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Manipulative  

Rosethighs 29F
13 posts
8/25/2020 3:57 pm
Manipulative


I just looked at the "Profiles I Viewed" today and it shows me looking at 43 member's profiles. Some that I've never even scrolled past. I've probably looked at 6 or 7 today but the point is that I've been on this site for over a year now and I'm finally understanding why people are so "friendly" toward me in their initial messages. Sheesh. I did google this and saw posts about this happening from years ago, so I figured I'd create a new post just to update that... it's still a thing.

Realman45694 43M
1 post
8/25/2020 4:06 pm

The site will do this often. They'll have a profile put up in my 'viewed' or 'flirted with' section. It's their way of lying and getting people to pay for a membership. It's like they're saying, "Someone's interested in you. If you buy a membership you might have a chance."


SingleItalianGy2 52M
1205 posts
8/25/2020 4:26 pm

A.F.F. = Always Fucking Fixing


chupadorquer 61M
5 posts
8/25/2020 5:01 pm

It´s still a thing


LadiesR2B1rst 60M  
2735 posts
8/25/2020 5:10 pm

I've also noticed that when it's time to renew the flirts and views are more frequent .


Rosethighs replies on 8/25/2020 6:05 pm:
My flirts are accurate on my end... no extras

resant78 45M  
3326 posts
8/25/2020 5:59 pm

I had noticed that too! I even went as far as changing my password thinking someone was looking at profiles using my account. But now, they or someone or the site itself says I have looked at well over 2K profiles.

Now, I know I have seen many, but I can guarantee nowhere near 2K! Not even half of that.

it's a little weird, but what-cha-gonna-do? (shrug)


justaguyinalaska 57M
879 posts
8/25/2020 6:24 pm

I have found that if you even scroll your cursor across a profile, it pops open in a small window. I suspect that this action is recorded in your view-count and whoever's profile was *opened* gets a message that you have *viewed* it.

That said, viewing a profile is hardly an invitation to *come hither*. It may inspire a friendly follow-up, but you are not obliged to respond, especially as you likely receive dozens of messages each day. A number of members have an auto-reply that politely acknowledges a message, confirms that she/he has a busy inbox and indicates that- due to time constraints- a more personal response may not be forthcoming.


Mr_Mercedes 61M
617 posts
8/25/2020 6:58 pm

You're right - there's so much manipulation by the site and/or the fake profiles and scammers that it's become one of the most untrustworthy sites I've ever visited. So just beware.


Looking for Mischief


Rdwngfn24 53M
3 posts
8/25/2020 7:08 pm

I noticed the same thing. I had my profile up for about 10 minutes. I hadn’t posted a photo and nothing more than the most basic information and it tells me 6 people viewed my profile. I was on here long enough in the past to know that people don’t look at profiles without pictures. They are fraudulently trying to get people to pay money. Many profiles aren’t even legit. Just my two cents


jajo696 113F
4287 posts
8/26/2020 3:22 am

Yup....its a site way of trying to foster interactions. Its been doing it for years. Golds will send mails...." hey i saw you looked at my profile"....lol. Nope...not me.

Just one of the many many glitches of the site ~~


forgotforgetting 57M
8134 posts
8/26/2020 9:19 am

You are correct. The site has gotten worse over the years. Each time it gets sold, some new way to suck money develops. Typically, all it does is suck the fun out it. I've been on the site a long time and often wonder why I am still here.

“Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.”
― Oscar Wilde


Boomorbust2020 39M

8/27/2020 8:41 am

This is basically just a distraction and entertainment.


Piper3654K 53M
141 posts
9/9/2020 5:14 am

Sadly most of the fake profiles here are women, most are between 25 and 30, and most have one picture. Those are statistically the most likely to generate attention. By my estimation, about 1/3 to 1/2 of the profiles here are fake at any given time. To give their fake profiles "life" they randomly assign views and sometimes even flirts from both the fake and real profiles that are in the target range.

Having been here for almost 10 years on and off, I can say that the site used to be a useful place to meet like minded people. Over the last couple of years, they've made it very hard to contact or communicate with real people... if not impossible.

Anyhow, good luck in your searches. There are some real and good people sprinkled between the cheaters and prostitutes, fakes, and liars.


oldman3113 56M
21 posts
11/14/2020 7:08 pm

yea so you look or try to chat with them there goes points cant never keep them


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