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Hosting and Ghosting
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Hosting and Ghosting Here's two of the biggest issues with this game, right? Let me say up front that I actually do have the potential ability to host. However, that is never going to be an option up front. I would not want to parade strange men in and out of a home that my wife (a very HOT wife mind you) also shares. Although, my home may very well be an option in the cases where a comfort level is reached due to an ongoing friendship. The thing to remember here is that I do not play without the knowledge of my wife. Even though she no longer participates in the swinging lifestyle, we do not keep secrets and she will always be very much aware if/when I plan to meet someone. All of that aside, let me share why I believe so many here are unproductive and frustrated generally. First, men have a tendency to get horny, hard, and hectic. With a hard dick in hand (our own) we tend to want immediate satisfaction. It's just in our nature. But this is where the problem comes from. No planning. Married/attached guys often fail to think things through. They want relief for their throbbing cocks, but they almost never take the time to develop and end game in terms of how to work that out. It's been my experience that most simply hope to find another guy (married or not...who can or will provide a place to, emmm...play. BUT, that is very rare to find. This is probably the primary reason that very little is accomplished here by the masses. Worse yet, I often see guys desperately trying to meet anywhere they can. In a car, at a public restroom, etc... And please...I've seen guys offer to host at their home while their unsuspecting wife is at work or otherwise away. Now what could possibly go wrong with these choices??? Second, there's the problem with ghosting. Folks talking a lot of shit with you and then just VAPORIZING. Interesting side story here. Some time ago, when my wife was just beginning to test these waters a little with me, we set up a couples profile here called "AtlGloryHoleCpl", or something similar. She was not at all ready for a full-swap encounter, but was very open to sucking a dick or two (with me) to see how it went. Our plan was to find suitable guys and line up a meeting at a local adult store that had the video booths with glory holes. This way, we thought, we could pick the guys who we'd interact with, and she could check this out while having a little comfort by not actually being in full contact with a stranger. Sound reasonable? Well, let me tell you that over the course of a few months, we arranged four (I think) different occasions with maybe three or four guys lined up each time. NOTHING. Lol Seriously...practically no one ever actually showed. There were two exceptions to this, and those were the source of the "Glory Hole" blog I've written. Now bare in mind, my wife is hotter than a two-dollar pistol and both she and I had talked/chatted with all of the guys enough for them to know that as well as for us to feel comfortable about inviting them. I have a private photo album here on Senior Sizzle with pictures of my wife (with her blessing). Who knows when that may become relevant again, right?  Ghosting is a huge problem with folks who lurk about these sites, and this is yet another big reason that I wouldn't want to use my home as an initial meeting place. Just think of how comfortable I'd be knowing that countless strangers from this site had my actual address. (more to come...work in progress)  |
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