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Pushing sexual boundaries  

Luvbbcbaby 47F
63 posts
7/8/2021 12:28 pm
Pushing sexual boundaries


Well I was raised rather traditionally but have over the years tested my boundaries or should I say tested the limits installed in me.

Two things that I have never done is<b> anal </font></b>(which I am dead set against for myself) and I have never had a 3sum. Although I have often thought about doing MFM. Should I try it do you think 😊 I am just not sure if I could handle two men at one time.

Oooooh another thing that someone on here suggested which I think would be hot is a spreader bar. I really like the thought of my ankles being locked. Light bond age is something that I have been interested in for a while. Any suggestions for a beginner 😊 from the experienced on here in regards to MFM and light bondage 😉😉

spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
7/8/2021 1:02 pm

I think you should try a threesome; you are still in control! If trying light bondage, I recommend Japanese rope - easy to tie and easy to untie - also have a codeword to stop proceedings. My codeword was curry!


Luvbbcbaby replies on 7/8/2021 4:17 pm:
Ok so how would I stay in control would I have to do it with men who are subs and not doms? Ok Japanense ropes thanks I think thats a great idea to ease myself into it

Luvbbcbaby replies on 7/8/2021 4:18 pm:
Haha my code word wont be so nice hehe

RavenGB 63M
1430 posts
7/8/2021 2:11 pm

In any bondage situation, you need to know that you can trust the person doing it (obvious, but worth saying). Might be wise to experiment with somebody with whom you have a relationship, rather than a stranger. You could experiment in a BDSM club, if there is one locally since the presence of others guarantees your safety.
The MFM thing will work happily, if it is what you want. You don't need to worry about handling 2 guys, they will be very busy "handling" you, so all you need to do is enjoy yourself.

Have fun.


Luvbbcbaby replies on 7/8/2021 4:18 pm:
ooooh thanks for the info

DesireU2020 58M
90 posts
7/8/2021 4:25 pm

No matter what you try, make sure its with someone you trust, be prepared to laugh if it goes totally a foul and enjoy yourself if its what you want!


Luvbbcbaby replies on 7/8/2021 11:11 pm:
Sounds like great fun! Cheers.

spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
7/9/2021 2:17 am

    Quoting spunkycumfun:
    I think you should try a threesome; you are still in control! If trying light bondage, I recommend Japanese rope - easy to tie and easy to untie - also have a codeword to stop proceedings. My codeword was curry!
With a threesome, it's best the three of you chat beforehand to manage expectations and to lay down what is on-limits and what is off-limits. You're in control in that way. Unless the men are bi, you will be the centre of attention.
If you have a dom, you won't have to do much; if you have a sub, you'll have to do more. Unless you want a dom and/or sub, I'd suggest neither dom nor sub as that may complicate things but it all depends what you want.
A threesome is more complicated than a twosome. There's only one relationship involved in a twosome; there are three relationships involved in a threesome and it's important that relationships are good for everyone.
In my experience there was sometimes a possibility that the two men would compete with each other which is why it's important they get on. Also one man may at times feel a little left out if the other man is getting more of you but that's the way it flows sometimes, especially if one man cums first and needs a rest!
Again these are other reasons to all chat beforehamd.
Hope you have fun whatever you decide!


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