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bi males and how the double standard we are still discriminated against
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bi males and how the double standard we are still discriminated against I am a 64 year old bi male I have been bi since I was 12. Back then anything bi male or female, gay lesb. was all taboo now gay, lesb., and especially bi women is widely excepted. But not bi men. I am a sex addict and I spend a lot of time researching sex men women their sex organs pleasure points and how to please them. As a bi married male whos wife knew I was bi before we were married and that was 41 years ago that bi males are lets say view like the bi and gay and lesb. were viewed 50 years ago. According to statistics, 60% of all males have bi tendencies whether they act on it or not. Thats a lot of men out there that are still in the closet and can't have their needs fulfilled. Thats a shame! I have been on a lot of<b> sex sites </font></b>looking for a bi male and it is amazing how many married med contact me and their wives don't know. The problem is and this is why I don't mess with them is 1 they can never get away and 2 if they do they feel so guilty that they don't come back and so many try to turn to this because their wives don't put out anymore. So for a minute I will take a turn here. my opinion and we all know opinions are like assholes we all have them. Let me give you a scenario. you get married and all is good till one day your spouse wakes up and says I don't like steak or chocolate. So because you are married you can no longer have steak or chocolate or what ever. Would that work? No of course not. So why if your spouse says I no longer want or am interested in sex dose that mean you for the rest of your life can't have sex? One of the strongest instincts we have is to propagate the species but because we are married we can't. So now we have to fight weather to cheat or go without and be miserable. They say you don't go out for hamburger if you got steak at home. but if you have nothing at home a burger looks pretty good. Ok back to bi men. So can someone tell me why its ok for a women to eat pussy and its not ok for a man to suck dick? To me and I know I don't think like the normal person. But sex is making a person feel good weather its a women or a man whats wrong with that. If I like to please a man dose that make me less of a man? I don't see how. I think being bi either male or female lets enjoy the best of both worlds. I knew I was bi when I started dating my wife and when tings got serious and marriage was discussed I knew I couldn't go the rest of my life suppressing my needs. So we had a 3some with my friend and in the middle of it I starting sucking his cock my now wife was a little shocked because to look at me you would never suspect I was bi but it turned her on much like men like to watch 2 women. So it worked out ok but if it hadn't I would have broke up and found someone that would except me for who I am not what they want me to be. I can't and won't advise anyone else what to do if your in this situation I can only tell my story. I hope some day we can get over the macho bullshit and except people for who and what they are. I welcome any comments and discussion on this subject thanks for taking you time to read this. |
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10/16/2019 12:00 pm |
I agree
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