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First Do No Harm
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First Do No Harm Be careful what you wish for and be very sure you can actually have time for a affair. That also depends who you pick and what the two of you decide would be the time you has available be together. That can be very hard if one or both of you are married. My view on this is this: If you are going to enter into any kind of relationship with someone else, your first priority is to bring no harm to their marriage or yours. There will be times that one of you has to cancel because of family or martial obligations. Remember that the person you picked, has most likely been in a long term marriage. This means , extended family, etc. Alot of history and memories there. You don't want to cause alot of hurt, to anyone. If you truly care for the person you are having sex with, then you need to not be a extra burden to them. You need to have no ill will to their spouse. This is a friendship, with some pretty wonderful benefits. Keep it that way. Sometimes this person becomes your confidant, even your best friend. There will be times that one or both of you need to vent about something going within your nuclear family. Be that friend, it can't be just purely sex without friendship for me. There will be times that life makes it so you can not see each other for awhile. Accept that and be that unwavering friend. I find men that are in long marriages are the type you want to have a relationship with. They aren't the fly by night over and done with type of chaps Listen we are lonely, hence why we are there. We want that human touch, crave it. We want to fill alive, and that someone cares, and dare say even wants us sexually. That maybe they think of you on those lonely horny nights. Maybe it is your name whispered as they cum from masturbating. Keep it real. Family, marriage first, lasting friendship with a special kind of sexual love. Celebrate this with me, it can be wonderful. Ann  *Creative Outlets of All Forms thru Me* |
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Years ago I had a lover who was married and I was single. We become friends then lovers for 4 wonderful years. In that time I fell truly in love with him and never told him. Today we still keep in touch but he is in another State. Our relationship was very special and if you read my blog unfriended love affair it will tell you. You are so right about this. I agree 💯 The Light is shinning and she is lonely and waiting in the darkness. 
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1/16/2021 8:22 am |
Well said and so honestly written..........
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