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Visual orgasms  

futsep19 53M
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1/13/2020 10:49 pm
Visual orgasms

There are few things in this life that give me more satisfaction than seeking pleasure to a woman. I conceive sex with that primary objective, to make my partner "die of pleasure". If that doesn't happen, sex makes no sense to me. My orgasm doesn't motivate me, but hers do so, and the more she has, the better for me. That moment in which I see and feel how she shivers with pleasure fills me in such a way that I would not need to have an orgasm. It makes me feel “macho”, man, lover, sexy, attractive, powerful ... After her first orgasm, I continue acting to take her to the second, and to the third ..., until she begs me not to continue, until she is ecstatic, until she is completely full of pleasure.

I have the bad luck of not enjoying this kind of sex at home, but luckily, my physique and my intelligence have allowed me to enjoy it outside the house with beautiful and intelligent women, and especially women that love good sex. Yes, I know, infidelity is not right, but is it okay for a wife not to fulfill her husband's sexual desires? From my point of view, apart from being a complete stupidity on her part, it only encourages the husband to seek out what he does not find at home. We are rational beings, yes, but also animals, and there are some basic needs that cannot be ignored.

Obviously, our ego plays a fundamental role in this matter. The idea of not being "good in bed" is frustrating. I wondered again and again what I was doing wrong to not be able to enjoy sex fully, I talked to my wife, I asked her to guide me, but nothing. Until I decided to try other women. It is true that the morbidity of doing it with your lover far exceeds that of having sex with your usual wife, but I needed to check if I was able to really give pleasure to a woman. It was a matter of ego. Being an attractive and poorly fucked did not fit into my plans and depleted my self-esteem. I wanted to enjoy the honey of sex and check if I was able to give pleasure. And I did it.

I am lucky to enjoy with good lovers, exceptional women with whom I have established stable and authentic, sincere and clear parallel relationships, without lies. "This is what it is," and if it is accepted by both of us, the perfect tune comes, that in which her orgasms can come without even touching her, just looking at me while we take some tapas in a bar.

The truth is that I never thought about silent orgasm. When I first lived it, I was freaking out for a while. One day I was with my lover, chatting animatedly about work issues. It was a spectacular day, one of those many wonderful days we enjoy in the Costa del Sol, heat, blue sky, sea breeze ... Suddenly she began to move her hip slightly, almost imperceptibly, and soon I saw how her legs got wet to soak the floor. I was stunned looking at the puddle she had left at her feet and asked her: have you had an orgasm? She was not able to respond with words, she simply smiled and closed her eyes reflecting the absolute pleasure on her face.

That day I checked to what extent I can provide pleasure to a woman, without even touching her. Obviously the mind plays a transcendental role in this, the connection we had was such that there was no need for contact to reach an orgasm. It was the first of many unforgettable experiences. I loved it, I love it.


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