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Guys, this is how you respond: click Comment and talk to me. Be sincere.
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Welcome to the blog, don't be so bashful!!! There are some guys here that will respond.. Just be safe... Have a good evening.. Stop by at lonlyforlove2 also see Lunch with Lonly , we get snow tomorrow Check my blog on New Community, "A photo of my big Pecker" also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'
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You might set up a private mail blog post that would allow you to exchange information with an individual that you want to exchange information that you do not want the many users to see. Something like a phone number (after appropriate vetting of the person) You can find an example and instructions at [blog BiggLala]
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It did make me smile. Stories on your blog also show you care, care for more than yourself. I left a post for you there, too. Thank you for making me feel welcome here.
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OK, I see how this is working out. lonlyforlove2, you have a very sweet blog and you were very nice to welcome me here. kahnfused, ok if this is too difficult for you. I admit I am having my own trouble with figuring out what is what and how to reach out to people. You can see I wrote about that in an earlier post. Nobody, including you, has to worry about your post being lost in the stack here. You would be writing to me and it is my reading you would care about. I guess you are reinforcing the truth that women can multitask better than men. No worry, I will not lose you or anyone else. Just say something personal, something alluring, something that makes you stand out (and I am NOT referring to your biological attention seeker) and I will have to notice! Write from your heart because, ultimately, that is what will get both my attention and my admiration.
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Thank you for the advice, bbuckwwheat. When the person and timing is right there will be a lot of privacy. Here, in public, everyone can get to know me while I still feel safe. I know this will not disrupt my home life and will not put me in jeopardy. The same should be true for you and everyone else. To be comfortable with me you should also be comfortable with yourself. Why be afraid of how you appear before others? I am the only one here who should matter to you. Testosterone-fueled skirmishes will not impress me, neither will put downs. If you want to interact with me you can. If you only feel comfortable with an exclusive, first you need to be in commute distance from me and then our relationship should be so comfortable and trusting that being without clothes will seem natural.
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hope this will get through. would love to chat more with you
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kamaruhl3 I would not think this little interaction can be considered a chat, but if you want to share more of your thoughts I invite you to do so. Wanting to chat and actually chatting are two different things. What is on your mind?
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What do you think? I have been asked to set up private blogging that will act like private mail. Seems guys do not want to show their stuff publicly! Maybe I am the wrong gal for this site, I want to get to know you and that does not have to include any X-rated stuff up front, so letting me know about you in public should not be a big deal. Maybe it is? I am surprised, I thought people would be more expressive here, would use the internet as a shield to release all they feel and desire without worrying about how others would think about it. But maybe this is not the situation. So what do you think, should I be setting up some type of private communication? I would hat to do that and find out all you wanted to talk about were your privates! Can I count on your best behavior even behind closed doors?
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While you are thinking about your response to my prior comment, I want to share what it is like to have all these ads popping up on my screen while I write to you. First, the family is around so I have to choose my moments to write here. Second, it is gratifying to know we have reached the point where an over-the-counter drug can help add length - whole and many inches! - to a penis. I am guessing no woman was involved in greenlighting that product or the marketing for it. What am I going to do with a longer penis? As if my idea of a good time is to have someone hammering against my cervix, trying to go back up to my uterus. That is an infantile desire. Plus, women are not made to get much sexual gratification deep in there, just like you guys aren't. Why waste your money on a longer penis, if that is even possible. I suppose if you play baseball and you forgot your bat... maybe? But why else? What makes you interested in such a thing? If you want to please me, skip that product. It will show me you are smarter than the advertising agency, and will start to shoe me you are someone who knows what is important in life.
