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Stalkers aren't cool
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Stalkers aren't cool So last week after chatting with a few people here and there off the site I arrived in a new town for a business trip. One particular gentleman I'd chatted with asked if I had any plans while in town, so I mentioned that I might like to eat at a particular restaurant that was one of my faves. For context I did not say when I would eat there- I was going to be in town for several days. I did not say it would even be day. I did not say what hotel I was staying in or any other specifics- I am smarter than that. But anyway, earlier in the day this individual wanted to trade face pics, and once I sent mine he did not reciprocate. I get it to some extent- especially if you are not a match attraction wise, but he acted like he was attracted and continued to chat. Said he didn't want to send me a face pic because in the past he'd had a bad experience. Now from my end, I told him without a pic of you I am not moving forward. I don't know if there is an attraction to make me want to meet, and secondly if something goes awry, for safety reasons I need a pic of you. He continued to chat even though I was a little less responsive as he refused on the pic. Now fast forward a couple hours... I got all checked in to the hotel and was debating where to eat. Wriggling back and forth between a restaurant adjacent to the hotel or the earlier mentioned fave which would require a short drive. I decided in the end on the fave, and took off for a solo meal (which was fabulous)! I caught up on some work, texted a few friends, payed for my meal and left. Got back to the hotel, brushed my teeth, put my hair up, changed into PJs and settled in for a night of netflix. Then I got a message. "How was (restaurant x)?" Now I didn't tell this guy or anyone else I was heading there, so I was confused. I said "It was good, were you there?" He responded "Were you wearing a black checked shirt?" I paused a minute, then said "No, navy striped. Were you there??" He said "I walked past your table to make sure it was you." Now at this point I was irritated. The guy did not have the courage send me a pic of his face but then apparently went to the restaurant I had casually mentioned I *might* go to one day that week and camped out watching for me. Then had the balls to walk right past my table, stare to confirm it was in fact me, and not say anything all. You guys, that admission by him was<b> weird. </font></b>"Why did you not speak and tell who you were??" I asked. "Because it would seem stalkerish" came the reply. I have to agree, but did not say so. He then changed his course of action and tried get me to come outside the parking lot of the hotel and then I could "see his face". In other words, not only did he sit the restaurant in complete anonymity and watch me eat, smile, work, and text with friends, but he followed me back to where I was staying. You guys, he followed my car! And I had no idea what he looked like at all! I told him several times no, I am not coming downstairs. Show me your face. I let him know I was not happy with his little games. He refused. The last message from him said he was at (a location adjoining the hotel) jacking off in the parking lot if I wanted come and see his face. I assured him I did not and blocked him. So guys- I get there are not a lot of real females on this site. I understand how it can be a feeding frenzy for those of us who are real and you can get excited once your initial reaching contact is met with reciprocity. But if you ever message a female (who is nice and responds) and then you refuse show her your face, stalk her first a restaurant and then her hotel, demand she come downstairs without knowing who you are, and then invite her somewhere watch you jack off WHILE SHE STILL DOES NOT KNOW WHO THE FUCK YOU ARE I cannot imagine any scenario goes well for you. Like seriously? The next morning as I was on way work meetings I watched various businessmen milling around in the lobby, businessmen getting into and of their vehicles the parking lot outside, and all I could do was wonder if one of them was him. So if you want to the game that you won't show me who you are because you've had a bad experience, you can rest assured I am done talking. I will assume you are a stalker or sex offender or someone who wishes me harm. And ain't nobody got time for that! |
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Very likely one of them was him, this is fucked up stuff. I have met one and only one lady where I hadnt seen her face, and she hadnt seen mine. It turned out great but this is not something that would happen normally with me and shouldnt for anyone. Aut viam inveniam aut faciam Tips for Guys to Meet Women  Things i miss most about relationships
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He sounds creepy. I’m betting he is married and butt ass ugly. You dodged a loser.
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That was definitely creepy
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11/26/2019 1:13 pm |
No no he doesn’t have my phone number thank God!! Was messaging me through here!!
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1/20/2020 5:14 am |
So sorry..ruins it for all!
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