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Ellasboudoir 56F
1036 posts
5/14/2021 6:38 pm
Why do men post pictures of their cock on here??


Hello my fellow playmates,

Happy Friday you all.

My question tonight is why do men post pictures of their cock on here?

Now I have NO issue with it. In fact, I think it is kind of sexy. But most women hate getting a dick pic so if you are truly on here hunting pussy why do you do what a majority of the women hate?

Or do women really like dick pics?? I mean I do but I may be the minority.

So women do you really hate dick pics??

Men why do you post them instead of another body part??

Ella

69ereatwetpussy 58M
5205 posts
5/14/2021 6:56 pm

Same reason you post your fine looking ass to be seen.
It the bait to see who will bite.
l only share the rest of me if I know you would not mind
If you ask
Or after we been talking and I think it's time to show you.
Some guys just want to get to the point of no takers they move on.


luckyhands21 43M
307 posts
5/14/2021 7:31 pm

Actually it is really annoying. Straight guys like me have no desire to see that shit and its posted all over this site and some others. These lames don't get the fact that NOBODY wants to see that right out of the gate. Men can't take any good pictures of themselves down there yet these assholes continue to try to think for everyone else and just knows that the entire population of the site would much rather see their shriveled disease ridden stack of dimes over a beautiful woman's figure. Some days you just can't fix stupid and the "dick piccers" prove it every time they log on.


Massass1963 58M
1536 posts
5/14/2021 7:50 pm

I have compelling reason to believe most women, in spite of what they say, do like pics of cocks. That said, I don't think many like them SENT to them. Women SAY size doesn't matter, but when you pay attention to their blogs and note their "favorite" pics, many DO think it matters. Others state outright they want well-endowed men. So, posting cock pics makes sense.
Why cock pics and not other body parts? I guess it is the same reason women post tit pics. We see it as the most sexual part of our bodies ... Most of us have an exhibitionist side, as many women on here also do. That said showing our chests or arms or even legs, just doesn't meet that side of us.
Women tend to show tits over pussies likely because size up there matters to many men. Pussy "size" isn't much of a thing, really. So, as expected, women usually have tit pics on their profiles.


lokingforfun82 40M
199 posts
5/14/2021 7:59 pm

Just because we can...


hottub469 50M

5/14/2021 8:07 pm

i have never heard a woman say..." give me more chest!"


RubyPearle 69F
2 posts
5/14/2021 8:10 pm

lol that's cute! ha'


1957justme2 63M  
20 posts
5/14/2021 8:12 pm

I D K Please let me know if you find out


RubyPearle 69F
2 posts
5/14/2021 8:16 pm

Sometimes it's nice to leave for the imagination sometimes takes the fun and thrill out seeing before and as for the size depends on the package as long as it can do it's job should not matter but some can't even get it in less know hard! lol


redrockrascal 62M
22869 posts
5/14/2021 8:18 pm

so if you are truly on here hunting pussy why do you do what a majority of the women hate? Ignorance perhaps

Or do women really like dick pics?? I mean I do but I may be the minority.
From reading some profiles most don't

Men why do you post them instead of another body part?I posted a head shot

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


OlBlueEyz46 54M
736 posts
5/14/2021 8:32 pm

because they're dicks!


ItsThtPervertGuy 41M
465 posts
5/14/2021 8:54 pm

I did it personally as I am a shy exhibitionist. I Could probably not join a nudist Club so this site gives people that chance to let out their inner shy or not uninhibited exhibitionist side. Also as we see ourselves differently than other see us. I always thought I had a nice size Member but was not sure (maybe to much Porn had me unsure) so I figure I would post and see what other thought. And I think it was just fun to do and go with the flow of the site.

I do not get those women who say they hate dick pics. First off what did you think you were going to see on a site like this? This is not match or eharmony so why try to change it to those? There are more main stream sites than this type so why come here? Also the women who say if you only have a dick pick on your profile don't bother. So you are being judgemental? But I bet you don't want to be judged right?