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3/11/2021 10:36 am |
I think you are doing just fine and so so true about being bombarded with ads for not only the longer penis but lovely Ladies offering to be undressed. You may see why some people tend not to be on their best behavior when responding. I also appreciate that you're not looking for size because being of Irish decent I just don't have the initials 'BC' to my profile name. And my heritage prevents me from even being considered 'BBC'. So you can see he conundrum that I live with every day. Thanks for taking the time in writing your blog. Stay healthy and be safe. thanks for the outreach
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Thank you, Mr00Fun4U, for the warm encouragement and insights. I have to admit, in my dating years I never had the pleasure of having an Irish boyfriend so I did not know about the common traits you describe. I suppose this means all the teases about leprechauns has a (de)meaning that only those with secret knowledge of the Irish truly understand. I prefer to think of of the positive, the pot-o-gold at the end of the rainbow the leprechaun can reveal. Rainbows are not a one-time thing, they can appear repeatedly, accumulating that gold can be a very satisfying experience! I feel you should not worry about BC or being a turncoat by working for the BBC. Be a BP instead, a big personality, but one with a lot of room for another without overshadowing and with being mindful of what is desired by both. There is no conundrum. The advertising works on insecurities over what you cannot change. Real people do not care about that, they care about how you choose for what you can control.
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As you can guess, I am getting email and I am not able to read it. Some of you are clever and put your thoughts in the subject. Even though I am not able to read the full subject, something does get through. So I thought you might want my reactions, either in reply, to get more insight into how you are coming across, or to moderate your own outreach. I am not responding to individuals to make what I write here more generic (and to protect the innocent). I would love to chat... Think of this as a party. You can be overheard, but nothing stops you from approaching me. What do you want to chat about? How are you? How’s your day going? What are you up to? I am looking for an escape from my everyday life. I do enough mothering at home. I have enough responsibilities with extended family and work. So if I can take a break, step away, still be responsible, and return without stirring up trouble, I am thinking about it... Getting enough deep creampies lately? Will you take bare, married cock deep into your pussy? If you read my profile you know I repeatedly have taken bare, married cock deep enough to have several kids. You can also guess that I clean up after kids - of all ages. So imagine how it comes across when you offer to leave a mess behind in a blind corner that I have to figure out how to clean up after you have gone on your way. It should not be a wonder that Tiffany does not stock this gift you offer to please all those special women on your list. id love to chat and see what you might be looking for. Well, if you have had a look at my profile and blog, you might have been able to work out that I am looking for spelling and punctuation. You should be punctual and come on time. You should be mesmerizing and cast a spell of endearment and excitement. And you should care about me specifically, with all I have expressed, and react to me as a person and not as a generic femail with an inbox. I imagine you're getting absolutely HAMMERED with messages. You have a good imagination! After reading some of what has been sent my way, my only solace seems to be to get hammered. I liked your style in the profile, so I thought I would say hello. Hello How common do you think stalkers actually are? I dunno, more common now than before you asked? Hi there! How are you doing? It sounds like we could be a good fit. I am in an open relationship mys I am NOT in an open relationship, and to be a good fit I have to be open, right? I find my knees keeping close right now. I am not feeling like you care to know me as a person, so maybe this is not a good fit. I can certainly relate to being stuck at home, wouldn’t mind Donald, we all know you lost your job and you are looking for something to do. I have heard reports that you are a little strange down there, and there would just be more to clean up a few minutes later, so maybe move on to the next profile?
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I finally figured out how to reply to emails! Thank you for writing to me. I can use this blog to post general musings, my attitudes, and what is on my mind. I would like to comment on those who write having no idea who I am or what interests me most, thinking body parts and flash will get my attention. I see through that, wondering what is behind those body parts, who is the person under that sass. Maybe there's something different about how I am made. Physical stimulation will not get much of a response from me all by itself. For me, enjoying physicality is an extension of already having a clever, mental relationship. Though I want a break from everyday choredom, it isn't to make time to seek out mechanical, physical activity. If I wanted that I would go to a gym. I carry my concerns and worries and responsibilities with me in my mind, and my mind has be cleared first for my body to want to express itsel. I am not talking about going blank, though. I want to be intrigued enough to have other thoughts take their place. They should pique my imagination, seduce me into wanting to get closer physically, not demand it or offer it as the only option. Yeah, there is sex. Can you write a lot and not bring up sex even once, but make it so that is all that I can think about? Then we will be getting somewhere. I am really taken with how nice you are. Why make me work so hard to find that in you? Be a gent. Be sincere. Be interesting. Be yourself. Figure out who that is - and be it!
