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Day 9 of Solitude  

EroticMusings2 58F  
1578 posts
10/24/2021 8:39 am
Day 9 of Solitude


This is day 9 of being alone in a house and no car. Overall it has been a good experience, but not being able to go anywhere has really worn on me.

I find I do not overall mind being alone. I mean I have my 3 dogs and one very ancient cat who keep me some company. I talk with my FWB every night, or almost every night. Once in awhile our schedules will not align. We get alone extremely well, and have become good friends and the lover part is spot on too. I do wish he lived closer, and so does he, but that just makes the time we can be together that more precious.

I am not a social butterfly at all, and I prefer to talk to one or two people at a time. I do not like crowds, will never work a room at a party. I tried to be more social but that is not me, has never been me, and will never be me.

So thankfully I do well being alone, though yes I did get a bit lonely at times. My neighbor would stop over and see if I needed anything. He is such a nice man, he does our lawn care, we pay him for that. A few friends texted me, including a few from this site. That helped, and a very good friend of mine called me a few times. He even wanted to be able to come see me but he is getting ready to go back to college and money is a bit tight. I told him to not be spending money like that to see me. After he is done with school, then I would love to see him again.

I kept busy cleaning house, some deep cleaning. And my crafts. Mainly I loom knitted more hats for . I did buy some yarn, though I hadn't in a year. I have a non profit organization where people have donated both knit wear and yarn so I could continue to donate all over the USA. Sometime I will tell you more about that.

I sat and just relaxed, enjoying the house being more peaceful. Did I miss my husband? Yes and no. We are separated for a reason, and I missed the friendship. Not the bullshit in the marriage, or the fighting. I didn't miss the conflicts over not cleaning up after yourself etc. But it gave him time for some mental clarity over what he has been doing for years,which has been emotionally abusive. We had some long talks on me seeing us as just friends, and finally he is accepting that.

So he returns this afternoon and finally I am getting out of the house. I am excited, I need to see the leaves turning more and go eat at a restaurant.

I hope you all are having a wonderful Sunday.

Be good to yourself

Ann

*Creative Outlets of All Forms thru Me*


spunkycumfun 62M/67F  
41171 posts
10/24/2021 11:55 am

It's good that your husband is coming to terms with friendship.
If you feel the need to clean, please fly over to the UK and help me out with the chores!


Paulxx001 65M  
22616 posts
10/24/2021 2:12 pm

Wow! That's a lot of stuff happening, and you sound really positive. z
Good for you! 👍 😊
I've gotten used to life without a car — recently in the garage — by walking and now it's become a habit and a great form of exercise. 👍❗😎


EroticMusings2 58F  
661 posts
10/25/2021 1:24 am

    Quoting spunkycumfun:
    It's good that your husband is coming to terms with friendship.
    If you feel the need to clean, please fly over to the UK and help me out with the chores!
nuckin out the stables eh?

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EroticMusings2 58F  
661 posts
10/25/2021 1:25 am

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Wow! That's a lot of stuff happening, and you sound really positive. z
    Good for you! 👍 😊
    I've gotten used to life without a car — recently in the garage — by walking and now it's become a habit and a great form of exercise. 👍❗😎
Health problems have taken their toll on me being able to walk real far, but I am never giving up. I will overcome yet

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Leegs2012 49M
96134 posts
10/25/2021 11:41 am

Great attitude!! Enjoy and be well!!


EroticMusings2 58F  
661 posts
10/25/2021 10:47 pm

    Quoting Leegs2012:
    Great attitude!! Enjoy and be well!!
Thank you so much for taking the time out to comment.

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