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Blogs > Eviloutlaw1 > A rather special night

Bi Curious.......  

Eviloutlaw1 62M
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10/16/2012 3:19 am

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Travel_Couple69 58M
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10/16/2012 6:20 am

 This debate flares up time and again - when is one bi curious or bisexual..in the posting groups on here that we frequent bi-couples get pretty anxious about it, but that's because just about all have the bi bait and switch experience where the guy claimed to have some level of bi comfort, but short on the follow through, focusing on the female.

In our experience the only consistency is inconsistency..we've met self-labeled bi curious that were awesome and bisexuals that were pretty lame, and you are right - it's about compatibility - and we now focus much less on the labels and more on what the person conveys to us. However, a person listing themselves as bi-curious or the "closet bi" listing themselves as straight on their profile, usually design their narrative and down play the bi aspect, due of course to the stigma surrounding bi/gay males so they can reach the wider straight audience. The effect is that this does little for bi couples to discern those with real bi desires from the fence sitters, passive bi, cock lickers and liars. The onus is then on the individual to really reach us with their email, but that seems to be a lost art in of itself - we can count on one hand the best intro emails that we've received of the hundreds that have been deleted containing one line.

We recently agreed with another couples blog, that meeting folks for one off, take the sex as you find it, zip down - zip up in and out, is easy. Having high quality, developing trust, pushing boundaries and getting to know the other person so that both sides can have a truly mind opening sexual experience, well that takes work - few are likely willing given this site and others like it, promotes the randomness of sex and variety of "willing, nubile" partners.


Eviloutlaw1 62M
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10/16/2012 6:21 am

 Yes, it does have a lot to do with the social stigma, that in itself is a double standard as well. If your male, you mustn't confess to being bisexual. What would the guys at the office, or the buddies at the hunt club think? Now for the women, it's socially acceptable to be bisexual, hell most guys would give their eye tooth to be with such a female. It's all rather silly when you get right down to it.


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