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Nerves  

louiseishere87 36F
17 posts
12/14/2019 3:47 am
Nerves


How do get over nerves of actually meeting someone from here?

Minim01 49M  
37 posts
12/14/2019 4:02 am

Just chat to begin with, to see if there's any mutual attraction and just remember your partner, no matter how experienced, could be just as nervous about any potential meets .


Hotguynkc22 42M

12/14/2019 4:11 am

Nerves are good, use protection


rockitdog72 51M
105 posts
12/14/2019 4:17 am

I remember sitting in my car debating if i was goi g to go through with it. I was so damned nervous i wasnt sure i would even be able to perform. I told myself at some point "this is what you wanted. Now juat get out of the car!" It ended up being one of the hottest experiences of my life. Just be safe and probably do a public meeting first.


bitchkitty2017 71F

12/14/2019 4:35 am

Well i suppose it would be debatable depending on what you are meeting that other person for ..There are people who can put you at ease by just chatting with you and then there are those who do meets on a regular basis ..those who do that would be the ones i would watch out for...if they are you will know and dont let them talk you into not using protection kind of like you dont know where their dick been last ...use your gut feeling and womens intuition it works if you let it...good luck


horny_bob65 59M  
12 posts
12/14/2019 4:37 am

A public meeting in a restaurant or bar is a good idea. Then you take it to the next level or just simply walk away.


ltrskr 75M

12/14/2019 4:42 am

Sometimes u just have to say "WTF"!

Turtles never get anywhere unless they stick their neck out....

Good Luck!


Allhard4u50 62M
1725 posts
12/14/2019 4:55 am

It's tough. I remember talking with a woman over a year.....here, email, phone before I got enough courage to meet her. I just felt at that time she was not after anything except NSA sex like me. We met and it worked out great.....we had so much fun playing.


LetsGetIt450 41M
7 posts
12/14/2019 6:54 am

Have a couple drinks and meet in public


Cum_Happy 110M
2824 posts
12/14/2019 8:23 am

Do things that give you peace of mind . . .
Meet in public
Have as much accurate information about the person before hand
Let at least one close friend know when and where you are going.

And finally, in the tradition of: "What About Mary" . . .
Masturbate right before you go!

Be safe, have fun!

Anything done half-heartedly will net you an equivalent result. ~CH


Leegs2012 51M
96137 posts
12/14/2019 10:52 am

You can Chat and if you like the vibe, go from there. But always be safe and careful.
Welcome to Blog Land!!


profcoquin27bis 59M
4323 posts
12/15/2019 9:01 am

meet in public


up4fun751 54M  
44 posts
4/19/2020 12:50 am

Personally, I have always let the woman decide where the first meet should be to help put her at ease & go along with it. Having said that, I'm always nervous too lol


Luvsilkscarves 57M

5/17/2020 4:33 am

It's surprising what happens - you kind of trust your intuition and then verify when you meet in a safe place. You can still walk away!


OldDirtyMan2019 70M  
57 posts
7/8/2020 2:36 pm

Meet for a drink and/or meal and have some flirting. Talk on the phone first perhaps too....xxx


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