Not if you do not want emails of dick pics I understand that but you cannot expect not to see them on a site like this and the Really funny part is. I am sure every body on this site knows you can choose no nudity so why haven't they used that setting?? Hmmmm? If you are still on Full Nudity then must must not mind looking at a Dick that much!!


cyclingfool 59M  
6577 posts
5/14/2021 9:09 pm

It's all we've got. Sure, we might be lucky and be handsome, but face it, maybe not..lol
You can display, without actually displaying your curves. We can't...
But I understand that women get slammed on these sites. I'm sure it can be overwhelming.


Redbkr 53F
1 post
5/14/2021 9:33 pm

I think they do it for other guys to see. So they can get a rating or praise. Whether they're gay or bi or straight. I personally, am not crazy about it ....because I'd Like to see the guy from head to toe 1st ..whether clothed or not. I'd Like to see their face (no hats and no sunglasses) I also think most guys want to see women from head to toe also...not JUST closeups of breasts and pussy or ass.


redduracell 50M
844 posts
5/14/2021 10:15 pm

Must be because they are attached to them...


Cordonrouge5 56M  
101 posts
5/15/2021 1:53 am

Most guys haven't figured out that women aren't as visual as men are when it comes to what they find attractive or exciting.


Lkn4funwith2 56M
1153 posts
5/15/2021 1:58 am

    Quoting ItsThtPervertGuy:
    I did it personally as I am a shy exhibitionist. I Could probably not join a nudist Club so this site gives people that chance to let out their inner shy or not uninhibited exhibitionist side. Also as we see ourselves differently than other see us. I always thought I had a nice size Member but was not sure (maybe to much Porn had me unsure) so I figure I would post and see what other thought. And I think it was just fun to do and go with the flow of the site.

    I do not get those women who say they hate dick pics. First off what did you think you were going to see on a site like this? This is not match or eharmony so why try to change it to those? There are more main stream sites than this type so why come here? Also the women who say if you only have a dick pick on your profile don't bother. So you are being judgemental? But I bet you don't want to be judged right?

    Not if you do not want emails of dick pics I understand that but you cannot expect not to see them on a site like this and the Really funny part is. I am sure every body on this site knows you can choose no nudity so why haven't they used that setting?? Hmmmm? If you are still on Full Nudity then must must not mind looking at a Dick that much!!
My thoughts exactly! Personally, I do not like surprises, and do not want to disappoint women, so they can see what there is to work with. If it isn't enough, then neither will waste time. Also, having a dick pic is a way of screening-out women who would not be compatible.


Brownie202 64F
2263 posts
5/15/2021 5:00 am

Having even one dick picture is a hard limit for me. One that no man has been able to push. Don't even look to see who flirts and hot lists me. Do not want to see strange dicks staring at me.

Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth.

If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.


Mdonson57 60M
441 posts
5/15/2021 5:19 am

Mine is in folder that friends can access. Otherwise just body shots

MDonson
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lyavu 48F
1487 posts
5/15/2021 5:24 am

To impress women and men


MyBaffies 51M
4704 posts
5/15/2021 5:59 am

For some, it's their best feature. Which says everything really.

Baffies

Link to my blog: MyBaffies


T_Louise 56F  
152 posts
5/15/2021 6:21 am

Because they are so in love with their dicks, and that really is the only thing they can offer a woman...or guy....whatever...lol


CleavageFan4U 64M  
66320 posts
5/15/2021 6:28 am

While there are one or two dick pics in my album here, they're in a humorous vein (no pun intended). I've never used on as my main profile shot. I suppose some men get a thrill out of posting them, or like to show how big and hard they are.

I think many women don't care for the practice since it seems shallow - a man that ONLY posts dick pics likely ONLY views a woman as a pussy.

