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Good day....kinda
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Posted:Oct 22, 2011 8:43 am
Last Updated:Oct 22, 2011 4:03 pm
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Yesterday was a good day...kinda.
Mini me and I decided to go to the local zoo. There was a baby elephant born not to long back and now that the "rush" was over it was a good time to go.
So walking around the zoo...enjoying the beautiful weather. Mini me was on a "photo" kick. So she was taking pics galore of nature. So I checked my phone....and there was an email.
I don't know why I let it bother me. But it did. I know it is stupid, but it hurt. Stung I guess. Slap in the face. It was from the rebounder. Telling me about his new "interest". How he was going to have her over to meet his this weekend.
*****NO GUYS MEET MINI ME UNTIL WE HAVE A RELATIONSHIP. I MEAN LIKE IN A RELATIONSHIP....NOT JUST FWB!*******
Anyway...it was like...here baby, you weren't what I wanted. I got what I wanted from you....now moving on. But we can still be friends. Until I dump her and need a little BUMP & GRIND. Well tough titty said this little kitty!
So moped a little. Got over it! Met the ex at Wally World to let mini me spend the night so she could celebrate her grandpa's bday. She PROMISED she will be home tonight!
Had a date with an old friend. The plan was dinner then drinks... Then maybe back to my place to watch movies. He and I have hung out in the past. We were never in the same place at the same time. So I figure that was a sign. So we are friends. We flirt...make out even on occasion, lol. But pretty much it.
So he picks me up (I actually looked good!) to go to PF Changs for dinner (i'd mentioned awhile back during a commercial that i'd never been). Then he mentioned going to a certain spot for drinks. I was cool with that because some local group friends were going to be there celebrating a bday. He said some of his friends (a former lover) were going to meet us there. I like his friend...she is hilarious. So, first he decides to stop at the club his friend is at. OMG! There was a line out the door. We stood outside for like half an hour...BECAUSE the capacity in this dive is 70!!!! I am serious!
So after drinking a FISHBOWL....(not sure what this is, go look it up!) Then off to the club. Saw my friends....got felt up...so was running back and forth between groups. I got a little tipsy (glad I wasn't the designated driver!)so I got a little frisky. Got kissed a time or two by friends... Then his friend got pouty. She said her kisses were just as good as my friends. So she kissed me. Now don't get me wrong...none of my kisses were with tongue...ok one was but it was a guy!
Anyway, closed down the club. Came back to my place. Forget the movie. We shucked the clothes and crawled into bed. Snuggled! I love it. Made out a little then the zzzzzzzzzzzzzz's began! It was nice to wake up in someone's arms. And the crazy thing....there wasn't any sex! A little make out session or two during the night but no sex.
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Conspiracy!
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Posted:Oct 21, 2011 1:38 am
Last Updated:Oct 22, 2011 11:44 am
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Ok....pretty sure there is a conspiracy! I know there is...and now mini me is in on it!
So, mini me and I are out today at the local Wally World market... You know how it is, picking up those little things...Milk, bread... Peanut butter..the crucial things! As I am wandering around the store trying to figure out what I am forgetting (yes I know a list helps!)....
So then it hits me...I NEED batteries. You see I do have my handy dandy Sir Wade that plugs in. I also have my nice thick dildo...But there are those times where the good old hummingbird is what is needed to hit the spot! And it was in dire need of juice!
So I mention I need batteries...but unlike the Big Wally World, the little one doesn't have a large selection. Well mini me looks over and says...well they can wait then....
I guess my expression blew her mind! She couldn't stop laughing... I mean seriously...through the check out all the way to the car! She said it reminded her of the old skit...."slowly she turns, step by step..." and that I had the wild crazy "asian" look...you know all squinty (no offense to anyone!)
No I REALLY did need the batteries!
Conspiracy I tell you! Nobody wants the baby to get the release. I mean if I can't have the real thing....PLEASE don't deny me the next best thing!!!!!!
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Out of the hands of a ....
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Posted:Oct 20, 2011 11:10 am
Last Updated:Oct 21, 2011 1:39 am
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STOP HERE....THIS IS NOT SEXUAL AT ALL......
Mini me is going through confirmation at her dads/grandfathers Lutheran church they belong to. This was something that her dad asked and I agreed upon. At first she was not into it....she has really gotten into it lately.
Lately I have been kinda down. Feeling lonely in several ways. Despondent at times it seems. Lost....struggling. Today she handed me her bible and said read this.....
I know this is a "sex site" but this is my blog...my life, my mind. So stop here...because I am going to share this Psalm.
Psalm 31
1 In you, LORD, I have taken refuge;
let me never be put to shame;
deliver me in your righteousness.
