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Trying to start a connection and site crazy  

Fishnets68 60F
2 posts
11/29/2020 8:18 am
Trying to start a connection and site crazy


The site can be daunting, but we all must realize often times it is our own actions and how we reach out someone we may be interested in. Even if enticed by the pictures but not the capability read the profile, best approach is too open by introducing yourself and advise your level of interest.
is an over the top amount of scams here, not to mention some of more nasty or 14yro approaches that are turn offs. This bad behavior has caused a lot of distrust on the site, as well as we need to at our own expectation. By the time we have waded through all the eye candy (Ken and Barbie) rejections, we are disillusioned. Picture collector, no respect for others time, setting up meets that never happen, most times because the inconsiderate person trades up to what they believe is better option. Hilarity, is a week later when the trade up turns out to be a maintenance thing or a psycho then suddenly they are back.

However, are some major rewards if you can find someone you can partner up with for FWB, means every time the need is you don't have start a ground zero

This is not be taken as a rant but the truths I have discovered here

justaguyinalaska 57M
879 posts
11/30/2020 12:26 am

The truths you shared are (unfortunately) known to many of us. While there are no *fool-proof* screens in this community, I commend an active presence on these blogs to you. You will connect with the *best and the brightest* here (myself being the exception that validates this rule).


DeepDiver5812 65M
2 posts
1/19/2021 2:32 am

Fishnets suits you well. Very nice.

You are correct in your observations about this site. It is a bit disappointing when you put in so much effort and then have people just step on you. I would recommend that people new to this site should read your post and profile.

Thank you for taking the time to tell your experiences on this site. I hope you find what you need and want. You seem like a very nice lady.


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