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magictonguesc13 50M
54 posts
5/15/2021 6:43 am

I think because I'm an exhibitionist1 Same reason why I go on the live cam here.......


seems6666 50F
4456 posts
5/15/2021 7:28 am

    Quoting 69ereatwetpussy:
    Same reason you post your fine looking ass to be seen.
    It the bait to see who will bite.
    l only share the rest of me if I know you would not mind
    If you ask
    Or after we been talking and I think it's time to show you.
    Some guys just want to get to the point of no takers they move on.
Men are visually stimulated... women.. in the main... aren't so you WOULD get turned on by a pretty ass.. but there is no such thing as a pretty cock! Most women are turned on mentally, so a pic of a man with his undies round his ankles in the bathroom... certainly isn't doing it for me


seems6666 50F
4456 posts
5/15/2021 7:33 am

    Quoting Lkn4funwith2:
    My thoughts exactly! Personally, I do not like surprises, and do not want to disappoint women, so they can see what there is to work with. If it isn't enough, then neither will waste time. Also, having a dick pic is a way of screening-out women who would not be compatible.
Sooooo you're saying that just because a woman does not like dick pics thrust in her face every minute that she doesn't like dick/sex? ..... oooh I expect she's a lesbian too... obviously


seems6666 50F
4456 posts
5/15/2021 7:35 am

    Quoting ItsThtPervertGuy:
    I did it personally as I am a shy exhibitionist. I Could probably not join a nudist Club so this site gives people that chance to let out their inner shy or not uninhibited exhibitionist side. Also as we see ourselves differently than other see us. I always thought I had a nice size Member but was not sure (maybe to much Porn had me unsure) so I figure I would post and see what other thought. And I think it was just fun to do and go with the flow of the site.

    I do not get those women who say they hate dick pics. First off what did you think you were going to see on a site like this? This is not match or eharmony so why try to change it to those? There are more main stream sites than this type so why come here? Also the women who say if you only have a dick pick on your profile don't bother. So you are being judgemental? But I bet you don't want to be judged right?

    Not if you do not want emails of dick pics I understand that but you cannot expect not to see them on a site like this and the Really funny part is. I am sure every body on this site knows you can choose no nudity so why haven't they used that setting?? Hmmmm? If you are still on Full Nudity then must must not mind looking at a Dick that much!!
This is a fair point...and at least your pic isn't taken in a toilet with your pants around your ankles, and you do have a dick worth showing off
I wouldn't say if you only have a dick pic don't bother.. bit I want to get to know the man attached to that dick.. I can't have a conversation with a dick


New2Midlo 51M  
644 posts
5/15/2021 8:45 am

There are a few reasons, with the most common being that guys make the mistake women are stimulated visually, like they are. To many women, the quality of a sexual experience has no correlation to what the dick looks like (within normal tolerances, obviously). Rather, her pleasure is derived from what her partner's doing with said dick and more importantly, the owner's overall skill in stoking her passion.

While I've encountered a few women who enjoy dick pics, most don't. That being said, a number of my prior regular partners had voiced interest in receiving a few photos of my equipment.

With respect to posting photos of other body parts, let's be honest, unless a guy is ripped, there really isn't another part that could be considered lust inducing.


Lkn4funwith2 56M
1153 posts
5/15/2021 10:38 am

    Quoting seems6666:
    Sooooo you're saying that just because a woman does not like dick pics thrust in her face every minute that she doesn't like dick/sex? ..... oooh I expect she's a lesbian too... obviously
That is YOUR opinion. Everyone has one.


NJGUY08090 54M
3828 posts
5/15/2021 1:51 pm

I think since this is an adult site show what you want. Everyone should be able to do what they are comfortable with.


Ellasboudoir 56F
500 posts
5/16/2021 7:23 am

    Quoting 69ereatwetpussy:
    Same reason you post your fine looking ass to be seen.
    It the bait to see who will bite.
    l only share the rest of me if I know you would not mind
    If you ask
    Or after we been talking and I think it's time to show you.
    Some guys just want to get to the point of no takers they move on.
First of all, thank you for the nice comment. Understood. Just put it out there and move on. Got it. Makes sense.


