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Honesty Is Such A Lonely Word . . . on AFF
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Honesty Is Such A Lonely Word . . . on AFF From Billy Joel’s “Honesty” Honesty is such a lonely word Everyone is so untrue Honesty is hardly ever heard And mostly what I need from you Wow, Billy Joel certainly nailed Senior Sizzle, didn’t he? Does being honest doom failure here? So far it does for . Over a few years, different names (I changed when I signed up recently after a lengthy absence), I have had DINNER with someone I met here. And thinking back that was a pure fraud as that person solely wanted a meal of . Her profile wasn’t close accurate and I learned a lesson not be so quick meet. favorite was the woman refused Skype AFTER we had phone sex. Well, be honest, SHE had phone sex as I spent 40 minutes seducing her (about 500 miles apart) and given the volume of sound SHE was enjoying herself . . . then after that I basically put the phone down and listened her moan for another half hour before I finally got bored and hung up without her ever communicating again. That was kind of<b> weird. </font></b>When I read so many of these profiles, I scratch head. There’s woman in area and age complains in her profile that the site is going down fast but when I a respectful note asking get know each other there’s no response. Why complain if you won’t engage? I know that as an attached man looking for an affair (don’t bother with ‘try Ashley Madison’, that was just as bad with fake stuff and few lived down here anyhow) that is asking more than the average, but if the profile states it at least give where is due! Maybe the Beatles were the better choice for the title . . . From: Help! Won’t you please, please help ? Well, that sounds a little too dramatic and self-pitying so we can ignore that ! There has be SOMEONE in area! Or Big City Fish in Boca will become second home pretty soon. |
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11/10/2019 3:00 pm |
First blog was about sexual fantasy and companionship, maybe it was too long for many. Hope this stirs a few women in my area and age range to drop me a note!
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When I read so many of these profiles, I scratch my head. There’s one woman in my area and age who complains in her profile that the site is going down fast but when I send a respectful note asking to get to know each other there’s no response. Why complain if you won’t engage? You obviously were not what she was looking for. No point in "engaging" with someone who doesn't meet preferences. NO response is a response.
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11/10/2019 3:29 pm |
Actually, when you read her profile we fit very well. That's the frustrating part. At least reply to the message I send! Can't complain about rudeness if that is how you treat others. Thanks for checking out the Blog! See if you like the other one better!
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Not even sure what to make of this
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"Actually, when you read her profile we fit very well." Did her profile say she was looking for someone who's attached? You assume you fit with what she's looking for. Perhaps she has a different opinion. Pagan  Hmmmm....I know I left that wand around here somewhere!
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You are in a difficult position but don't stop being honest. In the long run, it's the best way to be. Good luck. ps...when replying to a comment, use Quote or Respond. That way the person you are replying to will get notified that there's a response. Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!
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Does being honest doom failure here? .... No. You can be honest and still fail. But why be honest in public , when you are only looking for one or two people that fit into what you want? In public, being NOT completely honest is best. In private, being honest [about everything] is also NOT always best. "Honesty.......And mostly what I need from you". Ever hear of the expression, "Anything you say can be used against you"? Well it does NOT always mean,, only in a court of law. In relationships , too. I have had DINNER with someone I met here. ... Never do that, unless they buy their own meal. that person solely wanted a meal out of me . ... Yep , that's why you should not spend on women who have done nothing to deserve you spending your money on them. Her profile wasn’t close accurate and I learned a lesson not be so quick meet. .... Actually being quick to meet is better. You find out stuff faster [about them]. Making far less of your own time wasted. The lesson should be , "Don't spend your money on women who have done nothing to deserve it." Go ahead and meet as soon as possible. Better sooner , than later.
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11/10/2019 6:27 pm |
My profile only gives about 5% of the story. If you knew it all you wouldn't say that. No need to embarrass the partner.
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11/10/2019 6:31 pm |
"Actually, when you read her profile we fit very well." Did her profile say she was looking for someone who's attached? You assume you fit with what she's looking for. Perhaps she has a different opinion. I would also assume if they list they are married or attached then it really shouldn't be an issue. Is there a better way to handle it?
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11/10/2019 6:34 pm |
You are in a difficult position but don't stop being honest. In the long run, it's the best way to be. Good luck. ps...when replying to a comment, use Quote or Respond. That way the person you are replying to will get notified that there's a response.
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