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Could not sleep, logged in, bleary-eyed I quickly gave up and went to log out. What is this? When I click on my ID I get options, including the ability to see all photos, whatever they are! That explains why I got so many blurred out, vague photos until now! So what will happen if I click, then look around? Oh, my, so many penises... so many penises... Are you guys short for clothes? I mean I know this covid thing has hit hard, but I am not a guy, tell me, does a hard case of covid make you hard? Do you feel you have to share your medical condition with everyone here? So many penises... such variety... Maybe I got it wrong. Maybe you are trying to impress me with all these penises. If so, try this on for size: if your penis weighs less than 8 pounds and is shorter than 22 inches (do not even ask about the girth!), it is nothing compared to what has already been in my vagina. More than once. So those little dingalings you wave around here are not as impressive as you may think. You still do not get it? How about at least one of those 8 pounders had a penis of its own while it was in my vagina?! Does your penis have a penis? You will never catch up. I rest my case. Here is what you need to know: Impress me with your mind. Only then will you have a chance to express yourself to me with your penis.
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lastmanoneaerth, thank you for writing and for encouraging me to put up with so much trembling testosterone on this system. Think about it, the bulk of this site is people doing not much else but using their hands. Seeing what gets typed, how (un)accomplished so many men here are with their hands, it's no wonder they feel a need to invite someone else to help them masturbate. Get it together, guys, masturbation should be easier than typing! Get that out of the way before you type something, and rise to the occasion when you do (instead of bringing typing down to the level of masturbation). As lasmanoneaerth conveys, just because you channel the conversation one way doesn't mean I'm compelled to follow. I may want different things at different times, and I'll answer questions in the direction I am interested in - that seems more fitting and even more respectful than maybe what I'm first getting. Does it take a gentleman from Canada (or are you from The World?) to show how things ought to be? lastmanoneaerth, a question for you: are you from the French-speaking part of Canada? If not, which part of Canada specializes in gentlemen like you? Maybe it's all of Canada. After all, your anthem for all is about the Big O (Canada).
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1 post 3/14/2021 6:32 pm |
Hello and thanks for taking the time to respond to my message earlier I added a few notes about my personal life in the initial response but I am looking forward to having a conversation, potentially making a real connection and meeting in person if things make it that far. My wife and I have run a business together for almost 12 years and have 2 kids (ages 3&5). While we don't really have anything to complain about, our business is thriving and our kids are happy and healthy, there is a never ending amount of stress and the business relationship has seemingly destroyed our sexual relationship for the past 5 years (since our first child being born). Over the past year I have done everything in my power to try and reconnect but it has only brought my wife more guilt about not wanting it and frustration on my end. I am still very attracted to my wife so it is a daily distraction for me to not have these desires fulfilled and seemingly no way to do so. Jerking off and watching porn certainly doesn't do it and hiring a sex worker is expensive and lacks a real connection that I desire. Thanks for listening and let me know if you have any specific questions
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markbenedict3: your post is sincere and deserves a one in return MrGameman64: I really appreciate you taking the time to write and express yourself. Before getting into anything more deeply, you should know that distance between us may limit our interactions to written only. I don't want to lead you astray, I'd rather you know this in advance so as to not get tangled up should you sense frustration rather than release. For now my availability is unpredictable, the amount of time available unplannable, and I think there's too much freeway between us. I also appreciate you wanting to enhance my life without causing discomfort or difficulties. Not everyone would be so considerate as you.