2 Turn your ear to me,
come quickly to my rescue;
be my rock of refuge,
a strong fortress to save me.
3 Since you are my rock and my fortress,
for the sake of your name lead and guide me.
4 Keep me free from the trap that is set for me,
for you are my refuge.
5 Into your hands I commit my spirit;
deliver me, LORD, my faithful God.
6 I hate those who cling to worthless idols;
as for me, I trust in the LORD.
7 I will be glad and rejoice in your love,
for you saw my affliction
and knew the anguish of my soul.
8 You have not given me into the hands of the enemy
but have set my feet in a spacious place.
9 Be merciful to me, LORD, for I am in distress;
my eyes grow weak with sorrow,
my soul and body with grief.
10 My life is consumed by anguish
and my years by groaning;
my strength fails because of my affliction,
and my bones grow weak.
11 Because of all my enemies,
I am the utter contempt of my neighbors
and an object of dread to my closest friends—
those who see me on the street flee from me.
12 I am forgotten as though I were dead;
I have become like broken pottery.
13 For I hear many whispering,
“Terror on every side!”
They conspire against me
and plot to take my life.
14 But I trust in you, LORD;
I say, “You are my God.”
15 My times are in your hands;
deliver me from the hands of my enemies,
from those who pursue me.
16 Let your face shine on your servant;
save me in your unfailing love.
17 Let me not be put to shame, LORD,
for I have cried out to you;
but let the wicked be put to shame
and be silent in the realm of the dead.
18 Let their lying lips be silenced,
for with pride and contempt
they speak arrogantly against the righteous.
19 How abundant are the good things
that you have stored up for those who fear you,
that you bestow in the sight of all,
on those who take refuge in you.
20 In the shelter of your presence you hide them
from all human intrigues;
you keep them safe in your dwelling
from accusing tongues.
21 Praise be to the LORD,
for he showed me the wonders of his love
when I was in a city under siege.
22 In my alarm I said,
“I am cut off from your sight!”
Yet you heard my cry for mercy
when I called to you for help.
23 Love the LORD, all his faithful people!
The LORD preserves those who are true to him,
but the proud he pays back in full.
24 Be strong and take heart,
all you who hope in the LORD.
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I wish....
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Posted:Oct 20, 2011 8:02 am
Last Updated:Nov 15, 2011 2:42 am
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Why do people always just assume?
Assume things that are totally off base? I mean seriously! Like I have noticed alot of my emails from people (and some people that I have talked to) that everyone assumes I am just a busy little beaver in my sex life! 
YEAH RIGHT....NOT! I am very selective as to my playmates. And quite honestly...I am not in the mood to play games. I am not looking for someone to just share my bed for an hour or two. I am looking for someone to share my life.
So let me set the record straight...Yes, I do go out on occasion to hang out with friends...and I go home alone. Yes, I do go to parties on occasion...and I go home alone. Yes, I do go out on dates...and I go home alone.....AND I don't have sex! I wish I was...but right now it isn't in the cards.
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Nice change....
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Posted:Oct 19, 2011 5:48 pm
Last Updated:Oct 21, 2011 1:42 am
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Did something different today. A change of pace in my life I guess you could say. Ok, so actually I did it on Mon night too!
I went out on a date. Yes, a real date! Not a let's meet and screw.. Nope an actual 2 different dates....with two very different guys!
So major opposites....Let's compare...shall we?
Monday nights date we met off a different site. Talked a bit through emails. He is from out of state and would be in town this week for business. Nice man... We met at a local sports bar/restaraunt near his hotel. First thing he did was try to feel me up....RED FLAG. We ordered drinks and he continued to try to feel me up....RED FLAG. We decided to go ahead and eat there instead of going someplace else. We talked, ate, he continued to try to feel me up.....RED FLAG!!!!! When we finished he invited me back to his hotel room. Yeah...I am blonde but that don't mean SQUAT!!!! He kept insisting that I meet him for breakfast...hell I could even stay with him....NOT!!!!!
Today was totally opposite!!! THANK MY LUCKY STARS! I met this man on here. Actually he emailed me several times in the past and I would answer but never really "clicked". (sounds kinda like my last guy I was dating...wow) After multiple emails, texts and a few phone calls even, he finally talked me into meeting him for lunch. And since this is my fall break...it worked out great timing. So we met up at a Chinese restaraunt over in the city where he works and I actually grew up in about 10 minutes from my apt. I was nervous... It was a blast!!! We laughed...told raunchy Little Johnny jokes. Flirted back and forth. And get this...he pulled out my chair. WOW! Been awhile...a real gentleman. So after we giggled over dessert and fortune cookies..(You could prosper in a few years in the field of entertainment...in bed) He walked me to my car. Then he gave me a very gentle sweet kiss on the lips... Just a sweet peck. WOW, again!
