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My Blog or Crap in my Head...
 
I guess, If you read my profile and wanted to know more about me...
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I'm real and not a creeper
Posted:Dec 13, 2020 8:02 pm
Last Updated:Dec 18, 2020 1:04 am
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Ok, Just found this spot and want open and honest. Sorry before hand if I get graphic. Not trying put people off.

Why are we here?

I'm not real sure. I never did the hook-up thing. I was a late bloomer and didn't date in high school or college. I met my ex-wife and we married quickly. Since, my divorce started in 2017. Yes 2017 and still not finished. Long story. I have expanded my experience with women. That brings me here. I have only been in LTRs. Never a one-night stand. Not that I'm opposed, just never the opportunity or clue how. I'm here because I am tired of being alone. I miss the feel touch and taste of a woman.

I love everything about the female form. I find massage and kissing to be very erotic. I have large strong hands and know how to use them to work out all the knots. I get hyper focused on my partner's needs and have been told that.

What are my quirks/hang ups?

I have very few. I bounce my leg. A lot. I am not into pain. Not giving or receiving. Just think making love to a woman should be that love. Yeah, sex is way more than tab A into slot B. It starts in the head. I'm willing to try most things once.

I hope this helps. I'll add as I think about things.
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Why is it...
Posted:Apr 21, 2021 3:17 pm
Last Updated:Apr 22, 2021 1:29 am
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Ok, it's venting time.

I came here for pretty much the same reason as the real people came here for. I have had good conversations with several women. I have met one. We decided it wasn't going happen and that is fine. We are all adults here and should have that option.

Now the venting part...

Why is it that when you contact someone. Have a small and candid conversation via email. Then move . They ask you sign up for another site. Or send them for an "application." or some BS like that? Is there real people out there looking meet and see where things go, or is everyone here just trying get their scam on?

Plus, what is with Ghosting? Talk someone. Get the point of being comfortable set a meet. And then they stop replying to messages. What was the point of that? Why did you waste yours and my time. If you didn't intend to see where things took you and couldn't be bothered to say, sorry not interested. WTF...

Sorry, about my rant. On a positive note. I have my COVID vaccine. Not that I was high risk to get it. But, I got the shots.
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Q&A Time... Yes, I stole this concept...
Posted:Apr 9, 2021 2:34 am
Last Updated:Mar 29, 2024 6:12 am
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Hi everyone,

I worked on this after looking at a couple of other people’s pages. I’m not going to lie. It wasn’t my idea, but I’m not afraid to ask for directions. It’s a little long, but hope it helps…

Questions/Answers:

Allergies? Codeine, just a weird one. Nothing else that I’m aware of.

How do I prefer to meet people? Introductions are my weak point. I never know what to say, and I get nervous around women. Well, women I’m attracted to. I am an extrovert most of the time. It does take me some time to warm up, but never did the bar scene.

Have you ever smoked? I would have to answer kind of… I have tried smoking cigars 2 decades ago. I ended up mostly just chewing the ends. I could never get the inhaling thing down. I know silly right.

Have you ever tried/done drugs? I tried pot twice. It did nothing for me. See smoking answer above. It’s just not my thing. Even when I had surgery and was on a morphine drip, I didn’t use it. I have a high tolerance for pain and didn’t need it.

Piercing/Tattoos? I have 1 tattoo. It tells a story and I posted a picture of it. When we meet, I’ll tell you the story.

Porn? I will admit, I do watch porn when the need is there. I have never watched with a partner. I guess, that is something to think about in the future.

What turns me on? Hard question. There are times when a slight breeze does it, but I am noticing that as I age, a passionate kiss, or flirting conversation. It varies from person to person. I don’t always find what other people find attractive. I look for conversation and passion. I’m a bigger guy, so small women are nice to look at, but I get worried I’ll hurt them. An “attractive” woman who is confident and knows what she wants. That’s damn sexy. A woman who is vocal, not like call the cops screaming, but vocal is a big turn on.
Who should cum 1st? ALWAYS her. Guys need a place. Women need time and energy to get there. There is nothing more satisfying than pleasing a woman. Seeing them shake all over from their climax. Or, if they squirt, I’ve had 1 partner who did, that is exciting. There is a story there. She didn’t know she could. It was surprise for both of us. I can’t describe the feeling of a woman who climaxes during penetration. That feeling of her trying to push you out, but knowing she’s pulling you closer to her at the same time.

Am I romantic? Helpless there. I think a woman should get flowers and be cherished. Just raised that way. What better way to break the ice on a 1st date? Bring flowers, she has to put them in water and gives you something to talk about. In a relationship, it’s the small things. Text in the morning. Just a hi.

Do you like Massages? I like giving them. I have large strong hands. I have to be careful learning my partner’s desires. Some like harder pressure and others like it not so strong. I know I’m talking like I have a ton of experience, but if you’ve been keeping up… I don’t.

Laughing during sex? Yes… Who doesn’t laugh or giggle with a partner? Things happen when you’re naked that never happen. It’s Murphy’s Law. If you can’t laugh when something goes wrong or sideways, you have been too safe in bed.