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MrGameman64, I do not cast anyone aside. People may self-select for that, but that is on them. Thank you for offering to come to me. Of course, I am in the exact worst location for you to visit, and certainly nothing on your mind could take place here. Even so, it was chivalrous of you to offer. You do not have to thank me for replying, that is just basic human decency. That you even mention it tells me there is a lot of decency missing on this system, and maybe in general. How could anyone even consider getting together to intertwine their bodies if they cannot even be civil to each other? Part of getting together is first finding out what is comfortable for each, what is a possibility (but never a requirement!), and what is out of bounds. It is an expression of respect to never go out of pre-discussed bounds, even if it seems so right in the heat of the passionate moment. If the friendship is true there will always be another time, always another opportunity, to grow and explore. You should not have to thank for a reply from someone you hope to get together with. You should recognize when it is absent as a statement that you are not being taken seriously. Getting together is a serious matter, even if it only to be seriously fun. And touching is an expression of thoughts that should already be in place. Without replies you will never know those thoughts, and you'll be doomed to cold, mechanical coupling that might be good for bragging with friends but that will leave you empty the more you engage in it.
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Thank you MrGameman64. You have my permission to fantasize about me. It's almost as good as me being there. I'm probably more compliant that way, too! I really do appreciate a man who is willing to sacrifice his own immediate needs to consider the feelings of a woman he respects. I know it can take great effort. I hope my acknowledgment reinforces for you that you made the right choice. In this way you are also protecting the future. Who knows? One day you may want to fantasize about me being with you again! You have successfully preserved that option. Also, we're still on speaking terms, so...
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MrGameman64, did you give me some points? I'm still trying to figure this site out. If I understand correctly, you did! I'm not a points user, at least not yet, but I can tell you how charmed I am by your unsolicited generosity. You are a gentleman. If anyone denies this, you can point them straight here to prove them wrong. Or you can be an even bigger gentleman and know you don't have to prove yourself to anyone, you do what's right and people of quality will notice. I certainly noticed. Thank you for what I take as a compliment from you.
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Glad you found a way to communicate without a gold membership. Seems like we are in a similar situation. I live in the SFV which might be close you. Have you thought about using another chatting app like kik. It has worked out for me. I'm Sexray69 on there if you get it.
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You are Sexray69?! I think I see the ray gun in your photo. Be careful where you aim! No, I do not have kik or other apps. I am new here and this can be overwhelming all on its own. There also seems to be a spirit of community here which I find comforting. Though I am new, I welcome you as I have been welcomed!
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I’ve been on this site for quite some time and I must say this is the most sincere, honest, and open blog I’ve ever read. Thank you for being so forthcoming with exactly what you’re looking for, yet welcoming to all; your analogy of a “party” is refreshing and puts me, for one, at ease. I’ve spent many an evening chatting of hopes, dreams, nightmares, music, and movies over whiskey with special new friends that I cherish to this day, though those chats seem years away at this point and I long to participate in them in person again, hopefully soon. But until then, I’ll pour a few fingers and raise a glass to you, and thank you for your hospitality. If you’re not already a writer by trade, it’s quite evident there’s a burgeoning writer inside, ready to be heard. I’m looking forward to it.
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Well, LeonardBlush, I cannot tell if you are hanging out with the wrong people, or if people you meet here have too much hanging out. It is so much easier when people are true to themselves while being tolerant of others being true to themselves, too. Even a fire-spitting white supremacist has a place in our social fabric if they respect others they may internally disdain. To be successful at this we must all have some level of empathy and acceptance of others. We may not know what others have to deal with, making empathy hard. This site actually helps get past that. We are at a safe distance, there is no physical threat. Someone who feels a threat of ideas they can express themselves. Without anyone knowing or berating them for it, they can also pause to consider other perspectives they receive in reply. Opinions may change, but everyone will survive and there will be a little more understanding, and another chance on another day. I had an interaction with a guy in Iowa. He had a very firm belief that government was meddling too much in the lives of citizens, stripping them of their liberty and wealth to support the undeserving and promote agendas he does not support. His only cure seemed to be more Republicans in office. Well, not the "Corporate" Republicans (a term that meant something to him), or the Republicans who wanted to be