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Physical Type in Sexual Attraction  

EnigmaInitiative 52F
2121 posts
8/27/2020 9:21 am
Physical Type in Sexual Attraction


Continued, first comment

In a sense, sexuality is the built-in psychedelic experience that only a very few people manage to evade.

~Terence McKenna


EnigmaInitiative 52F
4056 posts
8/27/2020 9:22 am

While I'm not willing to go all in and say that appearance makes no difference when it comes to sexual attraction, it only plays a small part for me. Upon mentally going over my last ten sexual partners, there hasn't been one physical trait that encompassed them all. Though, more had glasses than didn't, so maybe I have a thing for people in glasses?

My question of the day is:

Do you have a physical type when it comes to who you're sexually attracted to?

In a sense, sexuality is the built-in psychedelic experience that only a very few people manage to evade.

~Terence McKenna


Doveclover223 31M
54 posts
8/27/2020 9:50 am

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EnigmaInitiative replies on 8/31/2020 10:10 am:
Makes sense.

author51 57F  
102618 posts
8/27/2020 10:05 am

Great minds think alike in a way my friend as I myself just posted about attraction but mine was more about a Beautiful mind of attraction... As for physical yes I do have a certain physical type I have always been attracted to... xoxo

One can never have enough JOY in their life...


EnigmaInitiative replies on 8/31/2020 10:11 am:
I did notice yours right after I posted mine and was thinking the same. Great minds.

sportsfan362437 51F  
935 posts
8/27/2020 10:15 am

There are folks that I find a physical attraction to, or an appreciation of. However, for me, it's all about the mind. THAT's where the real connection must take place.

~Sports


*Smiles, kisses n hugz*
~Sports


EnigmaInitiative replies on 8/31/2020 10:12 am:
Considering looks change, I say that's the safer bet!

partygald 38F
1813 posts
8/27/2020 10:45 am

There’s definitely a physical type I’m attracted to, I won’t lie. But there’s always the deal break. Bad attitude, arrogance, etc etc. I mean, I like good looks and a nice firm ass, but if it comes attached to an ass, thenhe or she can fuck on off 😝


EnigmaInitiative replies on 8/31/2020 10:13 am:
An ass stops being handsome the moment he opens his mouth.

benard69 63M/63F  
5342 posts
8/27/2020 10:49 am

Lovely eyes and a friendly smile...


EnigmaInitiative replies on 8/31/2020 10:13 am:
Good traits.

69ereatwetpussy 58M
3932 posts
8/27/2020 10:52 am

Beautiful smile, bright big eyes, colors don't matter, short or tall, hair cut to match face , long enough nails, red heads or brunette , slim to heavy set bodies, tastful tattoos, someone that laugh, breast small to D size, I'm more a nipple man hard and longer the better.


EnigmaInitiative replies on 8/31/2020 10:14 am:
So great smile and eyes with long nipples.

mc_justmc 60M  
6622 posts
8/27/2020 11:06 am

I always think I do, but it's weird how every time i fall for someone it's a completely different type than i think that I'm looking for. I don't even look for a specific type any more for that reason


EnigmaInitiative replies on 8/31/2020 10:14 am:
It's strange, isn't it? I used to think I had a type, too.

Paulxx001 63M  
16865 posts
8/27/2020 11:36 am

I do but beyond that, they have to have a sense of humour, love music and fast cars.
Yep... weird right?


EnigmaInitiative replies on 8/31/2020 10:15 am:
Don't know that I'd call it weird.

jajo696 65F
2530 posts
8/27/2020 12:22 pm

Beefy and Burly is my type...but as someone said...if that is attached to an arrogant ass.....fughetaboutit. All deals are off with the arrogant arses...lol ~~


EnigmaInitiative replies on 8/31/2020 10:15 am:
It's nice how the arrogant asses open their mouths to turn us off, isn't it? LOL

ULIXBIG 66M
8433 posts
8/27/2020 1:11 pm

Different physical types attract me in different ways. And, of course, there is a mental element to attraction as well.


EnigmaInitiative replies on 8/31/2020 10:16 am:
The mind is the biggest sex organ

PonyGirl1965 54F
11998 posts
8/27/2020 1:47 pm

Happy. The rest is negotiable.