So two dates...very different men. And the fun thing was they both had accents...First guy was from Chicago...and the cutie patootie hails from New York....His accent was so sexy!!!!
***Yeah he was definitely worth giving that lunch a chance!!!!
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Help!
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Posted:Oct 19, 2011 7:04 am
Last Updated:Oct 19, 2011 5:49 pm
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Ok, been awhile since I updated my profile. And lately it seems I am getting quite a bit of attention from either VERY young guys (the ones that are my oldest daughters age...21) or the VERY old guys (like 70+).
So needing to change it up. I would appreciate your input! Please look over my profile (hint it is at the top of this page with the thumbtack, lol) and lay it on me!
Oh...and lucky me...I have a lunch date today! Yay baby!!!!
Big hugs and wet kisses!
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Monday Question 10/17
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Posted:Oct 17, 2011 2:44 pm
Last Updated:Oct 20, 2011 7:37 am
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Today's question:
Flirting.... How do you feel about flirting? I mean if you are married, dating etc...how do you feel if your s/o flirts?
Me, I am a flirt...I admit it. I love to flirt...and most of my friends understand. I don't act on it 99.9% of the time...but I do love to flirt and be flirted with!
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Life
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Posted:Oct 15, 2011 10:33 am
Last Updated:Oct 18, 2011 7:50 am
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Well had an awesome night last night. A good couple in our local group are moving out of state...So we surprised them with a going away party last night. It was great!
Lots of laughs...lots of hugs...some tears.
I am at the point where I sit back and watch others. I don't feel like I "fit" in much. I love to people watch. Don't get me wrong..I enjoy these people. But sometimes feel like a fifth wheel. Everyone is coupled off...or trying to...me, not so much.
So I sat back and just enjoyed the show. Helped friends confiscate keys...got felt up by a couple of ladies...lol. One of which tried to feed me popcorn...the hard way! Or maybe she was trying to feed everyone...by dumping the popcorn down my shirt and bra!
Anyways...fun evening...and all I drank was one beer and lots of water. Came home to my mini me...
I was supposed to go out with a friend tonight to a party. He called and canceled this morning. Sinus infection coming on...such is life. No biggie. Now making up my mind if I should go or not. Not so big on going alone.....
On different sites....all vanilla but this one. And I am a flirt. I am trying to get back out on the dating scene. But I don't do the bars so much anymore...most the guys that hit me up anymore go automatically to "wanna fuck?".... Vanilla dating sites sucked. Tired of the b.s.
Okay, that was my rant for today! Lol.... love, big hugs and lots of wet kisses from me the baby!
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Happy Blogiversary~!
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Posted:Oct 13, 2011 7:08 pm
Last Updated:Oct 16, 2011 9:11 am
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Wow....3 years! Today it seems is my 3 year Blogiversary...And I forgot! Lol...how funny. So I thought I would go back to that day..and repost my blog. I had no comments to this blog at all. But that's okay. It is nice to see where I came from...Lessons learned, reaching out and touching that flame....and making some awesome friends along the way!
HUGE hugs and big wet kisses from me the baby!
Curiosity
10/13/2008 7:03 am
Well I am beginning to enjoy what my curiosity has brought me to. I joined the group, was invited to the campout, met new people. I had a ball!!!! Well ok only one. LOL....no I met lots of great people who welcomed me right into the group. Thanks to everyone I met, you made me feel completely at ease. I had a blast at the campout.....you guys are hilarious. I am a shy person to start off with but when I get relaxed I promise to cum out of my shell. I love to people watch, gives me a sense of a person. Saw alot of people I would like to get to know.....Anyway, I think I have made a little dent into my curiosity........maybe next time I will make antoher dent.
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Clearing the Air!
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Posted:Oct 12, 2011 9:24 pm
Last Updated:Dec 11, 2011 4:54 pm
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Ok...I need to clear the air I guess.
I write my blog for me. I write whatever is on my mind. I don't cater to anyone. If something is bugging me, I write about it. If I have news to share....I blog. If I have a good story/joke...yeppers!
I don't write to make people feel sorry for me. That isn't the point to my blog. It is my life...If your feel my pain etc, great....but That isn't my goal.....
Just my time to put it out there...
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Half-Nekkid Wednesday!
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Posted:Oct 12, 2011 3:10 pm
Last Updated:Oct 18, 2011 7:51 am
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Ok well this is about as good as I could get under the circumstances. Taking it in the mirror....lol
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