Ellasboudoir 56F
500 posts
5/16/2021 7:25 am

    Quoting luckyhands21:
    Actually it is really annoying. Straight guys like me have no desire to see that shit and its posted all over this site and some others. These lames don't get the fact that NOBODY wants to see that right out of the gate. Men can't take any good pictures of themselves down there yet these assholes continue to try to think for everyone else and just knows that the entire population of the site would much rather see their shriveled disease ridden stack of dimes over a beautiful woman's figure. Some days you just can't fix stupid and the "dick piccers" prove it every time they log on.
well Sir tell us how you really feel. I love your honesty.


Ellasboudoir 56F
500 posts
5/16/2021 7:28 am

    Quoting Massass1963:
    I have compelling reason to believe most women, in spite of what they say, do like pics of cocks. That said, I don't think many like them SENT to them. Women SAY size doesn't matter, but when you pay attention to their blogs and note their "favorite" pics, many DO think it matters. Others state outright they want well-endowed men. So, posting cock pics makes sense.
    Why cock pics and not other body parts? I guess it is the same reason women post tit pics. We see it as the most sexual part of our bodies ... Most of us have an exhibitionist side, as many women on here also do. That said showing our chests or arms or even legs, just doesn't meet that side of us.
    Women tend to show tits over pussies likely because size up there matters to many men. Pussy "size" isn't much of a thing, really. So, as expected, women usually have tit pics on their profiles.
To me, size doesn't matter to a certain degree. Now if it is exceptionally small (in girth) or exceptionally large (length or girth) it matters. I personally prefer an "average" size cock. I don't want a baseball bat or a pencil size but other than that size does not matter to me.


Ellasboudoir 56F
500 posts
5/16/2021 7:29 am

Truth!!!


Ellasboudoir 56F
500 posts
5/16/2021 7:29 am

    Quoting hottub469:
    i have never heard a woman say..." give me more chest!"
Ahhh I love a chest. I want to lay on it. Kiss it and stare at it. YUMMY!!!!


Ellasboudoir 56F
500 posts
5/16/2021 7:30 am


Ellasboudoir 56F
500 posts
5/16/2021 7:30 am

    Quoting 1957justme2:
    I D K Please let me know if you find out
Stay tuned...


Ellasboudoir 56F
500 posts
5/16/2021 7:31 am

    Quoting RubyPearle:
    Sometimes it's nice to leave for the imagination sometimes takes the fun and thrill out seeing before and as for the size depends on the package as long as it can do it's job should not matter but some can't even get it in less know hard! lol
Very true my Lady.


Ellasboudoir 56F
500 posts
5/16/2021 7:32 am

    Quoting redrockrascal:
    so if you are truly on here hunting pussy why do you do what a majority of the women hate? Ignorance perhaps

    Or do women really like dick pics?? I mean I do but I may be the minority.
    From reading some profiles most don't

    Men why do you post them instead of another body part?I posted a head shot
And a very nice head shot that is...


Ellasboudoir 56F
500 posts
5/16/2021 7:32 am


Ellasboudoir 56F
500 posts
5/16/2021 7:35 am

    Quoting ItsThtPervertGuy:
    I did it personally as I am a shy exhibitionist. I Could probably not join a nudist Club so this site gives people that chance to let out their inner shy or not uninhibited exhibitionist side. Also as we see ourselves differently than other see us. I always thought I had a nice size Member but was not sure (maybe to much Porn had me unsure) so I figure I would post and see what other thought. And I think it was just fun to do and go with the flow of the site.

    I do not get those women who say they hate dick pics. First off what did you think you were going to see on a site like this? This is not match or eharmony so why try to change it to those? There are more main stream sites than this type so why come here? Also the women who say if you only have a dick pick on your profile don't bother. So you are being judgemental? But I bet you don't want to be judged right?

    Not if you do not want emails of dick pics I understand that but you cannot expect not to see them on a site like this and the Really funny part is. I am sure every body on this site knows you can choose no nudity so why haven't they used that setting?? Hmmmm? If you are still on Full Nudity then must must not mind looking at a Dick that much!!
Ohhh there are plenty of dicks on Eharmony. Trust me...oh you mean the sex organ dick. Gotcha.

Now as far as your member. YES Sir you have a very large nice member. Honestly, that would scare the s*** out of me if I saw it erect and headed for my throat or lady parts.


