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The Deep Longing For Human Touch  

EroticMusings2 58F  
1578 posts
11/22/2021 12:26 pm
The Deep Longing For Human Touch

That deep longing, rather a aching deep within your tattered soul.

The never ending longing of human touch. To really be hel, wrapped in the arms of a strong man. One who adores you, longs to touch you. Over and over again.

Sometimes I wonder if I will ever find such. You think perhaops you have found a FWB, or I prefer to call a lover. But then they keep putting you off, never telling you when they might be able to come see you again. I know they live out of town but I assured before we ever had sex that the distance would not be a problem. Yet it has been 2 months already, since last we have been together. He has come through this area many times, but claims he has no time. . There is not the kind words, the flattery, and no tenderness really. I need to be held, caressed. Made love too, and then yes primal sex. I to have a caring friendship with my lover, that we see each other as often as possible.

It is like you were touched, and then cruelly stopped. I am a horny woman with a high sex drive. We all get just this one life to live, and I am one that will never beg for anyone to come see. me. Oh well his loss.

*Creative Outlets of All Forms thru Me*

69ereatwetpussy 60M
6778 posts
11/22/2021 4:34 pm

i know how you feel
its been way to long
been looking for someone
close buy to hook up
and see how it goes
for im tired of my hands

positively4you 73F  
4605 posts
11/22/2021 6:22 pm

I learned a long time ago, if a man wants to be with you, he will find a way. Saves me a lot of disappointment and second guessing. So, I live in the moment.
Never make someone a priority when all you are to them is an option.. Quote by
Maya Angelou

cevblodgett 52F  
35 posts
11/22/2021 6:24 pm

Totally understand where you are coming from, Dealing with the same issues,

Pleasures4You123 66M  
25 posts
11/22/2021 8:39 pm

Two months is such a shame for a sweet, sensuous lady like you .... no flattery, no touching, no nibbling, no shared tenderness ...

packageman57 65M
1093 posts
11/22/2021 9:30 pm

When I traveled, I always made it a point to make sure I had some time available for my FWB, or lovers. Even now, when my lovers are local, I try and find time to meet up with them. It may not always be on the best of schedules, but we are always conversing and trying to coordinate. The end results are wonderful.

spunkycumfun 62M/67F  
41171 posts
11/23/2021 3:05 am

Unfortunately you have to accept this situtaion. As you say, it's his loss.

Needsomekisses60 62M
58 posts
11/23/2021 4:13 am

His loss.

justskin1 70M
13175 posts
11/23/2021 5:01 am

I know of that longing all too well and have spent long periods living with it. It is something that can cause one to make poor choices. To settle sometimes for someone you know is emotionally involved because that touch or the illusion of it is needed too much. Maybe by both of you.
I know of some people who do not seem to need touch or certainly not need it very strongly like you you I do. I admit I do not understand them. I suspect some have been hurt badly and see touch as one more road to manipulation. Too many guys are taught that wanting and needing it is unmanly.
It helps to have friends to give and receive the casual touches and hugs. They help stave off going squirrelly from lack of any touch.
Have faith that you will find someone to not only provide the touch your body needs but that will fill that touch with all the love and caring your soul thirsts for. I had given up and then having no expectations beyond, she is worth a coffee date, It can happen to you too. The waiting is a bitch though.
Meanwhile I am sending you some big naked virtual hugs.

If you see me in the real world, come say "Hi Justskin."

I always behave. Preferably not well.

voyeur2017 59M  
1481 posts
11/23/2021 6:23 am

I think most everyone on this site has been "catfished" at some point to some degree. It's frustrating and painful. But we move on- we have to. Opportunity awaits ...we just have to be willing to risk again ....

Paulxx001 65M  
22616 posts
11/23/2021 7:41 am

I keep telling women 🚺 and men 🚹 — hang around the fruit 🥝 section of your local food store and look for the man/woman with the soft hands — as they fondle the avocados 🥑 — they'll be the one! 😎❗❗

jajo696 67F
4287 posts
11/23/2021 9:28 pm

Whats meant to be will always find its way....Always

You wont have to chase whats meant for you....and thats how you ll know

He got what he wanted and has decided not to continue.

Those who want to spend time with us...make/find the time. To know that he has been in the area and didnt have the time to see you ....says it all.

yes....his loss ~

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