so fast! You weren't there and then you were there! Running, dodging and weaving through the bodies on the field. Our eyes on the floating disk. Then you. In my arms, your soft, yielding body against my own body. You are so tiny! I didn't want to knock you down so I held on to you. That split second that I held you in my arms affected me greatly. So starved I am of human contact. So thirsty I am for a soft body to hold. I know hunger.
I didn't even look at you; my eyes were closed. I heard your exclamation as we collided. Your gasp at the sudden contact and envelopment. I held you close and fast. I heard the others laughing at my antics. It all happened so quickly. It was shocking and almost animal in its intensity. It was more than your soft body against me and you in my arms, though. I felt like I really saw you. Even with my eyes closed. I knew your presence.
I wonder if you saw me? I wonder if you felt the power of my need? The strength of my loneliness? The fire of passion kept under lock and key?
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