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True Senior Sizzle Story
Posted:Feb 21, 2022 5:46 pm
Last Updated:Feb 21, 2022 5:54 pm

The following is absolutely true and a long while ago.
In the late 2000s, easily a dozen years ago, I struck an friendship through Senior Sizzle. We met once for lunch and agreed to meet again. We met a couple of other times, a foreplay, exchanged orgasms but was not until our fourth meeting that we consummated our friendship. We continued to have arranged meeting about every 20 to 0 days for the next 4 years. We would exchange emails to inquire when we each had time to meet and occasional texts. We never crossed into each other's space or regular life. Her first name was long so I called her by the first letter of her name, which in itself could be a person's name. She said she liked that, that she thought it was and allowed her to think of herself during those moments as an individual woman with desires, instead of the named person with responsibilities the rest of the time. I never asked her last name. We would get together when our schedules allowed, no pressure, sometimes hotels in nice places if we could arrange overnights. We were able to develop that physical familiarity, trust, and established an predictable comfortable space so that when we were together, we could be and do whatever we wanted during the time we had. If a longer time had passed since we had seen each other, we might exchange ideas on what we wanted to do with each other or we'd meet at the toy store and rush back to our playground. It was a nice escape. The real world never entered. (Phones off. Intentionally never included alcohol. There was never an argument or awkward moment. It was pleasant.) I am calculating now, no more than ten meetings a year over 4 years. I estimate approximately 30 visits in that 4-year time period.

One message after not visiting for a couple of months asked if we could meet at a location for a drink. This was different and when we met, she said that I had always been respectful and she wanted nothing less than to be respectful in what she wanted to share. She explained that in our time together I had helped her recover from a divorce and awakened her feelings of desire and passion after a relationship where she felt neither. Being able to arrange our private escapes allowed her to focus on her without pressure to date anyone. She thanked me for never asking questions about her personal life and that she knew she could count on me to not cause any drama, where everything else, being a mom and her job and her , all things she never spoke of before, were a mess. She was glad she could get away with me and knew our private moments would never follow her home.

She wanted me to know that she had met someone and that she thought there was something there, that she wanted to give him a chance without the distraction of me. I was disappointed but I got it. She was explaining to me that she met someone, she wanted to be married, and it was important not to have a guy on the side. I was not expecting that conversation, but I also was not expecting a 4-year FWB, either. Giant hugs, a few tears, and I never saw her again. That was easily years ago, likely more. I never met anyone on Senior Sizzle after my first meeting with her. Have not posted or met anyone on Senior Sizzle since then.

I'm not trying to re-create the past. to demonstrate that if you are looking for someone who absolutely will not complicate your life, I can be that guy.
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