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Home wrecker?  

Steffichick 46F
21 posts
4/28/2020 4:36 pm
Home wrecker?


Okay, so I've been looking for a married guy for a couple of weeks now and I've received a few comments, notibly from guys who accuse me of being a home or family wrecker. They seem to think that I am solely responsible if a marriage falls apart, and tend to forget that there is also a man involved in this process, a man who has actively been seeking a woman to have either sex or a relationship with whilst still being in a marriage.
There must be something wrong with the marriage in the first instance for a guy to be looking oustide of the marriage for female company. I suppose that there is an argument that I have low moral values, but I would say to that that it is not my intention to end a marriage and I would never make a guy choose between me and his wife.
I realise that embarking on this course of action could quite possilby have serious consequences, I have thought about this deeply so I'm not just in this for something to do because I'm bored. It is because I realise the severity of the consequences that I am looking for a long term relationship rather than just a fling. A fling that could end up in the break-up of a marriage and the affair all in one foul sweep. By offering a long term relationship I regard myself as helping a guy in distress at a time of need, and you never know, he could end up going back to his wife and who'd be the loser then - I would. So you see I have as much to loose as the either the guy or his wife.

CharlieBee55 61M
6 posts
5/4/2020 5:22 am

imho, if a guy meets a girl on her both looking for sex, then he is at fault ifbhis marriage breaks down


ThatOtherMan3 59M

5/7/2020 9:46 pm

A relationship like the one you offer can actually save families--in the respect that one partner in the marriage is finding what they need outside the marriage and everything else is fine and the couple don't split up and the kids are all good. I hope that makes sense. And no--it would not be your fault at all. It takes two. Good luck!


Steffichick 46F
14 posts
5/19/2020 4:00 pm

Yes I think you are right, and actually I think I may elude to this in my blog. Thank you for your input.


CharlieBee55 61M
6 posts
6/16/2020 6:35 am

some people, need an outside source of relief in a marriage, someone to talk to confide in and be with both emotionally and sexually...it allows for fun and games that cannot often happen in a 'stale' marriage, but that in itself allows the marriage often to continue happily. IF an affair turns serious, it does so for a reason xxx


CleanSeedFlow 43M

6/26/2020 12:23 am

Well if you are looking for a married man I am interested.


Steffichick replies on 7/14/2020 5:07 pm:
Thank you for your interest, but I have found a partner now.

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