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THE UNSPOKEN CONVERSATION  

Aslgeek 67F
1 posts
1/27/2022 12:21 pm
THE UNSPOKEN CONVERSATION


So many on these sites talk about how they are Dominant and want me to be their slave. They expect me to give up my life here, give up most of my things or give all my possessions to them and then give up my income to them to<b> control </font></b>and to help pay their bills and rent. That in itself is a RED FLAG because it shows weakness and that they are unable to sustain their own lives and simply do not have the means to own a slave. They want the complete package and ownership for nothing. So if things do not work out, they give their slave to another etc. the slave will leave and have nothing with no consequences to them. I had met 2 couples on Collarspace that we seem to click but when I told them that ALL my retirement would be put in a trust NOT CONTROLLED BY THEM in case they die or moved on and any money going forward from my online business would pay any bills I bring with me and the rest would be decided among us before a commitment is establishd they could not agree. One he wanted total<b> control </font></b>of all I had and and the other kept avoiding the conversation. They expected me to give up everything, move to them and put myself in a bad situation and I will not do that. These types of people do not live in reality. Because of what I am does not make me a fool and a Master or should I say a so called Master that expects that are not good people, care only for themselves and have an ulterior motive They are weak people end leeches that care nothing about the welfare of what happens to you if they die etc. They simply do not see you for the value, service and pleasue you will bring them as they use you. These types of discussions also do not come up often in vanilla relationships about money, each person's financial situation and debt and what each person's role will be and will cause MANY issues later on. I will not give myself to anyone that weak and reckless as I am very capable of making it on my own. Any slave you bring into your home or Master you choose to serve should have all these values. So all I can say is if they cannot discuss these things UP FRONT with you and put the agreement in writing RUN because most of them will. Don't wait and waste months not knowing

s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
1/31/2022 3:34 pm

I really had no idea that the BDSM lifestyle was about having any potential of letting someone who gets into someone's head. Thoroughly enough to convince them that their money is safe all in the act of role playing.That that's more like a red flag the size of a football field.
There are some pretty savvy grifters out there that are good at walking off with someone else's nest egg.Criminal background check may not be enough especially if they haven't been caught yet.Maybe Include the FBI's wanted sheets and drop a line to interpol as well!Fascinating! I had no idea peoples wills and retirement monies was a important part of the lifestyle.How bizarre!

Using more than all the road!


Aslgeek replies on 2/23/2022 2:49 pm:
Yes you would be surprised the women that allow this

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