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Posted:Jan 17, 2014 2:02 pm
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Hmmm? The Urge Of The Ultimate Pleasure 
What Is It That Drives Us To Seek Such Wonderful Sexual Experiences With Beautiful People?
Another Big Question Is Why Do Women Always Prefer The "Bad Guy Type" of person to be with? Someone who has lived in the prison life and continues to have that mentality, not truly genuine caring for her. Instead of a nice genuine, sincere, down to earth kinda guy?...
That is the Question of The Day... What Drives Women To That Dead End Misery Latent Relationship With The Bad Boy Type Guy? Sometimes even criminal and abusive in every way possible?
Christian~
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GREEK 101
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Posted:Jan 3, 2018 8:31 am
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Butt Sex for Beginners – An Introductory Guide to Anal
Rascal Soloman December 13, 20170 comments
Butt Sex for Beginners – An Introductory Guide to AnalIndividuals pictured are models and are used for illustrative purposes.
Have you ever watched someone jump right into CrossFit when they’ve spent their whole life being a couch potato? They sweat a lot. They make noises that have nothing to do with pleasure. Their position is off. They aren’t really doing it right so they’re more likely to hurt themselves. They tend to make a mess of themselves, then the next day they’re sore and can’t move. They didn’t have a good time and don’t really want to do it again, despite how many of their friends say they love it. Yeah, anal sex is a lot like that.
You look at CrossFit and think “I can do jumping jacks and jump onto a box.” Or at least you think you can until you try it and discover there’s a lot more to it than you originally thought. Anal is like that, too.
Most people think, “Hey, I have a butt! I’ve been using it my whole life so I can totally figure out how to stick something up there.” Can you? Sure. Will you enjoy it? Probably not. Just like with CrossFit (and life in general), you need to prepare yourself or your ass will be sore and you won’t have a good time.
If you want to dive into the deep end of anal sex, then you need to prepare yourself. This is a marathon, not a sprint; so it’ll take some prep work before you’re ready to take the big D in the big B.
Start Small
Most people brag about how big their member is, not how small it is. In the case of butt loving, however, smaller is usually better. But even if you’re lucky enough to have a guy with a tiny peen, it’s still probably not small enough, so start things off with a finger.
Start by letting him “ring your doorbell” by pressing on the outside to start stimulating and relaxing you into the feeling of pressure on your back door. We suggest using lube because there’s no such thing as too much lube when it comes to anal sex. And by lube we mean lube — not spit, not lotion, actual lube. The butt doesn’t lubricate itself naturally like the vagina, so when it gets aroused it’s still puckered.
Once your body starts to relax to a little ding dong pressure, he or she can start lightly inserting the tip of their finger in. Err on the shallow side, as you’re about to encounter a whole lot of sensations you’ve probably never had before.
I know they all say it’s just the tip…but really, start with the fingertip and just push in and out. You don’t need to make a come hither motion with your finger; a simple in and out is usually good enough. All the nerve endings are in the anus, which is the port of entry to butt town, so only putting in your tip will feel better for the recipient. As you’re receiving their finger, try to relax, breathe, and use lots of lube. When in doubt, add lube! If that’s pleasurable you can start putting more of the finger inside.
This shouldn’t hurt, so if it does then you need to spend more time relaxing and trying other foreplay. Basically it should just feel like you need to poop — I know there is nothing terribly sexy about that, but that’s what it feels like. It might not feel good to start, but with practice you’ll hopefully have an A-Ha moment where suddenly it starts to feel good…really good!
Push It Real Good
As he or she is putting their finger in, you can push against them. I know pushing seems counter intuitive, but the pushing can make it easier for their finger to go in. Plus when you relax, your little butthole kind of sucks their finger in like an anal vortex of pleasure. Oh yeah…add more lube.
Anal Training
Anal training isn’t just for the pros. In fact, it’s meant more for beginners than anyone else. If you want to be able to take a penis in the backside you may need to train your body to accept something of that size. This is where butt plugs become your friend. You can buy small butt plugs and then buy ones that get progressively larger until they are the size, or just slightly bigger, than your partner. When you use a sex toy, make sure it’s one that’s meant for anal. It should have a flare base — this will ensure you don’t suck the toy up into your leather cheerio. Trust me, you don’t want to do that.
Starting with something small can help get your butt used to having something in there at all. It’s like stretching before a work out — you can’t do a tree pose until you stretch out your legs. In the same vein, you have to stretch your butt muscle too.
