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" No Such Thing As the Perfect Person"
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" No Such Thing As the Perfect Person" Hey! I find a lot of men on this site very funny, they sound exciting and sure do know how to Woo a Lady even a Mature BBW Cougar.... I guess you could say they seem to walk the walk and talk the talk.... After a while of Wooing me I get the question lets go someplace else to chat, where the chatting is much better.... I find most want hang out... fine... so I go there with select individuals that I am attracted to and who has my attention... Well I met such a gentleman on Friday and his pictures were gorgeous and his profile said all the right things. Our chat was productive in saying all the right things... We go to hang out and he kept wanting to do<b> face time </font></b>on Hang out, but he could only see me... (?) then he wanted me to bare all to him even though I could not see him (?)( I did NOT since I could not see him I just waved and smiled) Then something just rang in my head that I need to hear his voice, but he said yes, later (?) after a while I insisted on the phone call to hear his sexy voice , he just blow past my request.... he keeps chatting about our mutual likes and desires for each other.... Then I insisted again on a phone call to me. He got up set with me and my unsaid works of .... I shared with him my experiences with men over the last two years.... Then he shared about his cell phone experiences and having to change his phone .... I understood, but we still had a problem.... (Well on the Senior Sizzle site I have my VERIFACATION I am real and who I say I am …. he had nothing, but a standard member ship and great profile.... ) So since I could not see him on<b> face time </font></b>the phone call was important before I was willing to chat any farther about me and anything else... We ended our chat and to be continued at a later time.... Today I went to our Hangout to post a comment about our prior conversation after I finished my comment I hit send to have it there when he came on site.... Then these BIG RED LETTERS POPPED UP (HAHA!) YOU HAVE BEEN BLOCKED... Well I was shocked at first and then blocked him in return to get him out of my computer incase he changed his mind at a later date... I got to thinking... My first red flags the (?) were right to notice and for me to insist on the phone call to hear his voice. My experience is the voice on the other end is always a foreign man always with the same accent.... at which time I always block because they are scammers... Even on a date site I am not sure what the purpose is other than to get in my computer.... My word of advice to all you men and ladies Please watch for the red flags. If is to good to be true 99% of the time it is not true. Listen to your head and not your heart, even as naïve as I am I have learned for really bad experiences what just can and will go wrong.... Be careful who you let in your computer or Cell Phones on unprotected sites, because it can you more than a simple disappointment.... It could you every thing you have wise and your sanity... Thank you, for reading my Blog. Please feel free to comment, express your opinion, thoughts , experiences and ideas... I enjoy reading your responses..   
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11/11/2019 4:55 pm |
Red flags are very important for all of us to recognize. The "too good to be true" is a proper clue for us to look the other way or be overly cautious.
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11/11/2019 4:33 pm |
Hi Sally! I agree with you on paying attention to the red flags. Sorry that happened to you. I had a similar situation not that long ago with a lady telling me she got my phone number (luckily it's not my real cell) from her friend's phone but wouldn't tell me the friend's name. She told me the only way she feels comfortable is through texting only then she would agree to meet. I didn't agree to those terms and said farewell. I believe all involved need to feel comfortable. If that guy had been serious the two of you would have been able to find a common ground satisfying both. Happy hunting!!
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