Let Me Explain  

EroticMusings2 58F  
1559 posts
12/9/2021 3:49 pm
Let Me Explain


I took down my blog about Polyamorous, because I think some of you got the wrong impression of me. I am not for the next man, or another piece. I talking about if you are in a marriage or committed relationship but find that your partner is unable to give you all you need. Rather then destroy a long term marriage, I think sometimes it is better to seek a additional person. In my case that my spouse will never be able to again make full love to me. That there are just many aspects that even if everything right between us, he can never give me.

And I think everyone should have the freedom to be totally themselves. Not what society or peers think they should be. Perhaps it is not a conventional approach but it is yours. What a beautiful feeling to be able to be your true self without persecution.

Having said that, today I supposed to meet a friend for lunch. Just lunch, but I had this gut feeling that this might not go well. Then he texted me that he sitting at the bar having beers. Red flag for me. First impression you me to have of you is with beer breath? I wanted to meet you, not the altered you. I canceled and not going there again. This is the very reason I start as friends first with everyone and insist on a platonic first meet.

Hope everyone is having a wonderful day,

Sexy hugs,

Ann

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Paulxx001 65M  
22616 posts
12/10/2021 12:32 am

Beer breath? 🤔
Yep, I hear you on THAT one.
I guess if both of you have had a few then things are balanced but when it's one-sided... *ugh*


spunkycumfun 62M/67F  
41171 posts
12/10/2021 2:14 am

Perhaps he was getting some Dutch courage with the beers.


Buttmuncher2021 63M  
38 posts
12/10/2021 3:14 am

i hear you. in my case wife just has lost the urge for sex and me not wanting to lose everything else we have abstain to self satisfaction how ever if the rigtht situation ever came along who knows


justskin1 70M
13175 posts
12/10/2021 4:41 am

Just lunch or coffee is a good way to start. I understand why you took the polyamorous post down. So many have no idea that it does not mean slut. I also agree with your idea of not destroying a long term marriage due to lack of sex and that lack can do it more than adding another to the mix.
May you find a nearby someone to be a friend and then more than one.

Sending big naked hugs to you.

If you see me in the real world, come say "Hi Justskin."

I always behave. Preferably not well.


G000dbuddy 34M  
1676 posts
12/10/2021 5:32 am

having a wonderful day,

goodbuddy781


WyoCowboy7751 69M
2537 posts
12/10/2021 6:52 am

HERE !!! HERE !!! MAYBE some gals will realize that there are circumstances why a gal seeks pleasure for what a spouse can not provide !!!! I have mentioned my circumstance for seeking my pleasure and being told too seek it but get lam-blasted by some gals for being a cheater !!!! He can't perform, you can !! She can't perform, I can !! Where's the difference Gals ??? 🤠


Dogalways 53M
88 posts
12/10/2021 8:52 am

First meetings should always be public, and without expectations. If the chemistry is right, THEN figure out the next steps. Not every meet is going to shoot sparks either. I've met a few women and couples one or both were just testing the waters, or the ones where one is just trying to make the other happy by playing along. Better to just enjoy the meeting, agree it's to be just friendly, and move on. Avoid the drama.


NJGUY08090 55M
4307 posts
12/11/2021 3:06 pm

I'm sorry to felt you had to take our post down. You should be able to be you and share what you want here. PS- I'd never meet you with beer breath.


EroticMusings2 58F  
661 posts
12/16/2021 12:08 am

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Beer breath? 🤔
    Yep, I hear you on THAT one.
    I guess if both of you have had a few then things are balanced but when it's one-sided... *ugh*
Certainly doesnt give a good impression.

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EroticMusings2 58F  
661 posts
12/16/2021 12:09 am

    Quoting spunkycumfun:
    Perhaps he was getting some Dutch courage with the beers.
I want to engage with a sober person.

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EroticMusings2 58F  
661 posts
12/16/2021 12:10 am

    Quoting Buttmuncher2021:
    i hear you. in my case wife just has lost the urge for sex and me not wanting to lose everything else we have abstain to self satisfaction how ever if the rigtht situation ever came along who knows
I sincerely hope that happens to both of us, the right situation.

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EroticMusings2 58F  
661 posts
12/16/2021 12:12 am

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Doesnt that make you mad. I think it is so unfair and selfish of the other person to decide they no longer want to and therefore you are to stifle your natural sexual energy evermore? Fuck that

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EroticMusings2 58F  
661 posts
12/16/2021 12:13 am

    Quoting justskin1:
    Just lunch or coffee is a good way to start. I understand why you took the polyamorous post down. So many have no idea that it does not mean slut. I also agree with your idea of not destroying a long term marriage due to lack of sex and that lack can do it more than adding another to the mix.
    May you find a nearby someone to be a friend and then more than one.

    Sending big naked hugs to you.
Thank you so much, I hope I do too. Big naked hugs to you back.

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EroticMusings2 58F  
661 posts
12/16/2021 12:13 am

Thank you and right back at you.

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EroticMusings2 58F  
661 posts
12/16/2021 12:14 am

    Quoting WyoCowboy7751:
    HERE !!! HERE !!! MAYBE some gals will realize that there are circumstances why a gal seeks pleasure for what a spouse can not provide !!!! I have mentioned my circumstance for seeking my pleasure and being told too seek it but get lam-blasted by some gals for being a cheater !!!! He can't perform, you can !! She can't perform, I can !! Where's the difference Gals ??? 🤠
Exactly, seems to be a very unfair thing. I hope you find a nice gal there and make you buck!

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EroticMusings2 58F  
661 posts
12/16/2021 12:15 am

    Quoting  :

Thank you so much!

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EroticMusings2 58F  
661 posts
12/16/2021 12:16 am

    Quoting Dogalways:
    First meetings should always be public, and without expectations. If the chemistry is right, THEN figure out the next steps. Not every meet is going to shoot sparks either. I've met a few women and couples one or both were just testing the waters, or the ones where one is just trying to make the other happy by playing along. Better to just enjoy the meeting, agree it's to be just friendly, and move on. Avoid the drama.
I totally agree with you

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EroticMusings2 58F  
661 posts
12/16/2021 12:17 am

    Quoting NJGUY08090:
    I'm sorry to felt you had to take our post down. You should be able to be you and share what you want here. PS- I'd never meet you with beer breath.
Thank you and I appreciate that.

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