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Standard Member Points  

Littleboy2231 30M
44 posts
9/29/2019 7:12 pm
Standard Member Points


Just curious what everyone thinks of the standard member points that are needed into order to use messenger at all. I've been on this site on and off for about 6 years now, a standard member the whole time. The IM is really the only function I've used.

Honestly, if another website had the IM function like Senior Sizzle, i'd probably just switch over. But even through the glitches I've enjoyed this one. Hoping they switch it back to 3 messages at least

HearmeoutOF 33M

9/29/2019 8:44 pm

I'm not sure what's happening


HARDlyused18 43M
15 posts
9/29/2019 8:50 pm

seems that it now takes up many more points than it used to, which is limiting the number of users and with it the attractiveness of the function. Imagine the traffic if they didnt require points, surely that is a better business model - just sell add space in the IM?


Nawtydiscreet21 46M

9/29/2019 8:51 pm

I totally agree.


Jdizzle1111 32M
10 posts
9/29/2019 8:56 pm

It sucks


IVFalternative 53M
630 posts
9/29/2019 9:29 pm

Every time you get something for nothing, someone else gets nothing for something.

This may come as a surprise to you but the owners of any site like this don't provide free service as an act of generosity, the reason they do it is to attract PAYING MEMBERS. If you're a long term user who will never pay it makes good business sense to get rid of you.

Complaining that you were only able to be a freeloader for six years doesn't say anything good about you. Freeloading makes sense when you can do it, complaining: no.

Following my advice may cause injury, insanity, financial loss, hemorrhoids, death and superpowers


jajo696 113F
4287 posts
9/29/2019 10:18 pm

    Quoting IVFalternative:
    Every time you get something for nothing, someone else gets nothing for something.

    This may come as a surprise to you but the owners of any site like this don't provide free service as an act of generosity, the reason they do it is to attract PAYING MEMBERS. If you're a long term user who will never pay it makes good business sense to get rid of you.

    Complaining that you were only able to be a freeloader for six years doesn't say anything good about you. Freeloading makes sense when you can do it, complaining: no.
A proud freeloader for 14 years......AND ive learned to roll with the punches ~~

.......a good lesson for life ~


luvfun61550 47M

9/29/2019 10:44 pm

I think I am going to start looking hard at other sites. Fetlife is free.


bitchkitty2017 71F

9/30/2019 12:02 am

    Quoting IVFalternative:
    Every time you get something for nothing, someone else gets nothing for something.

    This may come as a surprise to you but the owners of any site like this don't provide free service as an act of generosity, the reason they do it is to attract PAYING MEMBERS. If you're a long term user who will never pay it makes good business sense to get rid of you.

    Complaining that you were only able to be a freeloader for six years doesn't say anything good about you. Freeloading makes sense when you can do it, complaining: no.
lol you said it pal there hands down cards on the table no bull shit ...the site wants to attract paying members and not those who continually whine about points and whatever crawls across their minds on any certain given day ..its boring as hell to have to read shit like that ...time to weed the garden..lol


dogslife2live01 71M

9/30/2019 4:43 am

to all standard members that complain on open forums about loss of free services...
the women that are members of Senior Sizzle do like sex, or they would be somewhere else
no woman likes to be treated like a cheap piece of meat that does not mean they want men to lavash them with expensive gifts, nor treat them to the most exclusive restaurants. but coffee and a dessert would be a nice gesture, don't you think guys?
i agree (and i have seen it done in my youth) that "hi! you wanna fuck?" may work on the odd woman... but on most it will not even get a reply.
so i ask you men out there...
no not all of you. just the ones that cum to an open forum whining that you can not send FREE IM's anymore
and that it is common knowledge that Im's are just a few points
and that points are a few dollars
and that paid membership is less than a fine meal
how do you think these women feel about your whining that
you are so fuckin' arrogent you would not spend a few cents to contact them.
do you really expect them to screw you when they are thinking of that lovely date with you sharing a large coffee and half a bran muffin at McD's.
come on guys use your upper brain!
if you want to catch a woman's eye... act like a man!
saying from the 80's
if you can't spend a buck... you ain't worth a fuck

there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity


pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
9/30/2019 11:32 am

    Quoting dogslife2live01:
    to all standard members that complain on open forums about loss of free services...
    the women that are members of Senior Sizzle do like sex, or they would be somewhere else
    no woman likes to be treated like a cheap piece of meat that does not mean they want men to lavash them with expensive gifts, nor treat them to the most exclusive restaurants. but coffee and a dessert would be a nice gesture, don't you think guys?
    i agree (and i have seen it done in my youth) that "hi! you wanna fuck?" may work on the odd woman... but on most it will not even get a reply.
    so i ask you men out there...
    no not all of you. just the ones that cum to an open forum whining that you can not send FREE IM's anymore
    and that it is common knowledge that Im's are just a few points
    and that points are a few dollars
    and that paid membership is less than a fine meal
    how do you think these women feel about your whining that
    you are so fuckin' arrogent you would not spend a few cents to contact them.
    do you really expect them to screw you when they are thinking of that lovely date with you sharing a large coffee and half a bran muffin at McD's.
    come on guys use your upper brain!
    if you want to catch a woman's eye... act like a man!
    saying from the 80's
    if you can't spend a buck... you ain't worth a fuck
All of us ladies on here THANK YOU for pointing out what difference a few sense make!!!!!

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lonlyforlove2 81M  
32704 posts
9/30/2019 7:47 pm

    Quoting dogslife2live01:
    to all standard members that complain on open forums about loss of free services...
    the women that are members of Senior Sizzle do like sex, or they would be somewhere else
    no woman likes to be treated like a cheap piece of meat that does not mean they want men to lavash them with expensive gifts, nor treat them to the most exclusive restaurants. but coffee and a dessert would be a nice gesture, don't you think guys?
    i agree (and i have seen it done in my youth) that "hi! you wanna fuck?" may work on the odd woman... but on most it will not even get a reply.
    so i ask you men out there...
    no not all of you. just the ones that cum to an open forum whining that you can not send FREE IM's anymore
    and that it is common knowledge that Im's are just a few points
    and that points are a few dollars
    and that paid membership is less than a fine meal
    how do you think these women feel about your whining that
    you are so fuckin' arrogent you would not spend a few cents to contact them.
    do you really expect them to screw you when they are thinking of that lovely date with you sharing a large coffee and half a bran muffin at McD's.
    come on guys use your upper brain!
    if you want to catch a woman's eye... act like a man!
    saying from the 80's
    if you can't spend a buck... you ain't worth a fuck
I want to second what the "Gentlemen said, if you cant Walk the Walk, just unplug, stop running your mouth, it's not like it is a car payment!! Show these ladies that you are not so stingy that a few cents ( "sense" by pocogato12) will make a difference,
Good words Young Man......

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