EnigmaInitiative replies on 8/31/2020 10:16 am:
Personality plays such a big part

Starsearch1965 55M
899 posts
8/27/2020 1:56 pm

Pretty eyes and smile I like dark hair but the best things are her heart and mind that’s what will keep you


EnigmaInitiative replies on 8/31/2020 10:17 am:
Looks like pretty eyes and smile are in the majority.

able202 70M
3086 posts
8/27/2020 1:59 pm

A really nice ass in white pants.......

Able202


EnigmaInitiative replies on 8/31/2020 10:17 am:
Guess that outs me, I can't wear white pants for one reason: klutz.

citizen4722 62M  
68489 posts
8/27/2020 3:37 pm

I seem to get on better with women with a fuller figure. It is a preference but it's not that I specifically go looking for that type though.


EnigmaInitiative replies on 8/31/2020 10:18 am:
We just come to you because we know you appreciate us.

japaneseass 53F  
49872 posts
8/27/2020 4:10 pm

tall person...yah...i have never yet to experienced any one under 6' tall...i don't know why...i am only 4'10"...every one should be taller than me...but???


EnigmaInitiative replies on 8/31/2020 10:19 am:
Shit, girl, you're making me feel like a giant at 5'1.

Thanks for that, I rarely feel tall.

classicalrebel4 65M  
1513 posts
8/27/2020 4:39 pm

I like tall women, at least 5'10" and plump.

Please don't let me be misunderstood.


EnigmaInitiative replies on 8/31/2020 10:19 am:
Well, I got the plump part down pat.

New2Midlo 48M  
419 posts
8/27/2020 5:04 pm

Looking back at the partners where there was fire in the room, when we had sex, a few shared some similarities (for some reason, I wind up in bed with buxom redheads), but that was purely accidental.

I'm in the same boat with most of those who already commented. What connected them all was their minds. Intelligent women are the dirtiest and I'm not sure how you can beat that combination.


EnigmaInitiative replies on 8/31/2020 10:20 am:
An intelligent dirty mind is a terrible thing to waste.

resant78 41M  
2813 posts
8/27/2020 6:00 pm

question is "Do you have a physical type when it comes to who you're sexually attracted to?"

I don't have a physical type, I've been attracted to many shapes, sizes and backgrounds. However, I'm a sucker for a pretty smile. And I know a "pretty" smile can be subjective.

Of course the attitude, emotional connection and all of that etc., but we're focusing on the physical right now.


EnigmaInitiative replies on 8/31/2020 10:20 am:
I mean attraction is subjective.

fashionablegma 77F
8069 posts
8/27/2020 9:06 pm

Attraction first and foremost to get my attention,must be tall over six foot,handsome and young hard bodied,not too muscular with sexy eyes,and dark features,must feel chemistry next,a connection of some sort,a sexy smile here and there way he acts around me,paying me much need compliments,


EnigmaInitiative replies on 8/31/2020 10:22 am:
Eyes and smile seem to be on a lot of peoples' lists.

Yours_4A_knight 55M
1403 posts
8/28/2020 2:20 am

I want to claim to not be shallow and that it is not appearance based, but honestly unless she ready to have me see her in running shorts and a sports bra (and considers that as completely normal and acceptable attire) the first time we meet then honestly I am not sure that I would be in the right frame of mind to even think about her in any way other than a friend.

Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.


EnigmaInitiative replies on 8/31/2020 10:23 am:
So you have a "thing" for running shorts and sports bras? I can imagine it must be difficult for you to go to the gym.

secret_lade 46F
4710 posts
8/28/2020 4:00 am

I've always liked short guys. I don't know why.... Even my ex-husband was short, he and I were the same height. I also like a stocky build....


EnigmaInitiative replies on 8/31/2020 10:24 am:
Who knows why we have the preferences we do?

pal334 66M  
41272 posts
8/28/2020 5:37 am

Confidence , and pretty eyes are the biggies for me

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EnigmaInitiative replies on 8/31/2020 10:25 am:
It seems eyes are big for many.

seems6666 50F
4118 posts
8/28/2020 6:51 am

Breathing


EnigmaInitiative replies on 8/31/2020 10:25 am:


And, there goes water all over my screen. Totally didn't expect that one seems.

aman4u1962a 58M
1811 posts
8/28/2020 12:23 pm

Like a lot of the other comments, it's the personality and attitude that are the ultimate deciding factors in attraction.

That being said, I tend to prefer thicker, curvier, BBW body types.

One other thing that I never would have dreamed made a difference before joining this site: being able to use proper spelling and grammar.


