Swinging concerns for men  

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2/22/2022 10:30 am
Swinging concerns for men

Going into your first MFM threesome is a big step, especially if youre the guy in a relationship. You might feel like youre ready, but theres a nagging question at the back of your mind: What if the other dude makes her cum harder? That can be a pretty scary thing in a serious relationship. Its also a common fear dont beat yourself about it! Were here to help.

You might be worrying about nothing
Is your lady going to cum harder during your first MFM situation than when its just between you and her? Maybe. Does that mean youre going to hate the experience? Not at all.

Its easy to imagine the scenario in your head and get shaky knees, but theres a reason youre doing this. sex turns you on (and if it doesnt; what the hell are you doing? back out now!) Seeing your have a great time, even if its with someone else, should make you feel good. It should make you harder and make your experience better. If it doesnt, you jumped into things too soon or your<b> fantasy </font></b>is better left as that: a<b> fantasy.

</font></b>If she does cum harder than usual you helped make it happen
The experience you helped create for your lady has allowed her to have one of the best orgasms of her life. You did that: your trust, physical touch, and were all critical for this to happen. Its still an experience that the of you are having together, and it was possible because you allowed it to happen without shame or guilt. Its okay to back out if you become uncomfortable, but try to keep your ego at bay especially during your first MFM. You might regret it later.

-on- sex might be better from here
Dont be surprised if the way your lady orgasms changes after this experience. In fact, the of you will probably feel closer than before. This alone can supercharge your one-on-one play, but dont forget that an MFM is also an opportunity to pick up on some new techniques. Opening up your sex life, even if its just once or twice, can really amp things up in the bedroom if you treat it as a learning experience. Stay out of your head and dont let your insecurities get the best of you!


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