Democrats, but at a slower pace. Actually, he quickly switched to wanting only those who support the Constitution. Even the Supreme Court had failed him. With the Constitution now the focus, he demanded to know if I knew what was in the Second Amendment. I am in California, a state he dismissed because taxes are so high and people are, effectively, being fleeced to support illegals and social failures. So as to not be a total write-off in his mind, I reminded him California is a large state that produces many things, including former Speaker McCarthy and media darling Devin Nunes. My socialist California indoctrination had me saying the Second Amendment was clumsily worded to allow a militia that was an officially sanctioned associate of the government to have arms. It does not say those arms have to be firearms. If firearms are allowed, it does not say those firearms are allowed to be any more modern than what they were when the amendment was written. And nowhere in the amendment is there permission or protection for ownership or use of ammunition. I will be honest about this. About four years ago I would have instead answered the Second Amendment holds opinions balanced somewhere between the First Amendment and the Third Amendment. Being holed up for a while and constantly confronted with strongly expressed threatening opinions can get a person thinking, maybe even reading! I got a lot of pushback on individual freedoms, states rights, Supreme Court malfeasance, and on and on. We were not getting along - but we were still sharing perspectives. And, yes, this was all right here on Senior Sizzle. Where else would someone in Iowa reach out to interact with me in California, attracted by the scent of a vagina, then trying to demonstrate superiority and trump my convictions? Where else would I have had a chance to respond? I learned Iowa was just about perfect. Illegal aliens have already been rounded up. Meat packing plants are manned by refugee Bosnians, like they're supposed to be. No crops grown in Iowa need hand picking, like strawberries and tomatoes and grapes do here in California. Foods imported from Central and South America, where worker conditions do not matter, only appear at the large grocers no one goes to because artisanal farmers supply all local needs. There are fierce battles against taxes in Iowa, shunning of spending on social matters, and, most of all, Iowans carry their own weight or they become invisible. The rest of the United States should be like Iowa, there was little tolerance for it to be otherwise. I admit I was not quick enough in that original conversation to say something that might cause reconsideration. But this is Senior Sizzle and we do not have to say everything at once, we can be measured, consider what we say next, and can pick up where we left off. I think a lot of people should keep this in mind as they take their time to think before they speak when they have nothing insightful to say. A hormonal response, or using This One Weird Trick on women, will most likely not promote care and understanding, and may lead to isolation. Are we not here to get rid of the isolation we feel? So why go there? After a quick bit of internet sleuthing I was able to ask about this Iowan self sufficiency and perfection. Why does Iowa get billions in subsidies to grow corn? If Iowa cannot produce corn at market prices, why do taxpayers, especially out of state taxpayers, have to prop Iowa up? Do I at least get some free corn out of the deal? No. Corn no one wants goes to further subsidized ethanol production. If ethanol cannot be produced cheaply enough at market prices it should mean ethanol production is not an industry suited for Iowa. After all, Iowa stands tall in its self sufficiency and everyone in Iowa who matters carries their own weight. Taxpayers, especially out of state taxpayers, should not have to prop up Iowan ethanol producers. As for California, a state that has its own petroleum reserves, active drilling and pumping, its own refineries, and a coastline and harbors that can inexpensively accept oil shipments from just about anywhere on Earth, why is the government, with Iowan influence, forcing us to dilute our gasoline by 15% with that Iowan ethanol that lowers our gas mileage and changes the pump price for the worse? Why do self sufficient Californians have to pay to treat Iowa like a welfare state just so Iowa, with its two equal-count senators and a negligible number of house members, can support federal freedom measures like opposing abortion and not letting women do as they wish with their bodies? There is a dissonance in the Iowan perspective. Here at Senior Sizzle a woman is supposed to use her body liberally. The Iowan perspective then is conservative with the follow-on support she may need. I was left with the feeling that the rugged individualness of Iowans is a delusion that leaves destruction in its wake, and it is good there still are checks and balances in what we as a country agree to. That conversation has not continued but, in this party atmosphere that allows others to listen in, it now has a life of its own. Some will say there are not enough boobs in this story to make it worth reading. Others may say we should not mix sex and politics. Or is that sex and religion? Or is that religion and politics? Many will agree with some perspective here. And maybe, just maybe, someone will recognize just about all issues are deeper than they may have originally imagined. Which will then motivate them to hold back on promoting their wants and take a breath to learn about others in their situations and how you can hep an escape here be uplifting and supportive for a better life all around.
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