As people start anal training they’ll often leave a butt plug in for many hours at a time, then continue this process for a few days. Once they feel they’re able to easily receive that size plug, they go to a bigger size. Then it’s just rinse and repeat until they’re at the size they want.
Your butt won’t stay stretched out, so the initial training is to get your body adjusted to the feeling. You may also want to do training if you know you’re going to have anal sex later that night. You can start small and work your way up, but instead of doing it over days, you do it over a few hours. That way your body is ready when you and your partner are ready.
Can it be messy?
Yes. You’re doing stuff to the butt and that’s where poop comes out of your body. If you’re not OK with possibly encountering poop, then don’t try anal. You can do something to help reduce the likelihood of having a close encounter of the poop kind, like eating things that do not make you poop or constipate you. You should also stay away from spicy things for the day, and anything else that might give you the trots. Don’t eat for a few hours before having anal sex, as you don’t want to have anything in your belly when pushing on the back door. You can also give yourself an enema to clean out your insides, but don’t eat after the enema as that will just refill your guts with food. Even with all this prep you still might encounter unsanitary results, so be prepared to clean up with a smile.
Slow and Low
Now that you’ve managed to get a peen into your bean hole, don’t go all crazy monkey sex. Slow is more likely to feel better, so take the time to find a position you like. Not all anal has to be on all fours — you can do it reverse cowgirl, lying on your side, or even in missionary. Whatever is the most comfortable to you is the position du jour, but use lots of lube no matter what position you’re in.
Anal sex is something to work up to and can be a very satisfying sexual act, but it’s not for everyone. Not everyone likes anal sex, and this includes men and women. So if you give it the old college try and still find it to be lack luster, that’s OK. Some people love it, some people hate it, and others just like to talk about butts.
Wherever you fall on the butt-loving spectrum, it’s OK. Just use lots of lube!
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Secrets to Pleasing That Kitty
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Posted:Oct 14, 2017 3:31 pm
Last Updated:Jun 9, 2018 9:59 pm
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Here are some recommended Pointers:
FINGERS FIRST
One of the biggest mistakes that men (or women even) make when performing oral sex on their partner is to dive right in with the licking. There are so many other ways to tantalize her sacred spaces without your tongue. This is NOT to suggest that your tongue is not welcome to join the party – just try to vary your technique a bit with other options. Women love to know that when you are down between their legs that you find their personal parts sexy and stimulating. The first way to do this is to become an admirer. That’s right – admire your woman’s vagina. Look at it, run your fingers over it, just comment on it. Let her know how turned on you are by her and her vagina. Let her just lie back and enjoy what you are doing without worrying about doing anything to you. Situate yourself – at least at first – far enough that she can’t reach you. Let her know it is all about HER and HER pleasure, not about you! Begin with your hands and fingers – squeeze the labia between your fingers. Rub and caress her but do not touch her clitoris. The idea is to so slowly seduce her into a frenzy before you even touch her clitoris. Pull gently on her labia – inner and outer – and just admire how she will begin to moan and move with your touch – silently (or not so silently) begging you to lick her. DON’T! There are more ways to please her than with your mouth – so be patient – and tell her to be patient too. Run your finger up and down between her labia – don’t insert a finger but instead, slowly tantalize her opening just a bit. The idea is to provide sensations and let her know you are admiring and loving the pleasure you are giving her. Use your hands to grab and caress her thighs, her tummy, and her pelvic arch. Tease and taunt her with your hands. Stimulate her as much as possible without directly touching her clitoris.
TONGUE TEASING
When you have sufficiently gotten your partner excited and aroused – it is time to move on to some tongue techniques. This does not mean that you are going to stop using your fingers – you are – but a little lick will do the trick here! Most men seem to want to dive right into licking the clitoris – it is, after all, the love button! DON’T – resist the urge and savor your partner’s other private parts. Lick up and down her labia, in the middle, around her opening. Pay attention to her lips – slowly suck them in. Use your fingers at the same time to caress her, to open her up. When she is just in absolutely ecstasy – give her clitoris a little lick. Slowly, lick it hard and then STOP again. Move on to other areas again. Then go back up and give it a little suck. Form your mouth into an “O” and suck her clitoris into your mouth. Marvel at how it gets engorged with blood and how she lubricates, showing you how aroused she is! Now you are ready for some serious licking – but there are rules to this. First, you should never lap at your woman’s vagina like a taking a drink! There is technique – a good and a bad way! I know, you are thinking, “but it is called, ‘eating a girl out.’” While this might be some man’s idea of properly naming the event, it surely doesn’t represent what you really should do during oral sex. First, you are not digging in her vagina for buried treasure – you are exposing her treasure “externally” and then getting the reward from within. Your licking should be like you are eating an ice cream cone. With gentle care – being careful not to push the ice cream off the cone. Use your tongue to taste your lover’s “cream” and to gently give homage to her whole cone – her labia, inner creases and of course – the cherry on top – the clitoris! You would never just eat the center of the cone – but instead have to equally disperse your licking all around the cone. To do this in oral sex – you pay attention to every inch of your woman’s vagina.