Ellasboudoir 56F
500 posts
5/16/2021 7:36 am

    Quoting cyclingfool:
    It's all we've got. Sure, we might be lucky and be handsome, but face it, maybe not..lol
    You can display, without actually displaying your curves. We can't...
    But I understand that women get slammed on these sites. I'm sure it can be overwhelming.
Well, I love your profile pic. I love that it shows something you like to do.


Ellasboudoir 56F
500 posts
5/16/2021 7:37 am

    Quoting Redbkr:
    I think they do it for other guys to see. So they can get a rating or praise. Whether they're gay or bi or straight. I personally, am not crazy about it ....because I'd Like to see the guy from head to toe 1st ..whether clothed or not. I'd Like to see their face (no hats and no sunglasses) I also think most guys want to see women from head to toe also...not JUST closeups of breasts and pussy or ass.
Makes sense. Thank you for the feedback.


Ellasboudoir 56F
500 posts
5/16/2021 7:38 am

    Quoting redduracell:
    Must be because they are attached to them...


Ellasboudoir 56F
500 posts
5/16/2021 7:39 am

    Quoting Cordonrouge5:
    Most guys haven't figured out that women aren't as visual as men are when it comes to what they find attractive or exciting.
Yes I would tend to agree or maybe they are just not as handsome as you.


Ellasboudoir 56F
500 posts
5/16/2021 7:40 am

    Quoting Lkn4funwith2:
    My thoughts exactly! Personally, I do not like surprises, and do not want to disappoint women, so they can see what there is to work with. If it isn't enough, then neither will waste time. Also, having a dick pic is a way of screening-out women who would not be compatible.
Hum, I think I understand. Not sure how that screens out women but okay.


Ellasboudoir 56F
500 posts
5/16/2021 7:41 am

    Quoting Brownie202:
    Having even one dick picture is a hard limit for me. One that no man has been able to push. Don't even look to see who flirts and hot lists me. Do not want to see strange dicks staring at me.
Understood. Makes sense. I love to hear from women on these issues so thank you for stopping by.


Ellasboudoir 56F
500 posts
5/16/2021 7:41 am

    Quoting Mdonson57:
    Mine is in folder that friends can access. Otherwise just body shots
And a very nice body it is....


Ellasboudoir 56F
500 posts
5/16/2021 7:42 am

    Quoting  :

So true!!!!!!


Ellasboudoir 56F
500 posts
5/16/2021 7:43 am

    Quoting lyavu:
    To impress women and men
Agreed. Just not sure it impresses most women.


Ellasboudoir 56F
500 posts
5/16/2021 7:44 am

    Quoting MyBaffies:
    For some, it's their best feature. Which says everything really.
Yeah, could be true. Or at least they think it is their best feature.


BiggLala 49F  
29743 posts
5/16/2021 7:44 am

For some reason, the men who pick dick pics as their main pic and/or post a plethora of dick pics *think* it's THE best (read: only) way to go...because...it's a sex site. I question just how successful these guys are at meeting women...IF they're here to actually meet women.

I think it's about strategy, There is only one valid way to assess your approach does it work or not. Unfortunately, far too many men continue their poor strategy because...it worked that one time. 🤷🏽‍♀️

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Ellasboudoir 56F
500 posts
5/16/2021 7:46 am

    Quoting T_Louise:
    Because they are so in love with their dicks, and that really is the only thing they can offer a woman...or guy....whatever...lol
Boom T_Louise has spoken.


Ellasboudoir 56F
500 posts
5/16/2021 8:00 am

    Quoting CleavageFan4U:
    While there are one or two dick pics in my album here, they're in a humorous vein (no pun intended). I've never used on as my main profile shot. I suppose some men get a thrill out of posting them, or like to show how big and hard they are.

    I think many women don't care for the practice since it seems shallow - a man that ONLY posts dick pics likely ONLY views a woman as a pussy.

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Hum interesting. Perhaps you should write a blog about do men who post dick pics only see women as a pussy. I would love to read.


