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Why can't I just be honest  

Johnny53s 55M
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6/27/2021 7:12 am
Why can't I just be honest

I ran into this chic I mean I ran up against her. She was hot. So I approached her. I just wanted to fuck her. So why can't I just be honest. With no pretenses. Tell her I want her to come over so we can fuc

Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
6/29/2021 5:08 pm
    Quoting superbjversion2:
    Yes, they do. What they don't want is a strange man coming up to them on the street and declaring he wants sex with them so that they have to wonder if it's going to be forced upon them. And understanding that fear is what I meant by "respect for womankind" in regards to the scenario he stated.
You're misleading Johnny53. Men and women interact like this [as he described] all the time.

Sometimes the primary goal of sex is intentionally avoided by an invitation to "Go out"..... or sometimes the primary goal of sex is mentioned and they do it.

Either way, it's a "Yes" or "No" , answer.

Women are just as likely to be sexually assaulted hanging out with someone new.

As I told him, check for mutual sex interest first. That's typically done through flirting. A man doesn't need to "Treat her". Just Yes [interested] or No [not interested].


superbjversion2 68F  
24388 posts
6/29/2021 3:38 am
    Quoting Heathen_G:
    ha.. that's funny.
    Womankind wants to fuck , too.
Yes, they do. What they don't want is a strange man coming up to them on the street and declaring he wants sex with them so that they have to wonder if it's going to be forced upon them. And understanding that fear is what I meant by "respect for womankind" in regards to the scenario he stated.
Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
6/29/2021 2:12 am
    Quoting superbjversion2:
    There's nothing to stop you from being honest. Except, maybe...good manners, respect for womankind, and lack of bail money.
ha.. that's funny.
Womankind wants to fuck , too.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
6/29/2021 2:08 am

 Well you can be honest , with no pretenses. All depends on the chemistry you two have for each other, in that moment. So make sure that mutual sex attraction is there first.

Considering that the pretense of inviting a woman out , basically means he wants to fuck her, so the idea of just skipping all that nonsense of "Going out", and just saying what's on your mind, is a real time saver. But you do need to confirm that mutual sex attraction first before blurting out . Typically you can detect this within the first 10 seconds, and a little flirting first.


superbjversion2 68F  
24388 posts
6/27/2021 11:39 am

 There's nothing to stop you from being honest. Except, maybe...good manners, respect for womankind, and lack of bail money.
Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!


BiSussi 63F
1405 posts
6/27/2021 10:27 am

 You could ask, but it would make me only smile Not into Sex, not into a quick F, inviting me over for a coffee could work, but it would depend on a lot of things Firstly, your voice, secondly your body language, thirdly . . . . .
However, next time be just honest some of my friends claim it does work sometimes!
Not asking will never get you to your destination
I love pussies and adore nice dicks


Brownie202 67F  
2680 posts
6/27/2021 9:40 am

 Would slap you if not worse. I don't go for that online.
Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth.

If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.


nsnguystill 71M
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6/27/2021 9:00 am
    Quoting Johnny53s:
    I ran into this chick. I mean I ran up against her. She was hot. So I approached her. I just wanted to fuck her. So why can't I just be honest. With no pretenses. Tell her I want her to come over so we can fuck.
because you're chicken
because you're shy
because you're... how should we know
because the thought of her saying YES eludes you
but
butt you know how the saying goes ... better to try and fail, than stand by and watch opportunity walk away
bonne vie
there is a world of difference between insane and stupid


seems6666 53F  
4838 posts
6/27/2021 8:26 am

 Hmmmm... not sure the bull in a china shop approach would work with a stranger!


Sessiey 43F
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6/27/2021 7:39 am

 I'm just going to respond based on my own experience, which could be complete opposite many other women's.
NOW you could tell me that. It would probably turn me on. Anytime from even maybe a year to 3ish and prior, helllllls no.
Again, I speak for no other women; but I have only just now begun to actually want, need, and desire sex. Before that, I would do anything to avoid it. For me, this happened as I creeped into my late thirties, AND as I realized 'abuse' and got away from all those types, hence freedom.
Hopefully other women will answer and give their experience too


Johnny53s 55M
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6/27/2021 7:15 am

 I ran into this chick. I mean I ran up against her. She was hot. So I approached her. I just wanted to fuck her. So why can't I just be honest. With no pretenses. Tell her I want her to come over so we can fuck.


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