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Q&A Time... Yes, I stole this concept...  

Brb_1973 48M
3 posts
4/9/2021 2:34 am
Q&A Time... Yes, I stole this concept...

Hi everyone,

I worked on this after looking at a couple of other people’s pages. I’m not going to lie. It wasn’t my idea, but I’m not afraid to ask for directions. It’s a little long, but hope it helps…


Allergies? Codeine, just a<b> weird </font></b>one. Nothing else that I’m aware of.

How do I prefer to meet people? Introductions are my weak point. I never know what to say, and I get nervous around women. Well, women I’m attracted to. I am an extrovert most of the time. It does take me some time to warm up, but never did the bar scene.

Have you ever smoked? I would have to answer kind of… I have tried smoking cigars 2 decades ago. I ended up mostly just chewing the ends. I could never get the inhaling thing down. I know silly right.

Have you ever tried/done drugs? I tried pot twice. It did nothing for me. See smoking answer above. It’s just not my thing. Even when I had surgery and was on a morphine drip, I didn’t use it. I have a high tolerance for pain and didn’t need it.

Piercing/Tattoos? I have 1 tattoo. It tells a story and I posted a picture of it. When we meet, I’ll tell you the story.

Porn? I will admit, I do watch porn when the need is there. I have never watched with a partner. I guess, that is something to think about in the future.

What turns me on? Hard question. There are times when a slight breeze does it, but I am noticing that as I age, a passionate kiss, or flirting conversation. It varies from person to person. I don’t always find what other people find attractive. I look for conversation and passion. I’m a bigger guy, so small women are nice to look at, but I get worried I’ll hurt them. An “attractive” woman who is confident and knows what she wants. That’s damn sexy. A woman who is vocal, not like call the cops screaming, but vocal is a big turn on.
Who should cum 1st? ALWAYS her. Guys need a place. Women need time and energy to get there. There is nothing more satisfying than pleasing a woman. Seeing them shake all over from their climax. Or, if they squirt, I’ve had 1 partner who did, that is exciting. There is a story there. She didn’t know she could. It was surprise for both of us. I can’t describe the feeling of a woman who climaxes during penetration. That feeling of her trying to push you out, but knowing she’s pulling you closer to her at the same time.

Am I romantic? Helpless there. I think a woman should get flowers and be cherished. Just raised that way. What better way to break the ice on a 1st date? Bring flowers, she has to put them in water and gives you something to talk about. In a relationship, it’s the small things. Text in the morning. Just a hi.

Do you like Massages? I like giving them. I have large strong hands. I have to be careful learning my partner’s desires. Some like harder pressure and others like it not so strong. I know I’m talking like I have a ton of experience, but if you’ve been keeping up… I don’t.

Laughing during sex? Yes… Who doesn’t laugh or giggle with a partner? Things happen when you’re naked that never happen. It’s Murphy’s Law. If you can’t laugh when something goes wrong or sideways, you have been too safe in bed.

Do you use condoms? I use them when I am new with a long-term partner. I have only ever been with partners long term and committed. I know it makes me the minority here, but This is my honest place. I am fixed, so that has helped with the pregnancy worry, but I have to trust my partner in a LTR to not use one. I also get tested regularly. Only because my doc thinks I’m a freak of nature and keeps an eye on my labs. (Big guy, Low Blood Pressure, No Diabetes, Slight Asthma, ect.)

Oral Sex? Yes Please… I LOVE being between a woman’s thighs. One thing I want to do more of, is to have a partner at my will tied to the bed for hours and hours. Just feasting on her. Pleasing her. Making a woman orgasm is one of the hottest things I can think of doing. I have not had a partner that was interested in performing it, but I think I could manage to tolerate it. 😉

Dirty Talk? I feel silly doing it unless it’s organic. If it comes out of my mouth and feels natural it happens. I don’t think I could do it just to do it. If she does it? It falls into the vocal aspect of the act.

Am I a Dom or a Sub? Ok, never been aggressive with a partner. At least to start. To be totally honest, I’ve never initiated physical contact. I always played it safe. I have always been a big guy and I can be scarry sometimes. So, in this aspect, I’m a Sub. Once that threshold is crossed… I find what we like and fit into that need. I like the Dom role, but still figuring that out.

Sexting? Ok, I’ve been told I’m good at it. If there is such a thing as bad at it. I read a lot and have a pretty good grasp of language. So, yeah, I can put words together. Tried writing for a while. I needed more structure in my career path.

I’ll have to think of more questions as I come across them, I will add to this. If you guys and gals have any ideas, I’m not afraid to ask directions.

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