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Really curious  

PaleNewbie 24F
16 posts
1/18/2022 12:55 am
Really curious


I joined the site as a free member in order to see what the site was like before investing in a monthly membership.
The ads for this site mentioned that it was a site for lesbian and<b> bisexual </font></b>women. My question is why are males allowed to join the site ?
I am not a male hater, simply curious as to why a site that says it is women for women only, accepts males.

jamiesplayin 20F
22 posts
1/18/2022 1:17 pm

there are others that can explain it better, but this site is actually several site that all use the same data base.


PaleNewbie 24F

1/18/2022 2:50 pm

Understand that one company may have several different sites, but if they are just going to group everyone then why have several sites? Less work running one site as opposed to many.


jamiesplayin 20F
22 posts
1/18/2022 3:19 pm

    Quoting PaleNewbie:
    Understand that one company may have several different sites, but if they are just going to group everyone then why have several sites? Less work running one site as opposed to many.
right, I'd agree. but it is what it is, I just ignore the men. unless Im teasing them, lol, its fun at times.


PaleNewbie 24F

1/18/2022 4:01 pm

Do not hate men, simply not interested in chatting with them when I am in a room or site for women only.. To make matters worse is that for the most part, they are quite rude and vulgar when messaging


forgotforgetting 57M
8134 posts
1/26/2022 8:31 pm

Not to interject, this site like a house with many front doors. Each door looks different but each one leads to the same house. It's deceptive but there it is.

“Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.”
― Oscar Wilde


PaleNewbie replies on 1/27/2022 12:03 am:
Do not know the actual breakdown, but a guess would be that there are way more monthly paying members that are male.
But I believe that if the site actually took action and only allowed women, it may actually make more money. The women would feel less bothered and way more comfortable in spending the monthly fee. I know I would become a paying subscriber if that were to be the case

forgotforgetting 57M
8134 posts
1/27/2022 11:40 am

I suspect you are correct as to the paying members.

You might be right. I don't believe the site could legally restrict membership based on gender or sex. It would also be difficult to practically police in any event.

I do recognize there are a great many trolls on this site. They tend to drown out those of us who are housebroken. It is unfortunate you uncomfortable because enjoyable, intelligent conversation is a dying art.

“Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.”
― Oscar Wilde


PaleNewbie replies on 1/27/2022 12:40 pm:
It simply is what it is. I said my peace on what I thought and will simply slink away. Although the site has not been anything close to what I had expected or even hoped for, it has given me yet a few more experiences that hopefully will in some future time help me

forgotforgetting 57M
8134 posts
1/27/2022 2:56 pm

Well, glad it wasn't all bad. Best wishes.

“Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.”
― Oscar Wilde


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