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Blog Entry 2: Powerlessness vs Free Fucked Senseless  

HealerDude68 55M
1 posts
6/23/2021 5:15 am
Blog Entry 2: Powerlessness vs Free Fucked Senseless


Sorry about the title... Was trying to Convey the Difference between being Well Bonded (Upper n Lower restraints, Collar, Blindfold n Tiedowns points) giving up one's power to move, adjust, or see... Which involves a great deal of Trust. Which is why I prefer cheaper Velcro cuffs for experimenters who are dipping a toe in the water. I use the Nice Strong stuff only with Trusted Partner, you know... Because I Read That Horror Novel. (Koontz perhaps?)

VS: Giving up Control, becoming a total Sub. No Bonds, maybe Spanking, Choking or Flogging... Or Other nifty toys. I rarely get to be a total Sub. Am oft Top/Dom or Power Bottom. Mostly I have had Others in both sides of the VS coin.
I just had a really hot solo session fantasizing about a hook-up for next week. Seems able n Willing to Use me as I Crave. I understand the sub<b> desires </font></b>Quite well. It seems mainly to be the... Dare I say it? Feminine Receiver of a good Fucking. Although there are many different levels of Just how Free that Fucking may be...

A distinction here between Being Bonded where Those Details are generally discussed before and a safe word Established. When hooking up as total Sub, generally we tend to already have detailed in our profile amongst Kinks or wherever, a yes and a hard No list. Like Slapping on the Face. Hard NO for me. Will I slap You? If that floats your boat? Sure. Consenting Adults n all that...

Being Very Verse n Switchy as Necessary... I find I really like the synchronicity of a Free Fucking Date/Hook-up. My Weekend date wants good Head so far... And I want Fucked Silly. I've Always been Really big on Reciprocation, to the point I have never really relaxed into a true sub slut role. Maybe twice when super drunk. Once by an Ex GF (mighta made her mad before), and once in a bar in Lima, Peru I went to the toilet and ended up just bending over for this little guy. My female partner of the night... Had seen it thru the half door broken slats. I was blackout drunk by that point. I may have just shrugged when asked wtf?

Am I ready to be Tied Up... Ahem. Yes with Conditions. I Really dislike being bonded by the inexperienced... I get a bit bored? Same with being topped by the... Incompetent? Lackluster? Two minute Jackrabbit Fucks? Or Flaccid Fornicators. lol

Most of all... Sex for me is about the Head Games or Bedroom Games. Imagination and Attitude far outweigh Physical Attributes or Prowess. Am Sapiosexual... A thought will get me More Aroused than a Thing or Feeling. The Thought of being tied up and at like the center of an Orgy or a Gang Bang... Very Exciting, but I am gonna take baby steps on that one.

In closing... Probably not wise to get all Bound up on your first meet in this Crazy World. Also, It may have never dawned on me that Reciprocal can also mean taking Turns being Top. Silly me. Am hoping to mostly bottom just this once. To just let go and Get Free Fucked... My fingers are Crossed.

HAMONMAN 64M
13128 posts
6/23/2021 9:18 am

I think it's a great title


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