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Nature of a Sub  

Fila_boxLion 32M
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9/8/2021 3:54 pm
Nature of a Sub

What is your passion? What is your current goal? What do you want to be better at? Who do you want to be like? Etc.

Doms who are familiar with such assertions about their Subs can add to an uplifting experience. First and foremost, assertions enable a Dom to practice self-improvement by creatively provoking his Sub with his idea of oppression to not only stimulate her keen sense of self but to also fulfill her desires as a submissive.

Not just a mouth full of words, this is what a Sub truly desires and ultimately receives. Self-improvement is innate to us all, especially to a Sub. Behind her desire to please and serve she is constantly looking to better herself. When she’s whipped, spanked, tied up, bossed around, or disciplined otherwise, she feel empowered.

Perhaps this is her Yin and Yang, or her ouroboros like eternal circle of life. As she moves progressively to improve herself, she faces many hurdles but she will not show her emotions in the same manner as her Dom. She instead serves and chooses to be submissive in order to express herself and her desires.

A Sub with an internal code of conduct is intuitively in the driver’s seat in this case. The Dom oppresses his Sub, but also allow her the freedom to empower and liberate herself through his form of oppression. This is how the Dom expresses self-righteousness and the feeling of control which helps him regulate his world.

However, I like to remember that Subs with an internal code of conduct actually initiate this exchange of power. She is the one who indirectly permits her Dom to seek pleasure. She has effectively created a win win situation for herself. She gets to have her cake and eat it too. She now gets to improve herself, fulfill her needs, liberate her thoughts and control her world without using any form of dominance

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