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The Power of Good Friends  

EroticMusings2 58F  
1578 posts
11/8/2021 11:49 pm
The Power of Good Friends

The desire to touch and be touch, is inherently what we all, or at least most of us really desire. Many of us are on here because of the lack there of such.

Sadly most of my marriage has been lacking in this way. Not from me, rather me A-Sexual husband. This has in the past really damaged my self esteem over all, and definently as a woman, and exual woman. It took me a very long time to realize that it is not I with the problem, it is just how he is. Doesn't make him a bad person at all, but neither does it make me a bad woman for wanting, needing, and really enjoying sex.

If I had been a cold frigid woman, I think it would have been easier on my husband. The years of anger I kept buried, hoardered that away until it all cam tumbling down. I felt like and still do that all those years can never be given back. All the empty promises from him, to demanding that we only have oral sex the few times a month that we would after i begged and pleaded. Thought it never took much to get him to cum each and every time. Figure that one out.

So we had this very long talk the other day. We have been trying to work through alot of this, in a effort to stay married. But I can not and ill not stay in a marriage where I am going to be unhappy. I have to make myself happy at last to a degree. /what do I mean by that? I cant just stop caring about him. He is severely disabled, and I will not turn my back. WE have been married over 33 years, a lot of history. He has seen me through alot of heath issues and I will be there for him.

Recently his pain and mobility have both gotten worse. Most of the time I have to help him stand and steady him, help him dress, dress his diabetic ulcers, etc. I do this because I do love him. I am no tin love with him anymore, but I do love him for the very good friend he is and always will be. There is no one else who will step up and help him. Once it gets to be too much for me to do, we will have to hire some in home help of sorts. But we are not there yet.

I can stil leave the house, even be gone for a few days. He can do all this, just is harder for him then if I help. And I hate seeing him in so much pain. Recently I took over doing everything in the house because he simply struggles so much and is on enough pain medication that it makes him sleep more. That is where this site and my friends on here come into play. This is my social media, my respite from everything going on. Here I can be myself, flirt, write, watch cams. REad other blogs and articles. I can make plans after a friendship is formed to meet for lunch and the very least even if we are not a match sexually is that I had lunch with a friend.

This site has helped me regain myself. To feel sexy again, and we all should. I love talking with many of you in one way or the other.

Big hugs to each one of you,

Ann


*Creative Outlets of All Forms thru Me*


justskin1 70M
13175 posts
11/9/2021 6:26 am

Good friends have helped me through some hard times and I am not sure I would have survived without them. Funny, one if them is an Ex-wife. It sounds like you are in a difficult situation and having good friends is so important. I am glad to hear the ones on here have helped you regain yourself and to feel sexy again. Those two things are so important to one's living but can be lost with the wear and tear of life.

I can certainly understand about you still loving him despite the difficulties and differences. It is sad when a partner's sex drive is so different. I feel when it is so letting the one needing more sex get it outside is the more loving thing to do. Perhaps not easy but from here I can see how it can actually make the union better. A topic for a post but I am not sure how to write it.

Take care of yourself Ann and do keep in mind that you are a very sexy woman in much more than just your body. (From the pics I can see I have to say the body is very sexy too.)

Big naked hugs to you from a guy who is naked on cam.

If you see me in the real world, come say "Hi Justskin."

I always behave. Preferably not well.


Paulxx001 65M  
22616 posts
11/9/2021 8:47 am

You're in a tough spot.
I can't imagine... but you're brave! ❤️❗


spunkycumfun 62M/67F  
41171 posts
11/9/2021 9:39 am

It's good to hear that this site has helped you feel good about yourself.


scoupe42 59M  

11/9/2021 10:42 am

If we live life, and there is one person, we can honesty say is our true friend, we are lucky!!!!!!


69ereatwetpussy 60M
6778 posts
11/9/2021 8:24 pm

I only wish we where next door neighbors.
The fun we could have even as friends.
Your a good sole your time will come
No reason it shouldn't.
Xoxoxoxoxo


EroticMusings2 58F  
661 posts
11/10/2021 2:33 am

    Quoting justskin1:
    Good friends have helped me through some hard times and I am not sure I would have survived without them. Funny, one if them is an Ex-wife. It sounds like you are in a difficult situation and having good friends is so important. I am glad to hear the ones on here have helped you regain yourself and to feel sexy again. Those two things are so important to one's living but can be lost with the wear and tear of life.

    I can certainly understand about you still loving him despite the difficulties and differences. It is sad when a partner's sex drive is so different. I feel when it is so letting the one needing more sex get it outside is the more loving thing to do. Perhaps not easy but from here I can see how it can actually make the union better. A topic for a post but I am not sure how to write it.

    Take care of yourself Ann and do keep in mind that you are a very sexy woman in much more than just your body. (From the pics I can see I have to say the body is very sexy too.)

    Big naked hugs to you from a guy who is naked on cam.
Thank you. Your friendship and kind words do help so much. Naked hugs coming right back to you.

*Creative Outlets of All Forms thru Me*


EroticMusings2 58F  
661 posts
11/10/2021 2:34 am

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    You're in a tough spot.
    I can't imagine... but you're brave! ❤️❗
Brave? More like crazy lol. But I would never turn my back on him.

*Creative Outlets of All Forms thru Me*


EroticMusings2 58F  
661 posts
11/10/2021 2:34 am

    Quoting spunkycumfun:
    It's good to hear that this site has helped you feel good about yourself.
It really has, rebuilding my self esteem

*Creative Outlets of All Forms thru Me*


EroticMusings2 58F  
661 posts
11/10/2021 2:35 am

    Quoting scoupe42:
    If we live life, and there is one person, we can honesty say is our true friend, we are lucky!!!!!!
Very lucky!

*Creative Outlets of All Forms thru Me*


EroticMusings2 58F  
661 posts
11/10/2021 2:35 am

    Quoting 69ereatwetpussy:
    I only wish we where next door neighbors.
    The fun we could have even as friends.
    Your a good sole your time will come
    No reason it shouldn't.
    Xoxoxoxoxo
Thank you and yes that would be so nice.

*Creative Outlets of All Forms thru Me*


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