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The Civilized Choice???
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The Civilized Choice??? I'm noticing something about my "new" approach on Senior Sizzle. One, women are visual creatures as much as men. Don't let them lie to you and say they don't need the stimulation. I've had woman tell me they weren't interested cause I didn't have dick pics on the profile. It's disappointing, cause I'm coming from a place of common respect and empathy. I've been on Senior Sizzle since 2006; kept my profile meticulously groomed, had the right intro, did all the side tests and compatibility tests to show what kind of person and lover I was. Then to be overlooked because I HAD dick pics on the account. That was the kicker. Two, women act like they are picky. And yes, some of them are. But I draw your attention to the "WAP" revolution and my other fav song. "Girls need love, too". The American society was constructed to keep a woman "in her place". Meaning under the man in all ways: Socio-Economic and sexually. Woman, just like POC's, have never been able to just be themselves like I have all my life. I've embraced my sexual side over my 45 and 1/2 years, as of 2/18/21, and never really had it thrown back at me or been shamed. Hell, if anything, my friends provided me with good natured ribbing and cool nicknames because of it. So I don't know what it is like to be a woman who wants to just have sex, but have to worry about how others will see her. To have things thrown at her, like "The Walk of Shame" or being call a Jump Off, loose booty or something possibly more degrading. However, I just wish this society could lighten up a little and possibly allow these women a sexual and societal awakening. You don't know what's its like to be repressed in some way, shape, form or fashion, unless youre BLACK/POC (that i do know) and a WOMEN (will never know in 100 lifetimes). And White women, I don't include you in that, cause you have liberating sexual titles of Queen of Spades and Cukholdress, which solidifies your place in this society; right below white men, but still above a black woman. I say all that to say all this; STOP THE SEXUAL REPRESSION OF WOMEN IN GENERAL AND BLACK WOMAN SPECIFICALLY This is why they feel like they have to be picky (and of course you can be if you want). Allow them to be picky because they want to be, not because society has painted them into the box of expectations and won't let them be anything else . Now, on to the 3rd part of my dissertation; how all these words i've type affect my approach. I've adopted a "Non-threatening" stance here. I have a friends folder, but my public photos are PG rated (cause i ooze sexuality, can't stop that, just hope to contain it). There's no mention of what sexual position i like or the sexual bravado that i do carry. Why? Because of the sexual repression that goes on in this country. I react to my conditions, just like a scientific experiment (Hence the name The (T)heory, (P)roof and (T)ruth). I will only be able to conform to the parameters set within my experiment. After 15 years on this site, i have seen the ebbs and flows of sexuality. I've been in Vegas Mansion<b> orgies </font></b>and intimate one on one that last for days. But, for all the openness that i've been involved in, its crazy to me that i'm unable to open up on here, due to factors involving social standing, Online safety and a little good ol' fashion sexism. And its still ironic to me when i get someone that rejects me because i've tried position myself as a Civilized Choice. The Theory, Proof and Truth: a scientific method approach to life. The Civilized Choice...Anything else is just Uncivilized... |
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