EnigmaInitiative replies on 8/31/2020 10:26 am:
Yeah, the spelling thing can get to me, too. I try to tell myself that I do typos all the time, so I shouldn't expect miracles. But, if I get to the fourth email and it's riddled with text speak, I'm turned off.

easyrider4008 64M
1708 posts
8/28/2020 12:26 pm

Lots of different things attract me to a woman from the physical to the mind don't really have a type.


EnigmaInitiative replies on 8/31/2020 10:27 am:
Nothing wrong with that as far as I am concerned.

Dark_Star1972 48M
721 posts
8/29/2020 12:33 am

I've discovered that my type is petite, for the most part.

In the past, I was drawn more to women with long legs and ample breasts, but I've evolved beyond that. Now, when it comes to breasts, it's all about the nipples. The bigger the better and I don't care if their on small breasts or big ones.

Also, I like curvy. The curvier the better. I once knew this hot woman who was short and curvy as hell. Huge butt and ample breasts and she was petite too. (She used to live down the hall.)

The Darkstar

The Bearded One: Dark_Star1972
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EnigmaInitiative replies on 8/31/2020 10:28 am:
I've found that my tastes have evolved a bit over time, as well.

Dark_Star1972 48M
721 posts
8/29/2020 12:36 am

    Quoting japaneseass:
    tall person...yah...i have never yet to experienced any one under 6' tall...i don't know why...i am only 4'10"...every one should be taller than me...but???
4 foot 10!!! Wow! 0_0

I think I'm in lust!

The Darkstar

The Bearded One: Dark_Star1972
_______________________________


lindoboy100 57M
22337 posts
8/30/2020 3:59 pm

Lovely eyes and a nice smile........but on their own that's not enough......, oh, aye, hips are nice too.

Good wee post McTive.

Pull ma finger.........


EnigmaInitiative replies on 8/31/2020 10:28 am:
Eyes and smile seem to be the majority.

Thanks lindo!

japaneseass 53F  
49872 posts
8/31/2020 5:28 pm

oh yah...i heard you are 6'??? yah...ilove it...i love tall men...


Dark_Star1972 48M
721 posts
8/31/2020 11:57 pm

    Quoting japaneseass:
    oh yah...i heard you are 6'??? yah...ilove it...i love tall men...
Yes, I pretty much 6 feet, exactly. Some say I look taller, but I don't think so. I was tall, early in life. I was probably 6 feet tall by the time I was 16 or 17. But, don't quote me on that... it was a loooong time ago.

The Darkstar

The Bearded One: Dark_Star1972
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69ereatwetpussy 58M
3932 posts
9/1/2020 6:36 am

Yes if you have all three then we move on to thighs, wet lips and what ever cums next. Lollloll


EnigmaInitiative replies on 9/1/2020 5:46 pm:
Lol

EnigmaInitiative 52F
4056 posts
9/1/2020 5:45 pm

    Quoting japaneseass:
    oh yah...i heard you are 6'??? yah...ilove it...i love tall men...
Alright, you two, get a room.

In a sense, sexuality is the built-in psychedelic experience that only a very few people manage to evade.

~Terence McKenna


EnigmaInitiative 52F
4056 posts
9/1/2020 6:24 pm

    Quoting Dark_Star1972:
    Yes, I pretty much 6 feet, exactly. Some say I look taller, but I don't think so. I was tall, early in life. I was probably 6 feet tall by the time I was 16 or 17. But, don't quote me on that... it was a loooong time ago.
Alright, you two, get a room.

In a sense, sexuality is the built-in psychedelic experience that only a very few people manage to evade.

~Terence McKenna


Massass1963 57M
396 posts
9/3/2020 8:20 pm

Absolutely physical attraction is important for me. That said, I have a wide variety of appearances that turn me on. Generally, I love nice thighs and ass, with at least average size boobs. An attractive face is important too, but that is very hard to define what is attractive as I might find two different women very attractive, yet they look drastically different.
In the end, if the physical attraction isn't there for me, neither is the hard on! LOL


EnigmaInitiative replies on 9/4/2020 4:43 pm:
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and all that.

lighthousecollec 58F  
931 posts
9/6/2020 12:46 am

Looking back over the Lovers I have had , there has to be some physical attraction but for the most part it's the passion, there attitude and how he treats me all the way around.


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EnigmaInitiative replies on 9/10/2020 9:06 am:
That's how I am, it's more about their personality than their looks.

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