Ellasboudoir 56F
500 posts
5/16/2021 8:01 am

    Quoting magictonguesc13:
    I think because I'm an exhibitionist1 Same reason why I go on the live cam here.......
And once again you have a very nice one.


Ellasboudoir 56F
500 posts
5/16/2021 8:02 am

    Quoting seems6666:
    Men are visually stimulated... women.. in the main... aren't so you WOULD get turned on by a pretty ass.. but there is no such thing as a pretty cock! Most women are turned on mentally, so a pic of a man with his undies round his ankles in the bathroom... certainly isn't doing it for me
LOL or sitting on the toilet as I have seen. Yep, I would agree.


Ellasboudoir 56F
500 posts
5/16/2021 8:05 am

    Quoting seems6666:
    This is a fair point...and at least your pic isn't taken in a toilet with your pants around your ankles, and you do have a dick worth showing off
    I wouldn't say if you only have a dick pic don't bother.. bit I want to get to know the man attached to that dick.. I can't have a conversation with a dick
Umm I disagree I talk to B's dick all the time. I tell him how much I love him.


Ellasboudoir 56F
500 posts
5/16/2021 8:10 am

    Quoting New2Midlo:
    There are a few reasons, with the most common being that guys make the mistake women are stimulated visually, like they are. To many women, the quality of a sexual experience has no correlation to what the dick looks like (within normal tolerances, obviously). Rather, her pleasure is derived from what her partner's doing with said dick and more importantly, the owner's overall skill in stoking her passion.

    While I've encountered a few women who enjoy dick pics, most don't. That being said, a number of my prior regular partners had voiced interest in receiving a few photos of my equipment.

    With respect to posting photos of other body parts, let's be honest, unless a guy is ripped, there really isn't another part that could be considered lust inducing.
I am going to have to disagree. I love a chest shot but my favorite is the arms. A man's arms does it all for me. I honestly get turned on by B's arms. Maybe I will blog about that soon....


Ellasboudoir 56F
500 posts
5/16/2021 8:11 am

    Quoting NJGUY08090:
    I think since this is an adult site show what you want. Everyone should be able to do what they are comfortable with.
Agree!!! Live free and do what makes you feel good. I love it.


Lkn4funwith2 56M
1153 posts
5/16/2021 5:54 pm

    Quoting Ellasboudoir:
    Hum, I think I understand. Not sure how that screens out women but okay.
Women who hate dick pics will not respond to messages, and the women who do like dick pics have replied. Simple.


cyclingfool 59M  
6577 posts
5/17/2021 5:48 am

Thank you...
If you like any of my blog post please comment also. It would be nice to know some of your thoughts.


Ellasboudoir 56F
500 posts
5/17/2021 2:25 pm

    Quoting Lkn4funwith2:
    Women who hate dick pics will not respond to messages, and the women who do like dick pics have replied. Simple.
Oh okay gotcha


trisexual1369 111F
20 posts
5/18/2021 11:52 am

I always thought women preferred something besides a boring dick pix. Personally I like an outline pix in some gorgeous boxers. But my guy friend was on here and had no dick pix and he told me so many girls were like.... where's your dick pix. So I guess we all are different. Guys should have maybe one but definitely not the main photo.


trisexual1369 111F
20 posts
5/18/2021 11:53 am

I like a good mans butt. Not enough butt pix..... and guys it's ok to sometimes smile in your pix.


Ellasboudoir 56F
500 posts
5/18/2021 7:08 pm

    Quoting trisexual1369:
    I always thought women preferred something besides a boring dick pix. Personally I like an outline pix in some gorgeous boxers. But my guy friend was on here and had no dick pix and he told me so many girls were like.... where's your dick pix. So I guess we all are different. Guys should have maybe one but definitely not the main photo.
Yes, I like dick pics but I prefer chest. That's just me though. Thanks for stopping by.


prospectdave 58M
30 posts
6/9/2021 2:27 pm

It aint much but I like it


poetbill54 66M  
2 posts
6/12/2021 12:55 pm

Personally I think Dick Pic's are crude. If the woman asks for one that is different but to just throw it out there. I won't .


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