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Is AFF a secret from everyone who knows you?
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It's only the most natural thing humans can do with each other.Hiding would imply that it's something dirty.Not to mention what does hiding say about the very people here that you're looking for? Most probably don't want to hear,"You're looking for sex on the internet?That's seems a bit dicey,what are you that desperate.You need to get out more often!" Using more than all the road!
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I kinda don't care that people know but a big lesson in life is this : "don't give people ammunition that they can and will use against you". Believe me when I say this "a hard lesson to learn when your assets are at risk or lost". You can leave me a message here
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I kinda don't care that people know but a big lesson in life is this : "don't give people ammunition that they can and will use against you". Believe me when I say this "a hard lesson to learn when your assets are at risk or lost". It sounds like you learned some lessons the hard way, in which case I hope you recovered and that you are in a better place.
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8/6/2021 3:29 pm |
I keep it secret.
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Oh hell no. I would never tell anyone I am on here!
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I'm fairly open about my lifestyle to the majority of my friends. But I am discrete about encounters.
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Although I agree that no one has the right to tell anyone what to do, the rest of your post is totally ignorant. This line of "a site like this" is the problem. So what is this site? Why do you see it as dirty or wrong to be here? I don't and many others don't. There is nothing dirty or wrong in wanting a healthy sex life. Now, if you are doing something you consider wrong or dirty that you have to hide it fine, but don't condemn everyone on the site including myself as we are doing something we should hide from people by being on here. Would it be awkward to find a friend or family member here? Probably a family member, but I have found friends I knew as well as friends I knew found me here. None of them said "omfg shame on you for doing this." Why? Because they are here too!!!! DUH!!!! Maybe you didn't think when you blurted this out, but if they are here they are doing the same thing you are doing unless you are again doing something really that should be hidden. I have yet to go to a restaurant and have someone at that same restaurant condemn me for going there when they are there too. Same for here. Scenario, you ask for a face pic and find out they ARE a friend/family member now what???? Someone asks you for a face pic and finds out you are friend/family member now what???? They are going to ask for a face pic just like you. It happens!! Maybe this place is there personal private time where they choose to indulge in their kinds and freaks and mild fetishes just like you. You don't own the site so you can't tell friends and family members they can't be here just because you are here either. ROFLMAO I am sure they are not broadcasting it any more than you are, but seriously, if you are not doing something illegal or against the law there is no reason to act like being here is or insinuate that others here are doing something shameful either. I personally don't care who knows I am here. I am here doing something that is healty and makes a person happy. #1. I Know I do not own the site and NEVER acting as if I did so you sentence that reads'( You don't own the site so you can't tell friends and family members they can't be here just because you are here either.'  Where did you get the idea of me telling people period they can come here or not? That is no where in my post and to insinuate is IGNORANT.#2. To try and compare being on this site to being in a restaurant and being seen by family or friends is TOTALLY non-comparable and made no sense to do so and is completely IGNORANT! 3# How is the line "a site like this"totally the problem? This site is a sex site!! A site for many things. Some people use it as a regular dating site some for fantasies and others fetishes and others allot more than may be a bit to allot embarrassing. Some people maybe into piss some scat. And you Really thing they want ANYONE to know that! And I can see you are confused. A healthy sex like is not the main reason people are on here as you can see there are many like categories nor does one have to come on a site like this too have a healthy sex life so those two do not connect and is IGNORANT! #3. How would you know if friends or family are on here doing the same as me. And whats makes you think I want to know?? DUH!! Did you think of that?? And WHERE is it you figure that I am condemning Everyone on this site for being on here when I AM ON HERE MYSELF. Are you SERIOUS!! You are making NO SENSE in your reply! And if I see a pic of a family member I decline that is what stop the chat!! What do you think what?? That was a dumb question! #4. I said and you quoted "Maybe this place is there personal private time where they choose to indulge in their kinds and freaks and mild fetishes just like you' The key word is PRIVATE!! Why would I want people know what I do in my PRIVATE LIFE!! No me personally I am not doing anything illegal or gross or anything in that category but I did do not need ANYONE to know what site I am on.THIS SITE or any other cause that is my PRIVATE LIFE. Now as for friends I could have left that out as I have referred friends to this site so a few do know I am here but it is just gross and disgusting too let your family into your sex life. So a man wants his sister's or brothers or parents to know he is bi if they do not know. He wants a all male gangbang! A woman wants her family to know she is into gang bangs or bi or is into BDSM! What about co-workers I guess its okay for them to know to right? I guess the whole office should know about a persons sex life and fetishes right? Never mind that might be embarrassing or even cost them their job. Your whole reply made NOS SENSE and before you start to throw around the word ignorant you REALLY should make sure you are that smart to do so!
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I like to keep this a completely private and separate part of my life.
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8/27/2021 3:22 pm |
Very much a secret
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9/16/2021 12:32 am |
If I am asked I wouldn't hide the fact in am a member, but I prefer a little discretion
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My business
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I dont want others to know. However, I wouldnt want them to know I am on Facebook dating either
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Ever had a security clearance? You will lose it if you are identified here. Is that right? No. Is it a fact? Yes
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