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Oh The Frigid Husband's Regrets
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Oh The Frigid Husband's Regrets Sad to say but my husband would have been very glad to have married a frigid woman. Instead he got me, a very sensual sexual woman. He instead is for the most part been a frigid husband, never learning to let go and just evolve. Try new things, new kinks, or even enjoy a good porn. I often wonder if he has regrets. He does tell me that he has many regrets about not being more of a sexual man. As is often the case in life, he waited too long and health issues took care of that for him. I will always wonder what we could have enjoyed. as a couple in the lifestyle. Or even if we both had other partners and then shared in the stories. But all we can be responsible for in this life is ourselves. I can't make anyone have time to see me. I can't change who<b> desires </font></b>me or who doesnt. And often all I can do is write on here, and love myself. Orgasms and all. Never put anyone on the back burner for too long Ann  *Creative Outlets of All Forms thru Me* |
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6/30/2021 3:56 pm |
Life goes on in everyone marriage. Being married my self to a lovely wife. We both have gotten mileage on our sex life. We started late with other couples after a cancer bout. How exciting it is and was to kiss another woman, kiss her nipples lick her kitty as seeing the wife kissing, sucking another man’s cock, to being fucked next to me.
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Our sex life is the same way She has no desire She stopped long ago it used to be hot and heavy At all different times Now we sleep in two different room She know I'm on here she don't ask any ? I told her it my way to entertain my sexuality needs Weather it's just fantasy and masterbation Or I meet someone to do what you don't no more. She said just don't bring her home to this house. Yet any time I leave she got to know where I'm at at all times It takes my fun away.
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Then there are the wives who are going through the change. Menopause. In my case, that, anyhow you slice or dice it, is a bitch. Some women sail through it gracefully and with ease. Their libido actually goes up, they are willing to explore new things and it is like a rebirth for them, in and out of the bedroom. Others struggle with it. High disinterest in sex, mood swings, unfriendliness ... and on and on. You even wonder if she's the same woman you married. Couple that with a rise in career prospects - I am secure as far as that goes; I am not jealous or insecure in that regard, I am happy for her. However, her total self immersion therein leaves a lot to be desired. It's like her interest in sex has been rerouted to making it to the top, jobwise. I am a red blooded man who has needs. The need for a friend who is cool, the need for warm, intelligent conversation and the need for red hot sex !
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7/2/2021 7:16 pm |
Sadly I know how you feel, but at least your husband can admit his regrets, my soon to be former wife will never admit to any regrets. Bad part is I could have lived with it if she would have given a little and been willing to consider my point of view. Thus I reverted to my 2 basic rules for life, 1) You decide how much BS you allow in your life. The other people in your life can help you fix it, or you do what you gotta do. 2) You can love someone, but that doesn't mean you have to put up with their BS. Good luck Sweetie. Only do what you are comfortable with, either with someone or alone. Take care
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