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CaIrishMermaid 46F  
88 posts
3/24/2021 12:07 pm
Type of encounters

What sexual encounter is your favorite or most desired?
Quick hotel hookup, just need to release (one time intended)
Casual hookup, maybe meet in home (probably not to be repeated)
Booty call, repeating quickies when convenient - repetitive, on call
FWB (friendly means tact and courtesy) hopefully a few times
Casual dating, meeting outside of hotel/home to enjoy good company in addition to sex
Online only / cannot meet up
Add someone to the couple
LTR - if something fabulous turns up
All of the above

CleavageFan4U 64M  
65972 posts
3/24/2021 12:13 pm

I voted FWB, but the casual dating is fine too.

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CaIrishMermaid replies on 3/24/2021 12:37 pm:
Vote again if you like more than one

pytimesx 61M
971 posts
3/24/2021 2:25 pm

Interesting poll if the objective is personal filtering. Also informative if LTR was left out intentionally.

CaIrishMermaid replies on 3/24/2021 3:57 pm:
I added LTR even though I don't really think this site is meant to be for that but I have encountered some looking for that.
Mostly people want a booty call yet they say fwb, so a little education on terms and curious about the general population
Thanks for stopping by

thinkingofyou12 64M
2832 posts
3/24/2021 2:38 pm

Never noticed you could vote multiple times in the same poll, I did and the count changed lol

CaIrishMermaid replies on 3/24/2021 3:58 pm:
Yes, weird that you cant select more than one at a time

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CaIrishMermaid replies on 3/24/2021 11:54 pm:
Participation lick awarded hehehe

Massass1963 57M  
1482 posts
3/24/2021 5:34 pm

If I like someone as a person, I would prefer to have sex AND date for non-sexual fun, such as entertainment venues, the beach, etc.
If I don't like someone I don't really want to have sex with them.

CaIrishMermaid replies on 3/24/2021 11:57 pm:
I agree with the dislike factor. The sex would not be any good. Some personalities just do not mesh well even for a casual.encounter, does not mean any one is better than the other, just not a good tango partner.

CleavageFan4U 64M  
65972 posts
3/24/2021 6:08 pm

CaIrishMermaid replies on 3/24/2021 2:37 pm:
Vote again if you like more than one.


You can't, but you can change your vote.

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CaIrishMermaid replies on 3/24/2021 7:19 pm:
Ohhhhh I was misinformed. Thank you

pytimesx 61M
971 posts
3/24/2021 9:59 pm

I'd think it would draw more attention from women but there are a few men it would apply to. Consider also the propensity (and benefit) to identify with certain sexual appetites (especially around here) as one of the value propositions of the site. LTR and even friendships have not been unusual.

CaIrishMermaid replies on 3/24/2021 11:49 pm:
I was curious of general site users, not gender specific, of norms of thought and behavior patterns. I actually have developed some great friendships from people I met early on. Any site can be used for whatever someone wants. I did not come here looking for friends nor a more serious long term encounter but at times I have had them and a mix of many other experiences. I have a type of person I want to spend time with and when there is a difference of opinion, lately I am getting the response of this site is not for THAT, which I clearly disagree with
. It can be anything anyone wants. Cheers

WilmingtonFun137 40M
259 posts
3/25/2021 8:51 am

The FWB is nice if it is actually a Friend with Benefits. But maybe that's what Casual is. Ha ha.

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CaIrishMermaid replies on 3/25/2021 5:02 pm:
The difference is hidden secret or enjoying time in public too....

gardenboy321 57M  
41868 posts
3/25/2021 9:42 am

Ideally, I am looking for long term lovers.

Thoughts from the Garden...

SouthGeorgiaCoug 64F  
121 posts
3/25/2021 4:29 pm

I voted FWB but have and will do any of the first 5.

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CaIrishMermaid replies on 3/26/2021 1:43 pm:
Whoohoo good times to enjoy. Thanks for participating

Yours_4A_knight 56M
1475 posts
3/26/2021 12:05 pm

I would like to have a great regular steady casual friendship that extends beyond sex but not quite to the involving kids and parents and all the trappings that go with that.

Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.

CaIrishMermaid replies on 3/26/2021 1:46 pm:
Wishing you all the fun and none of the challenge. Thanks for participating

seoulswing2 37M/27F
102 posts
3/26/2021 6:09 pm

threesomes, foursomes and moresomes. we enjoy swapping and group play

CaIrishMermaid replies on 3/29/2021 9:47 am:
glad you guys are having fun, thanks for coming by

dralingvengance 20T
26 posts
3/28/2021 2:22 am

Voted booty call only because there was no all of the above option 😝

CaIrishMermaid replies on 3/29/2021 9:48 am:
thats a great suggestion. I've added that option and you can change your vote.

GEL4e 59F  
63 posts
3/28/2021 8:26 am

My first couple hookups are always hotel overnight, though I’ve done the first four. Quick hotel is booty calll if you are not staying overnight. Gel

CaIrishMermaid replies on 3/29/2021 9:50 am:
in my thoughts... hotel hook up is not exchanging names or numbers or looking for repeated events;
booty call is somone on speed dial to hit up often and quick and usually at one of the homes

Csalomon91 29M  
13 posts
3/31/2021 1:11 pm

most sounds great, but ill go with the FWB, more of a connection and the more you understand your partner the better the sex would be. in my opinion.

CaIrishMermaid replies on 3/31/2021 9:27 pm:
great attitude, thanks for stopping by

Fivemagic818 27M
6 posts
4/3/2021 8:23 pm

Clarishmermaid I'd love to spend the nite with you

CaIrishMermaid replies on 4/4/2021 7:19 am:
Thanks so much for the message. I'm not a fan of large age differences for me. Have fun!

Yesforservice 63M
4 posts
4/14/2021 9:58 am

Definitely fab with regular weekly sessions are nice.

DETSwitch 57M  
222 posts
4/20/2021 2:30 pm

Casual hookup, FWB and casual dating are all fine with me, and frankly all I'd really go into things expecting. However, I would not be averse to it turning into LTR if we really click.

silverfox232 57M/55F
16 posts
4/25/2021 6:42 am

love the quick hotel complete complete stranger sex like this i love

DETSwitch 57M  
222 posts
4/28/2021 4:05 pm

    Quoting DETSwitch:
    Casual hookup, FWB and casual dating are all fine with me, and frankly all I'd really go into things expecting. However, I would not be averse to it turning into LTR if we really click.
I should also add that in addition to these, adding another lady if I'm paired with a bisexual lady is always fun! Of course, with a straight partner, I would not ask this of her. MFM threesomes are a hard limit for me for this reason.

I also do not object to a quick hotel hookup, as long as we can actually spend enough time together for us both to release. "Quickies" are really not my thing.

The "online only / cannot meet up" option would be a deal breaker for me. Although I do at times indulge in cyber sex and cam-to-cam, it is normally with the intent to meet later for skin-on-skin and we are auditioning each other.

Thiccdick1088 34M
9 posts
5/16/2021 6:28 pm

I love the quick hotel meetup

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