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COULDA WOULDA SHOULDA
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COULDA WOULDA SHOULDA This is dedicated to our VERY lovely GODDESS1946 goddess1946 Her blog about GUILT was very appropriate to me today...THEN..clearing out my inbox I found THIS email...from a website I visit.This Essay was included in the email. I hope you all read it and find some wisdom. LOVE & LIGHT Alice **************************************************************************************************** [COLOR darkredSpiritual Words of Empowerment By Owen Waters Guilt Guilt comes in two forms: The guilt of your own conscience and the sense of guilt projected upon you by another person. The promptings of your conscience come from your soul guiding you as to what is the heart-centered response to situations in your life. Listen to that still, small voice within. No one ever looked back on their life, complaining that they had loved too much. Quite the reverse, in fact. If your sense of guilt is projected upon you by someone else, remember that this is merely a game which is played by people with control issues. Such people desperately fear that they have no control over their own lives, so they compensate by trying to control the lives of others. Genuine promptings of conscience, on the other hand, are the gentle whisperings of your inner guidance as to how you can behave in a more loving manner. Love is the balm that heals all things. When your conscience prompts you to give more love, then find a way to express that healing energy in your life. Life is a learning experience which is designed to result in continual transformation to more harmonious states of consciousness. Listen within, act and transform. That's what life is for. Owen Waters is editor and cofounder of Infinite Being LLC. He promotes a philosophy of spiritual empowerment through inner connection to the source of your ultimate potential. For the full picture, read Owen's book, "The Shift: The Revolution in Human Consciousness  |
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Thanks Mz HUny....I get some really amazing stuff in my e-mail box!
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3/29/2006 4:48 am |
Good post! My inspiration fix for the day 
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Greetings, 'licous You wrote: If your sense of guilt is projected upon you by someone else, remember that this is merely a game which is played by people with control issues. Such people desperately fear that they have no control over their own lives, so they compensate by trying to control the lives of others. For some people, that is true. But there are those who do it because they want to control you for some real benefit (to their position or imagined position), for example, when some idea or stance you might be interested in examining, researching, or embracing is smeared by evil association or by ad-hominem attacks... or they are subtle and remind you (not always with words) that such and such is not orthodox and you would not want to be associated with such a thing, etc.
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Greetings, 'licous You wrote: If your sense of guilt is projected upon you by someone else, remember that this is merely a game which is played by people with control issues. Such people desperately fear that they have no control over their own lives, so they compensate by trying to control the lives of others. For some people, that is true. But there are those who do it because they want to control you for some real benefit (to their position or imagined position), for example, when some idea or stance you might be interested in examining, researching, or embracing is smeared by evil association or by ad-hominem attacks... or they are subtle and remind you (not always with words) that such and such is not orthodox and you would not want to be associated with such a thing, etc. Namaste! Alice
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<<======== Not Guilty! 
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.................... Good n Delicious Thanks for the inspiration !! ... Isn't it great how people freely share ideas and inspirations with each other ? .. Thanks again !! I want you to know that you are a special young lady !! .. Whenever I see your profile photo . I smile .. and I love to see you show up on my blog page !! .. Your comments are always appreciated !!Oh ... And thanks for telling me about your invisable writing on your profile page !! Lol ... Fun !! !!
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you wrote... >Trust me I am well acquainted with that kind of control. Look up Narcissistic personality disorder. Eye-opening! Yikes! This explains a lot! I was unaware of this specific term (Narcissistic personality disorder). I did look it up and I read several articles: Idealization, Grandiosity, Cathexis, and Narcissistic Progress The Narcissist as Eternal Child The Narcissist's Inner Judge On the other hand, I see tinges of this in many people, myself included -- nothing full blown, but tinges nevertheless. The second article listed above mentioned that: "Such "delayed adulthood" is very common in many poor and developing countries, especially those with patriarchal societies." Then the author says: ""To the alienated and schizoid ears of Westerners, the survival of family and community in Central and Eastern Europe (CEE) sounds like an attractive proposition." Several lines below that, we find: "The ancient blood feud laws of the kanoon were handed over through familial lineages in northern Albania, in defiance of the paranoiac Enver Hoxha regime." So there are entire nations and social systems that are sick. Why am I not surprised?
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Check that term out in reference to emotional abuse. many people have some narcissisric TRAITS...but do not suffer the full-blown personality disorder.
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4/1/2006 8:40 pm |
thanks for sharing this. I need to be reminded from time to time about such things.
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4/5/2006 5:37 pm |
"No one ever looked back on their life, complaining that they had loved too much." There are pearls of wisdom found throughout the blogs and this one jumped out at me this evening. Thanks for the post, my dear!
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THanks TT...I'm glad you found wisdom from those words
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4/9/2006 5:36 pm |
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4/9/2006 5:46 pm |
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I AGREE whyoleheartedly with you tiller...some people shrinhk at their own relfection in a mirror...yet blame others for what they see...Those types do not respond to that form of guilt, unfortunately!
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thanks for the visit love your blog  inside you my heated heart exploded drained by your pulse I blossomed in you so bright so strong it lasted so long you glowed atop me head back in rapture hands digging into my chest a goddess at sexual best igniting a fire throughout my body legs weak from passion's pressure your name racing from my lips my hands gripping your lovely hips it was a moment that lasted forever as inside you my heated heart exploded Your, loyal dragon    
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...................... Good n Delicious Girl I saw that you visited my blog last night and I wasn't dissapointed when you didn't leave a comment !! .. That . "still small voice" inside of me . tells me to tell you . that I love you for your visit . and that I love you for being you !! .. I am overwealmed this morning with feelings of love and being loved by our universe . and would be remiss for not giving you my thoughts !! .. Thankyou for being such a loving part of it all !! Wow !! .. I wish that I could have said what I felt last night as I went to sleep . and when I woke this morning .. as well as the dragon did !! .. Ditto !! ...................... ils
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4/12/2006 7:42 pm |
Alice - Thanks for your words Your effort, your journey All are appreciated And many feel common On this very moonlit night. At times I imagine all the other people gazing at the moon at the same time as me, the sharing of wonderment in this neighborhood we call Earth. Jeff
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4/13/2006 7:50 pm |
Very good post, saw a lot of good info there. Later kpb PS: Thanks for the visit over at my place, kid
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thank you for your visit this one is yours my delicious one your,loyal Dragon
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Namaste'Beloved Alice... Thank you... And *COULDA WOULDA SHOULDA* really was a wonderful book! Guilt always serves...the question always is who and how? Appreciated your sharing your e*mail gem! {=} Just a little food for thought............. If you really want to be happy, nobody can stop you... {=}
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Alice, thankyou for sharing the article on guilt. Unfortunately, another one of my frailties. "Don't cry because it's over; smile because it happened." 
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Erie...that was breath taking!! THANK YOU
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