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"Hey, I saw you viewed me..."  

Rochblue 46F
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12 posts
11/20/2019 12:07 pm
"Hey, I saw you viewed me..."

Any other women get these emails or IM's? Ok, so I occasionally do view people's profiles just for the hell of it and for various reasons, really. Sometimes I do it just because someone/something caught eye (a pic of sorts or a cheesey heading), other times it's merely for entertainment get a chuckle of the high standards people seek, the low IQ of what is reflected the reader and of the impossible goals of which those men here actually seek or expect find. In addition, I'll also view profiles for other reasons, such as gather information about a potential someone (testimonials, marital status, age, location, etc..) or view their pics/videos, or read through their blog section, or be a Sherlock Holmes and piece together things don't make sense by person, etc..

Let's face it, there are a million reasons why someone (a woman) might view another person's profile (a man). Even more complicated realize a majority of the time, the site sends false notifications and I have never viewed anyone.
It should be noted by hovering over someone's profile on the main home page, when a dropdown box of some profile info is being shown, then is considered a "profile view notification" on the other person's end, whether it's intentional or merely by chance/mistake.

It should also be noted profile views from a woman are next to none of taking a serious interest in person as far as chatting or considering meets. It's comical then always get random emails or IM's from members here saying "Hey, I saw you viewed me...", as if it's game on and just because someone has viewed their profile, automatically it means person is interested in them. Not true all. What it probably means is it's by error, by<b> curiosity </font></b>of content, by comical entertainment or by some reason of negativity rather than of positivity.

So the next time you all get "profile views", it likely means nobody has a serious interest in you due whatever the various circumstances are on your profile. Just a heads-up all of the "Hey, I saw you viewed ... (therefore you must be interested in )" type of guys there. Food for thought. 99% of profiles are laughable, most due to visual or content, vagueness or outrageous and impossible goals.

Just two cents worth on the topic, since I have recurring messages in inboxes on the topic.

s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
11/22/2019 12:04 am

 If definitely makes sense to join a site in hopes of connecting with someone that might strike our interests and turn out to be a decent honest person.Here it's a ulterior motives for looking and rarely for taking anyone serious.They hide who they are and write a rather sexually suggestive profile with expectations that makes one wonder what side of the holy father they're seated on.So it must be more about the attention one garners with their naked body parts.They get inundated with messages and most are just a bunch of disrespectful asshole who badger women for sex to the point where everyone becomes a dime a dozen and all guys think that by a womans mere presence here that she has given up the right to consent and are willing to do anybody. A serious plague that renders the site rather useless.

Sure people are serious.Seriously apprehensive and so paranoid about anyone one else that it actually seems to defeat anyone or at least anyone with honest intentions purpose.
Using more than all the road!


Rochblue replies on 11/26/2019 12:18 pm:
You make some really good points here. There is seriously a lot wrong with why this site as a whole simply just doesn't work for people anymore. Big issues that span over various topics, such as: poor behavior, ignorance, technology (i.e.: mobile phone use), treating this site as porn, trolls, catfish, the site as a business (i.e.: fakes, bots, limitations, restrictions and all kinds of 'supposed' systemic errors, false notifications, baiting for profit, etc...) and so on and so on... And because of much of the idiotic and rude behaviors of the majority of the bottom-feeding men around here, there is a VERY imbalanced gender ratio that women rarely even exist here. Of course, the real women have been replaced by fakes to keep the illusion going and the site remaining a profitable business under that illusion that plenty of women exist and are willing to meet. Farthest thing from the truth!

Real women do exist here in limited quantities and we're usually always the ones who are very selective, 'clicky' with our small circle of friends, don't meet, use the site for social media stuff, or are simply overwhelmed and bombarded by literally hundreds of offers that we simply don't/can't respond to men.

So yeah, there is a ton of things wrong around here which are all counterproductive of how this site works and how it used to be here years ago. I know this stuff is a bit off topic from my blog, but it all seemingly ties in with the nonsense. Oh, I could go on and on with breaking down each and every topic I just described into sub-sections and by doing so it gets worse and worse in understanding why things don't work.

Overall, it's like this in the big picture (generalizing): Men are led to believe under the illusion that REAL women are not only plentiful around here, but that we are all willing to meet and have sex with men and to do so pretty much immediately. Laughable! They then assume (without bothering to read profiles) that we're all here to meet and have sex. Again, laughable! Then the very moment a woman views a profile (for the various reasons I have described in the blog above), immediately the thought is: A woman viewed me, therefore she is interested in me to meet and to have sex with me...and of course, once again, laughable mentality! And so the never-ending cycle of idiocy continues like a recycling machine of people who don't bother reading (ignorance), assuming, blindly (by choice) reaching out in inquiry, then getting let down and frustrated by the circumstantial outcomes and by the competition, then getting rude or ignoring/blocking women and talking down to us, only then to have women disappear from site for good, only then to have men scratching their heads and wondering why none of us exist here, why none of us bother to chat to men or why almost none of us have any interest or desire to be on site or to meet men. This is a HUGE problem!

Thanks for your comment!

missthee 58F  
4511 posts
1/17/2020 1:32 am

 Interesting discussion here.
It's a phenomenon that social scientists hopefully will one day explain to us, the illogical expectations men have of the real women who are active here. It is indeed laughable, expecting women to behave and respond as if we are living out a porn fantasy where common sense, and common decency, is not applicable.

Having said that, I've never received those type of messages. Apparently the setting for Viewing Activity Visibility (under Privacy Preferences) actually works. And keeping my fingers crossed it doesn't get infected by a bug, like the rest of the site !!!

* "You can choose to become ‘invisible’ when you browse other members’ profiles. This setting allows you to view other members’ profiles without showing up on their ‘Who’s Viewed Me’ list."


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