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HOW TO BE A BETTER LOVER
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HOW TO BE A BETTER LOVER Many people want become better lovers. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ We remember how in our late teens we were googling things like: “how have orgasms during sex”, and: “how give the best licking /blowjob”. I thought these were the keys being an amazing lover. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ What I came realise is that the deepest orgasms come when you let go of the need have an orgasm at all. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ I also realised that being a great lover has nothing do with knowing any technique. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ A great lover is someone who is total in their loving. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ It is someone who can approach love making as a meditation, who knows how to be present with themselves and their partner and follow the simple truth of the moment. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ A great lover is someone who has done the inner work of releasing their sexual shame. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ A great lover is someone who doesn’t try to please or impress. A great lover is someone who goes into sex with a full yes. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ And the biggest secret to being a great lover is actually doing what YOU really love and want to do. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ That’s it, that’s the key. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ When you do what you really love doing you are going to be amazing at it for sure. There is just no other way. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ When you are doing things aiming to please or satisfy the other person... (even if it feels very noble to you “I am so giving, I put the other first!”)... it may feel nice in the beginning, but inevitably it’s going to leave both partners very<b> frustrated. </font></b>⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Because in truth - you can never fulfill the other person. The best you can do is invite them into discovering their own pleasure, through being fulfilled yourself. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ This is the real magic that a great lover can offer: through the portal of your own shameless pleasure you are helping your loved one to be free.  |
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