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11/30/2021 6:04 am |
When I meet anyone from an online site, which would be this one, I never kiss. I will hug if she initiates it. I will be cordial regardless of whether the initial impression is favorable or not. I also will only meet for a drink or coffee for the first date--no meals. This is due to many not resembling what I expected. I am not in the business of treating people as a charitable gesture. Regardless of what anyone says, we all spend money with an expected ROI. That said, though, I do not expect to roll in the hay on a first date--ever. I would not agree to it. I like to reflect on the meeting and determine if this is someone I might want to meet again and get "involved" with. Very few women will sleep with a man and not want something committed. If I am to commit, I need to be sure she is the one I wish to do that with. Now about finding myself in a situation I find not for me: I continue with the drink, I'll chat for a few, and then not buy a second drink, but graciously leave. There is no reason to make a scene. I don't get angry as I half expect it. Most on here do not accurately represent themselves. How far off they are is what determines my course of action. Unicorns: Hmm that is another fabricated term that has no real meaning. I suppose those that use it like to think they are very unique. Being unique isn't necessarily good, though. I think of a unicorn as a man that let's another man join them when he is truly not interested in the man, himself, and is totally straight. I find that doesn't seem to exist. Then again, I am not really much into couples, anyway! LOL
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Usually the first in person meeting is somewhat casual...I wouldn't call it a date, more like a meet and greet. You can sense from there if more will happen or not. I go into those with no preconceived notions. Unless of course we have been chatting prior to and the expectations are of sex. Yes, nervous, yes excited, but discovery has a way of taming all that. If t doesn't work out, that's okay, you move on from there. If it does, hopefully it will be loads of fun and continue on.
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Pre pandemic I viewed New Experiences with cautious optimism. The thrill of the unknown and hopes for the best without great expectations. No undue pressures when meeting someone for the frst time. If it worked out great, if not, part on good terms. In today times, just in the wait mode to see how things progress on the covid front. Comments on my blog "midhard1" or on my erotic stories welcomed.
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12/9/2021 10:07 am |
It's certainly daunting to find that perfect sexual situation on adult sites...I've enjoyed the lifestyle for many years and have never been in an awkward situation because I (we) lay out all of the rukes of engagement and if broken or a red flag cums up before play it all gets shut down. A few times during the before play (coffee) I've ssud it looks like we might not be a great fit...yhanks and good luck in your search! Upfront in everything sexually will lead to better partners!
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