Do you use condoms? I use them when I am new with a long-term partner. I have only ever been with partners long term and committed. I know it makes me the minority here, but This is my honest place. I am fixed, so that has helped with the pregnancy worry, but I have to trust my partner in a LTR to not use one. I also get tested regularly. Only because my doc thinks I’m a freak of nature and keeps an eye on my labs. (Big guy, Low Blood Pressure, No Diabetes, Slight Asthma, ect.)

Oral Sex? Yes Please… I LOVE being between a woman’s thighs. One thing I want to do more of, is to have a partner at my will tied to the bed for hours and hours. Just feasting on her. Pleasing her. Making a woman orgasm is one of the hottest things I can think of doing. I have not had a partner that was interested in performing it, but I think I could manage to tolerate it. 😉

Dirty Talk? I feel silly doing it unless it’s organic. If it comes out of my mouth and feels natural it happens. I don’t think I could do it just to do it. If she does it? It falls into the vocal aspect of the act.

Am I a Dom or a Sub? Ok, never been aggressive with a partner. At least to start. To be totally honest, I’ve never initiated physical contact. I always played it safe. I have always been a big guy and I can be scarry sometimes. So, in this aspect, I’m a Sub. Once that threshold is crossed… I find what we like and fit into that need. I like the Dom role, but still figuring that out.

Sexting? Ok, I’ve been told I’m good at it. If there is such a thing as bad at it. I read a lot and have a pretty good grasp of language. So, yeah, I can put words together. Tried writing for a while. I needed more structure in my career path.

I’ll have to think of more questions as I come across them, I will add to this. If you guys and gals have any ideas, I’m not afraid to ask directions.
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It's been a bit...
Posted:Apr 6, 2021 6:08 pm
Last Updated:Mar 29, 2024 6:12 am
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Well, It's been a while since I posted. Life gets insane and we go about our normal lives. It's been a rough 2021. Lost my father on his birthday in January. Life just got more and more since. It's calming down, and I figured something out. The Paleo diet/lifestyle I started has worked. Lost 50 pounds since Christmas. So, that rocks. I have also come to realize that as I shed pounds, my limbo gets going a bit more. That can be a good thing. Not so good at times too. Just depends on what and who is going on. Being currently single, it kind of stinks. lol, but it is what it is.

Looking around, I noticed a couple of things to add to another post. It's a work in progress, but I'll post it as soon as I get it all figured out. Hope you all the best of luck in your searches.
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Bucket list
Posted:Dec 22, 2020 12:12 pm
Last Updated:Mar 29, 2024 6:12 am
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Ok, I'm trying to be honest and forthcoming on this site, so here I go. Here are things I like and things I want to try in an intimate setting.

Likes -

Performing oral on a woman.
Getting oral (I've not had a partner into it, but it is a good change)
Light bondage, no pain, just securing my partner and pleasuring her.
Kissing (I can totally get going by kissing)
Massage (I have large strong hands and like to use them)
Shower sex
Pool/hot tub sex

Like I previously said my sex life has mostly been vanilla...

Things I'd like to try... well, once at least.

Woman on Top
Butt play (with a willing partner)
Naked weekend
69ing
Remote control
Restaurant fondling
Role-Play
Multiple partners

I know nothing too out there... but, I have not had a lot of adventurous partners and if you have other ideas, I'd more than likely be willing to try them.
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Relationships... or History
Posted:Dec 15, 2020 11:40 pm
Last Updated:Mar 29, 2024 6:12 am
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Ok, So here is my history with the opposite sex. It won't take long or be too graphic. Sorry to those of you looking for that. Let start by saying I have only had 5 sexual relationships. They have all been long term. Really, outside of the girl I took to prom, I've only really had 5 relationships. I was a late bloomer. I was a virgin until my late 20's. Yes, you read that correctly.

My 1st partner was much younger than I. (6 ) Neither of us knew what we were doing in bed and she was not all that interested. It didn't help that I had no clue. When I could get her orgasm, it took hours. Well, it seemed that way.

My 2nd partner was my ex-wife. We started off hot and heavy and she was a little older than me. She had more experience. We couldn't pass in the hall without getting pregnant. We had 2 together, but the 6 miscarriages to get there were a stressor on the relationship. I learned more about the female form, but she wasn't into more than once a week in the dark type of gal. No adventure there.

My 3rd partner. Lets say, she was very much into sex with me. She did have a hard time keeping up, but she was into it and tried. I learned how to and have fun in bed with her. We did try new stuff, but nothing more than vanilla sex. I did learn a lot about oral with her. She was smaller down there and I did tear her a few times before we figured out quickies didn't work for us. But, I did learn, I liked doing oral on a woman. Oh, I almost forgot. She taught me how properly kiss a woman. You'd think I would have had this skill before my 40's.

My 4th partner was a little timid in bed. Then she was in an accident and was injured. Our sex life, just starting, came a crashing halt. The act hurt her physically. She had a back injury and other issues.

My 5th partner. She was fun. She had never had an orgasm. I took this as a challenge. One she and I embraced. Lets just say I could get lost giving her orgasms. She found she could squirt with the proper motivation, but only in 1 position. We tried new stuff and she was adventurous. But, that freaked her out and it ended before it even started. I know I call it long term, but does 6 months count?

Well, that's it. Yeah, I know. I'm no Don Juan. Never wanted to be. There are lots of things I want to try. Just looking for the person willing to do those adventures with . That's for another post...
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