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Small town observations in a big world  

Fun50fling 56F
2 posts
4/16/2022 10:59 pm
Small town observations in a big world

I live in a small rural area, similar to any other place in this big world. People work, play, just trying to survive.
Watched relationships that seem to be perfect from the outside, wonder how do they do it? Is it just me that can’t keep it together? What am I doing wrong to not have even a mediocre sex life.
Like others, I’ve got my fantasies, secret desires, wish lists, bucket lists.
Do you take that risk? Follow through on those things which if they ever came to light would end your committed relationship, upset family and friends.
People love to gossip, put others down who have choose different life styles than ours, place their morals on others.
If only we knew what others think, would we be shocked? Surprised? Pleasantly surprised?
So easy to judge, and easier to not stop and ask why. Survival of the fittest? Spartan existence? Sink or swim?
I certainly don’t have the answers, just observations.

forgotforgetting 56M
8134 posts
4/18/2022 2:11 pm

These are excellent questions that lack excellent answers. I grew up in big cities which allows "The Freak" a certain amount of anynominity, but it isn't guaranteed. I've had uncomfortable intersections occur. Only you can decide if it's worth the risks. Good hunting.

“Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.”
― Oscar Wilde

pommy2202 69M
1 post
4/19/2022 2:48 am

I always toed the line to keep my family happy. Now since my wife died I saw the chance to spread my wings and experiment sexually. Yeah Right. Who wants an inexperienced 68 year old.? Damned if you do and damned if you do not.

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