Seasons change  

80sbaby71 50F
7723 posts
9/5/2021 4:58 pm
Seasons change

Been awhile since I’ve peeked in. Life has a way of doing that us. Between our normal hectic lives, Covid and the world in general.

And as the seasons change, so do our lives. Simple things….graduations! Engagements! Weddings! New babies…. And<b> death. </font></b>We grow and as we age, we gain wisdom.

Our lives are just like the seasons. The newness of birth just like the blooms of spring.
The heat of new love just like summer. Our lives change as do the leaves of fall. And hearts grow cold just like the winters ice.

I’m there. I’m in the fall. I had my wonderful spring when I met my love. My summer of love and heat. Now my fall as my marriage ends.

Im not sure what will happen for winter. I know my heart won’t grow cold. I will always love my ex. I really hoped it was my happily ever after. Others saw, I couldn’t. I saw my love. But neither my love or myself was strong enough be enough.

I’m ok. I’m not bitter. I’m thankful. Im thankful for this divorce. I’m ok. I’m on my own for the first time in my life. I have be the one make myself happy. I need love me!

I’m glad crawl back into my crib. I’m ok. I’m thankful that I have my blanket of family and friends to keep me warm.

Sending lots of love…warm hugs…and why not, some big wet 😘!

justskin1 70M
13175 posts
9/5/2021 10:24 pm

Ahh, Baby you are not really into Fall yet and the fire of love comes at all ages. I was divorced at 44 and met a lovely woman and we married and saved each others lives but still, we divorced when I was 58 but are still best friends. I am now 69 and have the most wonderful lover and friend though we have no plans to marry.
You may be going though a cold spell but that may just help you find who your are and who you want to be. You are still young and must believe that the fire of a lover and companion or more than one can come to you at any age.

If you see me in the real world, come say "Hi Justskin."

I always behave. Preferably not well.

80sbaby71 replies on 9/6/2021 3:56 pm:
Thank you. I’m not burying myself in the sadness. The season has changed. I’m changing. I do plan on finding myself. And I’m not stopping until I find myself and make peace with myself.


Bonem91 54M
95 posts
9/6/2021 12:32 am

It's all part of life, like the seasons I suppose. We all hope that it's going to be a forever love but who knows what the future brings. This closing of one door is possibly the opening of another one. This could be the one!
We all grow up different and what was great once, sometimes is unsuitable later. The experiences hough painful make us stronger and better prepared for later. I speak from painful experience too. It takes time but you'll be fine.

80sbaby71 replies on 9/6/2021 3:58 pm:
Exactly! I have to flow through this season. I have to find the real me. I have to make peace with myself before I can find anything with someone else.


spunkycumfun 62M/67F  
41171 posts
9/6/2021 2:21 am

You have a long life ahead of you. One sumer has ended but another summer will come.

80sbaby71 replies on 9/6/2021 4:01 pm:
I agree! The seasons come and go. Life changes. But, like everything else in this world, good times come….as well as the bad. I’m sloshing through the leaves of my life. Spring will come later.


author51 59F  
130010 posts
9/6/2021 3:26 am

Good luck with everything and coming out the other side of it stronger and happier...xoxo

80sbaby71 replies on 9/6/2021 4:03 pm:
Exactly what I’m planning. I’m keeping a positive outlook….finally.


1salesman3 67M
7632 posts
9/6/2021 5:27 am

Keep the positive mental attitude.

80sbaby71 replies on 9/6/2021 4:06 pm:
Positive thoughts! Positive outlook for me….and my future.


jajo696 67F
4287 posts
9/6/2021 5:48 am

The seasons of life....we weather them with lots of support helping and it makes us stronger and smarter for the next season. Winter can be a wonderful time to cocoon and reflect and prepare for the season of rebirth. Its wonderful you have your blanket of family and friends.....lean on them as needed~~

80sbaby71 replies on 9/6/2021 4:08 pm:
I am very lucky to have my friends and family. I have hurt them, but I’m sorry. I am looking to the future. And I know there’s a positive future for me.


CleavageFan4U 65M  
69374 posts
9/6/2021 6:15 am

Nice to see you back.

Can some new friends climb under that bankie with you for nekkid cuddling (and whatever may cum after)?

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80sbaby71 replies on 9/6/2021 4:11 pm:

And yes…. I’m all about the snuggles. Never know what the future holds. Blankets are fun! 😉


citizen4722 64M  
74582 posts
9/6/2021 9:34 am

Yes, it's good that you have the love of your family around you. I have four siblings and I'm always speaking to at least one of them every day.

80sbaby71 replies on 9/6/2021 4:13 pm:
My little sister is definitely an important part of my life. I can share things with her knowing that she won’t judge me. I think the moaning orgasm memes might be a little much though…😳


boobwhisperer69 59M  
8322 posts
9/6/2021 11:10 am


80sbaby71 replies on 9/6/2021 4:14 pm:
Hugs right back at ya!


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