CONCENTRATE ON HER CLITORIS
Now, now is the time to concentrate on your partner’s clitoris. Not before, but now! You have to really draw out the process to make her literally and subconsciously beg for you to lick her clitoris. She will be putty in your hands and ready to explode into orgasm. Begin by giving her clitoris a harder lick – like you are attempting to lick the chocolate coating off your cone. Lick and suck in various patterns. While you are doing this, reach up and fondle her breasts – let her know that you are savoring all of her, and have not forgotten about her breasts. Hold her legs open like you are diving in and have to get every inch of her. Being exposed like this makes most women feel very, very sexy and aroused. When you sense that your partner is getting closer to orgasm – you can tell by the way she moans, moves or even what she says – then it is time for some finger play again. There are many variations of finger play – and to be a successful lover – and to be invited back to the party – try variations on all of them.
Fingers holding the vagina open: It is no secret that holding the vaginal lips open makes the clitoris more “taught” and thereby more sensitive. Many women hold their own vaginal lips open when masturbating for this very reason. You can do this with one hand or two – if you use one hand, use the other to feel her tummy, breasts or thighs. Hold open her vagina and just pay attention to the clitoris – remembering to alternate licking and sucking as well as taking a small break from the direct clitoral pressure and lick up and down her inner crease.
Fingers on the clitoris: Many women love a finger or a thumb on the clit during oral sex. Especially if your partner likes more firm pressure – your tongue might need a little help. This is not to say you stop licking, you just vary your technique to use your finger or thumb as the main stimulator and then move your tongue around the other areas. This is a good technique if you are getting tired and she is close to orgasm!
Fingers IN: Most women report that their most intense orgasms are during insertion and clitoral stimulation. Use your own common sense when fingering your partner. Make sure she is lubricated enough and slowly insert two fingers into her vagina. This should cause her to gasp with pleasure! Run your fingers around her inner vaginal walls. If she is receptive, use another finger. Gently move your fingers in and out of her vagina as you lick and caress her clitoris. Ask her what speed works for her.
Going for the “G”: If you are going to finger your partner then you might want to attempt to stimulate her G-Spot. This little spot is on the upper (tummy) side of her vaginal wall, about 2-3 inches in. When you hit this spot it will feel spongy and rougher than the rest of her vaginal wall. If you have your fingers in – palm side up – and rub on this spot HARD – she will likely gasp with intense pleasure. Even if she doesn’t have a G-Spot orgasm right then, it is nice to try and will feel good to her regardless!
When she begins to reign in her orgasm – which you can tell in a variety of ways – she will tell you, you will feel the PC muscles beginning to contract and release, her clitoris will get hard and large – this is the time to finish her off with a bang! Begin to lick harder, suck in her clitoris, and use your fingers in her vagina giving her the insertion she wants. Press her legs more open and go for the GOLD! When she begins to orgasm you will feel a contracting of her PC muscles and most likely and increase in lubrication. DON’T STOP! Keep on going and giving her the pleasure until she directs you to stop. In time, if you are both willing, she may begin having multiples – now wouldn’t that be nice?
Have a Beautiful Day~
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Beginning Of A GREAT Weekend
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Posted:Jul 22, 2016 9:37 am
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Tonight At The California State Fair... Don Felder Of The EAGLES Will Be In Concert...
Who Wants To Go?...
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The Astrology Of Sex Signs
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Posted:May 18, 2016 3:17 am
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How Close Is It To Your Talent From Your Experience...
For Vigo.. Both We're Kinda Right On The Dot~
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December 26th
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Posted:Dec 26, 2015 3:55 pm
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The Day After Christmas...
What's Everybody Up To... Anybody Ending The Last Week Of The Year With A BANG!!?
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Women Can't Live With 'em Can't Live W/Out Them Beauties
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Posted:Nov 21, 2015 2:41 pm
Last Updated:May 18, 2016 4:16 am
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An Old Adage... Gives and Brings the most meaning in and through Dysfunctional Relationships~
Hard to see when you're in the middle of the Drama, Simple To See And Realize When You Step Out Of The Bullshit~....
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