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meeting up how many people have you meet from Senior Sizzle? lots of BOTS and lots of fakes. |
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Been a long time. I met some good people. Have fun here! and be NICE! DB
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8/22/2021 5:49 am |
The longer explanation: Also a long-timer here and haven't bothered meeting people in over a decade now. Back in the day ( late 90's early 00's ) we've met many different combinations of people. How many, you ask? Hard to say. There was a point where we were meeting people every few weeks for friendly meet & greets socially for drinks and dinners. Then again, we were much younger back then in our 20's and 30's, too. Those were the good days of the site and of society itself. Those were the days when there were very few online outlets of congregation and of social media, unlike these days. Those were the days when the site wasn't very monetized, limited or restricted to navigate around, read profiles and contact / communicate with others, unlike today where every function is monetized and it's virtually scientifically restricted down to an near impossibility for success. Those were the days when mobile technology was pretty young yet and not implemented onto sites like this, when people were forced to sit at PC's and it allowed for great conversations to be had , friendships to develop and meets to occur because everyone almost always had the full attention of the other person, unlike today where people are signed in and not paying attention or are preoccupied. That takes away a huge part of the human element necessary to form friendships and meets. Those were the days when the internet was still somewhat new, along with chat rooms, IM and web camming. It was all pretty fresh, new and exciting, so it drew people in. Much like a farm kid going to NYC for the first time. These days, we're numb and desensitized to the internet and it's features. Those were the days when society was a bit different. When people enthusiastically wanted to chat for hours a day for weeks, months and years. When people were a bit more kind and respectful. When people actually communicated to each other ( b.r.b [be right back] and a.f.k [away from keyboard] ) when we stepped out or had to leave or if we simply weren't interested, unlike today where we rudely just leave a convo in mid conversation or ghost one another ( so rude and inconsiderate! ). Over time, social media outlets and other adult sites opened up by the dozens. Additionally, behavioral issues only worsened. Naturally, real women began leaving this site by the thousands, due to lack of incentive and the abuse. The site needed to maintain it's same profit as a business, even with millions of real women gone. The solution: Replace all of the real females who have left with fake female profiles to create the illusion of female inventory for profit. Similarly, implement a system of monetized tokens to be able to use virtually function of this site, creating a massive divide between its' members in which essentially enslaves members here, emptying their wallets into this site in hopes of success, when in fact the odds are an almost impossibility due to the lack of real female on a large scale and from all of the limitations and restrictions. A huge scam and money racket was developed! So yes, there are a lot of bots and fakes, naturally. This site is purely a business to generate profit. Nothing more. Is it impossible to meet people these days? No. Being a woman here, I can meet as many men as I want on here ( if I chose that route ). From a guy's perspective, it's not impossible, but it will likely mean that you'll need to work really hard at everything. You'll have to pay for the very best membership level that your wallet can afford in order to read profiles and be able to reach out ( and allow others to reach you ) to the appropriate women. It'll mean that you likely spend hours a day sifting through dozens of women's profiles ( many of the same people ), looking for newbies and reading updates from older members. You'll need a lot of time and patience to contact people, say the right things and to get a hit back. Your own profile will need time and effort taken to compose the very best one you can to grab the attention. You'll need a lot of luck and good timing. You'll need to deal with dozens of fakes, bots, scammers, liars, game players and catfish along the way. And so on... In the end, is it really worth all of that time, effort and resources to find someone? I can't say. I quit the search a long time ago because things are nearly impossible between site-wide things and how terrible the actual people are. To you, it may be worth it. Just within a week of chatting to several men, three told me they weren't going to renew memberships and one guy said he was leaving on the spot...five minutes later he was deactivated. So I think a lot of people are waking up to the grim reality of it all. It isn't a pretty picture painted, but it's an honest one. Hope the long explanation was of any help or of a good read.
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