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Understanding Polyamorous  

ForbiddenKittie 36F
16 posts
1/12/2020 1:01 pm
Understanding Polyamorous

Now I am married to an older guy of 54.Recently I met up with a couple and during our conversation of the night we touched on the subject of my polyamorous nature. “I don't understand how that works" she said “ how can you be in love with one person but also care for others? If you love one person then surely that's all you need.”
“How many friends do you have?” I asked. “Several” she replied. “Do you love only one of them or all of them?” “All of them” she said, “but they are just friends. They don't share a significant part of my life.” “But if a new best friend came along, would you stop loving the others?” “No” she replied, slightly confused and quiet.
“Ok, let's take it further then. How about a . Do you have one?” “Actually, I have two” she answered. “When the first was born, you were completely in love with them very quickly?” “Yes, she said". “But presumably when the second was born, you stopped loving the first because you'd moved on….” “of course not!” she answered . “And if a third came along, then your love for the other two would be relatively diminished?” “Not at all. I'd still love them exactly the same".
“Now then” I said “you understand being polyamorous”


OlBlueEyz46 57M  
769 posts
1/12/2020 9:07 pm

That was a nice explanation.

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OldDirtyMan2019 70M  
57 posts
1/15/2020 2:20 pm

That's a great way of explaining it


Leegs2012 51M
96137 posts
1/19/2020 10:33 am

Great post!!!


BiCocoTemptation 52M
3 posts
1/22/2020 9:53 pm

Very well explained, I like it.


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